- Our primitive brain is hardwired to keep going back to what's familiar. And our brain is like that. How we survive on the planet is by going back to what's familiar and avoiding what's unfamiliar. Oh, it's nice to have
an abundant audience. So do you know what abundance means? Anyone know what abundance means? Put your hand up. Not enough people, but that's good. Abundance means a lot of
everything all the time. Who here was told as a kid, you can have everything all the time, just go out and you can have it all. Anyone ever told that? You can have it all, all the time, anyone? Isn't that amazing? None of us get told, hey, life is great. You're in the womb and
it's Hawaii in there. It's 75 degrees, you have
24-hour room service, whatever you want, it's there. You're always connected to a person, you hear their heartbeat,
they take you around. But you're never lonely, never hungry, always get served. And so babies come onto the
planet with this great idea, ah, I can have everything all the time. No baby says, you know, my
mom's been up all night, I really shouldn't cry, it's 5:00 a.m. She's kind of sleep derived. No baby says, you know, my
mum went to Planet Organic and got this broccoli which I can't stand, but it was expensive, it was
organic, then she pureed it, so I shouldn't go bloop
all over this T-shirt that she just spent ages
bleaching and ironing. They don't care, because they have this belief that says I can have
everything all the time. So abundance means you can
everything all the time. And we're born with this great belief, I can everything all the time. And I'm remember saying
to my little girls once at Christmas time, I
said, "What do you want?" She said, "Well mummy
I want a Barbie palace and a horse and a swimming pool." And I said, "That's a lot of stuff," And she said, "Mummy,
you don't understand, Father Christmas doesn't
buy it, the elves make it, it's all free. The elves make stuff and
you tell him what you want and he comes down the
chimney and gives it to you." Because she had the abundance mindset. And if I ever take her
to the store and said, "Do you want a piece of
candy, go and pick some." I mean we don't do a lot of candy, Erik's in the room, so I
have to be very careful about saying I ever took
my child to the store and bought her candy. But every now and again. But I hear these other
mothers saying to their kid, "Get some candy," they're coming out and , "Who do you think you are? You can't have that, do you
know how expensive that is?" And then kids begin to think,
oh I shouldn't ask for stuff. I asked my dad and he got really upset, when I'm not made of money,
who do you think I am? I can't find the money, we
don't have that kind of money. It doesn't grow on trees. Whereas my little girl one day said to me, "Mummy you should never
argue about money with daddy, 'cause if you go to the
bank, they give it to you." 'Cause that was her belief. You go in, give them a piece of paper and they give you money. And then you put this
plastic thing in the wall and the wall gives you money. And she really believed that, that you just put something in a wall. 'Cause she said to me once, "Mommy can I have one of
those American Express cards," she was only about five, but
she had this kind of idea that that's the coolest thing. You have a little card
and you give it to people and they give you whatever you want. So, I'm only telling you these stories because children have this
belief, I can have everything. Or until they start to hear this stuff. I don't know where to find the money. But you don't go out and find money, you make money, you monetize your gifts. But you know, we learn
half of what we learn in our whole life before we're
five, isn't that amazing? Your relationship with money was set before you were five years old. Your relationship with your
health was probably set too, before you were five. And even your relationship
with love was set before you were five. This stunning girl came to see me one day and she went, I don't
know what's wrong with me, but I can't find love, I
just never can find a guy. Everything goes wrong and
I get ghosted and dumped. And to look at her you would have thought that just can't be because
she was breathtaking. But when we were talking, she said, "You know my dad used
to say to me everyday this one statement. You'll never, ever, ever,
ever, ever find anyone to love you like I do. In your whole life, you will
never find anyone to love you like daddy loves you, it's not possible. Nobody could love you like me." And I hear people saying
that all the time. My friend was saying it to her daughter, you'll never find anyone
that loves you like me. I said, "Don't say that, you've got to say I love you so much, and
when you go through life you're going to find people who love you, like I love you, 'cause you're lovable." So when we're kids we're hear
this stuff and we take it in, and before we're five we
don't really have a logic, so we make sense of the world. And we hear people saying,
"My job is killing me." One of my clients were saying that she couldn't ask for money, she said, "You know, I'm an
accountant, I do accounts. But I never send people
bills and my own accountant doesn't understand, I
just can't ask for money." It turns out when she was talking to me, that her parents were both
doctors and they got divorced. And the mother earned
more than the father. But the mother, every time
she went to visit the dad would go, ask him for money. And that little school trip
coming up, and let's say the trip was $50, she goes,
no, tell your dad it's $110. And she said, "I used to have
to say to my dad in the car, I need $110 for the trip
and he knew I was lying, he knew it wasn't that much money. And he looked so sad, but
he'd give me the money." And then my mum would say,
"Ask him for money for a coat, ask him for money for shoes." "She had more money than him. And I remember thinking as a little kid, I'm never going to ask
anyone for money, ever again, when I grow up I will
never, ever ask for money." The mind is very interesting,
your mind does what it thinks you want it to do. If you see your dad get
up everyday and go to work going this job is killing me,
I'm dying under the stress. If I have one more, my boss, I'm just going to jump under a train. We say all these stupid
things but little kids hear it and go, oh, that's what
happens when you go to work, it kills you. Another of my clients was
saying that her dad... She'd get terrible
migraines every weekend, and would say, "That's what
happens, because you know, I work for myself and it's so stressful and that's the price
you pay, the headaches." And she said, "I thought and
I never want to be successful, I don't want that." Now she's in my office saying, "Well why can't I be successful?" And it always goes back
to the stuff you hear. So I'm not really going to
talk to you too much today, because you had a lot of people talking. What I'm going to do if you'd like me to, is do a big session about taking you back and finding all your abundance blocks. Who would like that? Good! Let's do that, it's easier
for me, better for you. But just before we do,
everything begins with a thought. If you don't have love, if
you don't have enough money, if you don't have enough health, somewhere somehow, you've had
a thought that's blocked you. And all our beliefs about money, everything really starts so early. But the great news is you
can change your thoughts. So let's just do a whole session and then if we have enough time, I'll talk through everything at the end. Because I'm a great believer that you don't really want to
hear it, you want to feel it. So, what I'll do if you'd like me to, is we'll all go into
hypnosis, this is not scary. You're not going to go to sleep, actually it's going to wake
you up to your possibilities that you're going to have
whatever you want all the time. I mean a lot of people have
these weird beliefs about money, which is, if I have
more, someone has less. And that's not true, there's
enough money for everyone, it's just not distributed very fairly. But you having more doesn't
mean anyone will have less. And we hear things like, oh rich people, they have sold their soul. I was coming back on a train in London, somewhere, I was coming from somewhere, I think I was coming back
from Edinburgh to London and I was in First Class 'cause my clients put me in First Class. And these two guys
walked into the carriage and went, oh no, this is
where all the poshy's are, we don't want to be here. And they went straight back
to their other carriage, and they didn't even like
the First Class carriage. And I thought that was so interesting that they rejected what that meant. They wanted to be where they wanted to be 'cause I guess it had a bar
and that was more fun for them. But it's really interesting how not only do you have a block, but you will reject stuff
that you're not used to. Our brain, our primitive
brain is hardwired to keep going back to what's familiar. If any of you've ever had children, when they're two they
don't like anything new, they want the same cup. I took my daughter at
great expense to Finland and see Father Christmas. They had elves and huskies and sled rides. Of course she spent
the whole time watching "Little Mermaid" in Finish, which was fine 'cause she's watched it
102 times, she knew exactly what she was saying in Finnish. So next year we'll just
stay home and get some Swedish cartoons and we'll
just do that instead. But she like what was familiar. And our brain is like that. How we survive on the
planet is by going back to what's familiar and
avoiding what's unfamiliar. And that might seem really weird, would you really avoid money? If you haven't had money and you get it, the percentage of people
that win the Lottery and go bankrupt, anyone know
what that percentage is? What do you think? If you won the Lottery
and you haven't been rich and you won millions of dollars, what do you think the percentage
is that you'll be bankrupt in three years, anyone
want to take a guess? - [Female Audience Member] 70? - Over 70 percent, how could that be? You're poor and you become super wealthy, and in three years you're bankrupt. I worked with a guy and
he worked in a factory making cookies, he didn't
earn much money at all. He became so wealthy and in three years he was completely broke. And he said, "I don't like that money. It was horrible, suddenly
my friends when I left my little community and
I bought a big mansion, and no one liked me. And when I went out with
people they'd expect me to pay, and if I did, they went, there
you go again, showing off. And if I didn't pay, they're
like, expect us to pay? You've got all that money. So I just could never get it right. And then I got rid of
it all, now I'm happy." But not just money, if
you haven't had love, if you have not had love
and someone comes along, goes, oh my God, you're
the best thing ever. You go ah, I don't like
him, he was too good for me. What you're really saying is
his behavior is so unfamiliar, I ran back to those guys that never call and flirt with all my friends, because I recognize that behavior. So we do like what's familiar
even if it's bad for us. That's the fact, but the very good fact is you can make anything familiar. Being loved, having
money, being successful, having wealth, having health. But you got to understand
how your mind works. So what we're going to do
is, we'll go into hypnosis and we'll go back to maybe three scenes. We'll go back to one to
do with money blocks, one to do with love blocks, and maybe one to do with health blocks. And it will all work, it always does. Some of you will find it really like that, and others will be, well
I need a bit longer. But it will keep working,
even after the session. You'll go to bed at night
and thoughts will come up, and after you found all the
blocks we get rid of them. 'Cause what I do, is I call it 'I, I, I.' Investigate why on earth
you are the way you are, it's really easy. Interrupt it, and then
install some new beliefs. Code in some better software. So we'll do some investigation,
some interruption and some better installations. All up for that? - [Audience] Yes!
- Cool! So if you've never been
hypnotized before, it's not scary. You're not going to bark like a dog, fall in love with a fire hydrant. You know if hypnosis
could make you do that, every hypnotist would be a billionaire 'cause we'd all say to our
client at the end of the session, just stick three more
zero's on the cheque, or just, you know, when
you pay me with a card, pay me four times. Or I know you keep sending me
flowers, but you know what? I'd really actually like
a Porsche or a Ferrari, I mean I could do that. I have clients who could buy me a Porsche but no one has and I've
never said to them, "Actually I'm a bit bored with the hampers and the Jo Malone candles, now
I'd like to have a Ferrari. I mean you can't make people
do that, so don't worry that you're going to do
what you don't want to do. You're only going to
do what you want to do. So finally, to get into
hypnosis really easy. It requires you to look up like that, keep your eyeballs up,
and close your eyelids, eyelids down while
keeping the eyeballs up. So let's practice, it's so easy. I want you to look up as if you're looking into your eyebrows. Keep your eyeballs up, and keeping them up at the same time close the lids down. And then when you've done that just open your eyes and look at me. So what you don't do is, when
I say, "Close your eyes." You don't do that. You want to go into an Alpha brainwave where you are very suggestible in Theta brain where you
really let good stuff in, and all you have to do to do that, is roll up the eyes, keep
them up, close the lids down. Make sure your phones are off, make sure you're not going to
kick over bottles of water, make sure you're comfortable. Don't sit with your arms
crossed and your legs crossed, try to sit in an open position. We'll do this for about 20 minutes, you'll loose track of time,
you'll really like it. If you feel like you want to
cry when we're doing this, please don't stop, I'm a great believer that feelings are better out than in, they're a bit like gas,
better out than in. Don't try and keep stuff
in, 'cause it's painful, let it out and then you'll feel better. You know your feeling are
the most real thing you have, and we live in a country
we're taught not to, oh you feel something? Eat cake, watch Netflix, have a drink, have another drink, take some medication. Go on eBay and buy
stuff, anything but feel. And I have this belief that I love, you've got to feel your feelings until they no longer require to be felt. And if you push them down
with food or drink or drugs, or shopping or more Jo Malone candles, they just regroup and come back. So whatever you're feeling, don't stop it. Feel it, it's the most
real thing you have. And don't worry about crying or coughing, we're all going to go on our
own journey and you'll like it. So let's start right now. Make yourself comfortable, and I'm going to ask you at
some stage to put your hands out like this as if you're holding
the handle bars of a bike, that's all I'm going to ask you to do. Not like that, and not
like that, like that, okay? Great, let's begin. So look up, put your arms down, I'll tell you when to bring them up. Just make yourself comfortable, look up as high as you possibly can as if you're looking
into your own eyebrows. Keep your eyes glued to a real
or imagined spot overhead, breathe in, and breathe out. That's perfect, and again breathe in and this time every time you blink, you're getting ready to go
into hypnoses, hold it, exhale. One more time, look up as
high as you can, hold it, the more you blink, the
more you're getting ready to go into deep, deep powerful
transformational hypnosis. So keeping your eyeballs
up, just close your eyelids, right down, all that way down. Just close your eyelids down. As your eyelids shutdown, you may feel a fluttering in your
eyelids, that's a great sign. And I want you to draw up your chin so you really feel that same looking down feeling that you might get
as you look over a balcony, or down a flight of stairs,
you're looking down 10 steps. And as I count you're
going to see your feet, hear your feet and feel your
feet treading each step. So it's good time to forget all about trying to keep your eyes up in your head, just drop your chin. You're looking down 10 steps and right now you're moving onto step 10. And you'll probably find
that you can see your feet, hear your feet, and indeed feel your feet contacting each step as you go deeper. You're taking step nine going deeper into an awareness of yourself. You're taking step eight as each muscle, every nerve turns loose,
lets loose and you go deeper. You're taking steps seven and six going deeper with every number I count. You're taking step five. You're halfway down,
you're taking step four as you gently, calmly,
easily go deeper and deeper. You're taking step three,
you're going deeper. With every heartbeat,
you're taking step two and every sound and noise
and movement around you is flowing right through
you as you go deeper and deeper, you're taking
step one just go deeper. Drift deeper, sync deeper, just go deeper, deeper, deeper, deeper. And as you go deeper, hypnosis
is not about being asleep, it's not about being out of control. It's about one thing, are you able to receive
suggestions to let them in? Yes you are, you are highly suggestible, incredibly receptive to suggestions and I'm going to show you how. Stretch your arms out in
front of you right now. As if you're holding onto
the handlebars of a bike or the reigns of a horse. Now I want you to simply
image that in your left hand, you are holding an
enormous red fire bucket filled with about 50
pounds of heavy, wet sand. And as you think about
that bucket full of sand that you're holding in your left hand, you can feel the weight of that bucket moving into your fingers,
traveling into your wrist, moving into your elbow, going
right up to your shoulder. As your left arm becomes
heavier and heavier and heavier by the second. And as your left arm becomes heavier, your whole body is so heavy
it is sinking into the chair. Your eyelids are so heavy
they feel glued shut, but your right arm is not heavy at all, because your right arm
is attached to a pulley. Your right arm is attached to a pulley and also a huge helium filled balloon which is bigger than
you, lighter than air, so absolutely weightless that
your right arm is floating, lifting, moving, pulling and traveling up, your right arm is floating up, moving up. Pulling up, lifting up and
as your right arm floats up, moves up, travels up, you are floating, moving
and traveling deeper and deeper into hypnosis. And you're beginning to
notice something amazing. Your right arm is
weightless and your left arm is weighed down because you
are incredibly suggestible. That is a gift when you give
yourself great suggestions, not so good when you give
yourself negative ones. Today you're going to learn how to code in only good suggestions. So now I want you to notice, that if you even try to
push your right arm down, it's like trying to push
a beach ball under water. It just insists on springing up higher. Try to push your right arm down. It's like trying to push
a balloon underwater, it just goes up higher and higher. And now try to lift that left arm up and it's like someone came along
and encased it in concrete, and the more you try to lift
it up the heavier it is. When I count to three and click my fingers you will let go of the
bucket and the balloon and at least 50 times deeper
on the count of one, two, three just drop your arms
down, go deeper, deeper, deeper, deeper, deeper. And now that you can
see that you can accept and respond to suggestions,
you're going to go back in time, right back to a time when
you were just a little kid and you heard something saw
something, experienced something that really shaped your
relationship with money. Maybe you saw your mom crying 'cause she didn't have enough
money to buy school shoes, maybe your parents fought
about money, maybe your parents had money but they didn't
want to spend it on you, maybe you were the poor kid at school, or the rich kids at school either way, you going to go back and have
a look at what you believed about money when you were five. When you had been on the
planet for just a few years, maybe three, four, five, seven, you formed beliefs about money. And you know what you're
still walking around with these beliefs you
had when you were five, and they're still
affecting you, hurting you, holding you back, limiting you. But today is a day to let them go. So right now on the count
of five your brilliant mind, your extraordinary mind, your genius mind is taking
you way back in time. It's like a movie of your
life is being rewound, it's going backwards,
backwards, backwards, that tape of your life
is playing backwards, it's rolling backwards, winding backwards. You are becoming younger,
smaller, lighter, shorter, you are drifting right
back all the way back, even further back, going right back to his scene, place, event, time. This is to do with where
and how and why you got a limiting relationship with money. On the count of five,
you're becoming younger, on the count of four,
years, months, weeks, days are peeling away from your body. On the count of three and two, you are drifting even further back, traveling back, going
back, back, back, back. On the count of one, right back to a scene that is all to do with where
you formed these beliefs about money, just be there. As I click my fingers, it's rather like you've just switched on a television set, the picture is warming up,
flooding into your mind. And you are right in the
middle of that picture. And as I ask you some questions you know the answer to every one. So here's the first question. The scene in your mind where you are now, is it daytime or nighttime? Are you inside or outside? Are you on your own? Is somebody with you? How old are you about? And here's the only question
that matters in this scene, what are you doing, seeing,
feeling and experiencing? And you can feel it like
it happened yesterday. In fact I'm going to count to
three and click my fingers, as I do your ears are going to open, you're going to hear something that was said to you in that scene, something said about you, to you, right in your line of hearing, that is all to do with where
you got these limiting, restricting beliefs about money. On the count of one, two
and three, here it comes. Your ears are open and
you can hear right now something being said about money. You're just a kid, but
not only can you hear it, you can also see for the
first time with such clarity how what you saw and heard and experienced then all those years ago, how
that has affected your beliefs about money right up until today. So stay in that scene,
look over, look around, look through that scene. How old are you? What are you feeling? What are you experiencing? What are you hearing? You may hear something like, well rich people sell
their soul for money. People who pursue money are bad people. Spiritual people shouldn't have money. We're not the kind of
people that have money, we can't afford that. Stay in that scene, I
want you to look at it with fascination, even
if it was terribly sad I want you to look at that
scene and I want you to see this is your light bulb
moment, your ah-ha moment, your illuminating moment. Oh look, sure yes, I'm a
little kid but I'm hearing and seeing and experiencing this stuff, and it's how I'm seeing the world. I'm just a kid but this stuff
I'm being told about money is affecting me all these years later. Stay in that scene, look
over it, look around it, look through it. And I want you to put it to one side 'cause we're going to go
back to another scene, all to do with the same block about wealth, success, you being able to monetize yourself. Again on the count of five
you're going back to another vivid, vital, crucial,
absolutely significant scene. That is all to do with
how, why, where and when you got a block about being successful. A block about being wealthy,
a block about being abundant. You're in that time tunnel
again being pulled back, drawn back, taken back,
that movie of your life is being rewound backwards,
backwards, backwards, back you go on the count of five, you are becoming younger,
smaller, lighter, shorter. On the count of four, years are
peeling away from your body. On the count of three and two,
you are drifting right back to a vivid, vital, crucial,
deeply significant scene, that is all to do with how you got a block to being successful, you are
drifting right back, right now. Just be there, as I click
my fingers it's rather like switching on your computer,
the picture is warming up, and you are right in the
middle of this picture. Able to answer each
question, starting now. This scene where you are now is it daytime or is it nighttime? Are you inside or outside? Are you on your own or
is anybody with you? How old are you about? And here's the only question that matters, in this scene you are in, what are you doing, seeing, feeling and experiencing? I want you to feel what you felt then, see what you saw then. And as I count to three
and click my fingers your ears again to open, you will hear exactly what you heard then. Here it comes on the count
of one, two and three, your ears are open. You can hear someone
saying something to you, all about success. And you can see exactly
how what you heard, what was said to you, about you, certainly about your family in your line of hearing how
that's led you to believe that success is not available to you. That you can go so far but no further. That other people can
monetize their talents, but for you it's just too
hard, stay in that scene. Again, this is your
ah-ha moment, look over and around and through that scene and go, oh of course, yes, I see. That's what I saw when I was
a kid, that's what I lived. I learn what I lived in this scene, I can see something going on, I can see the message that I
got about success and wealth alluding my family, and only
being there for other people. And I can see how I've kept that going. We learn what we live. And as a kid you have no choice
but to learn what you live, but today you have a
choice to unlearn that and to install something better. Stay in that scene, look
over it, look around it, look right through it. Because that's not you, it was you, it was your reality, it's not now. And I want you to put
that scene to one side as if you've just gone back
and have a look at a DVD or had a look at a snapshot, and you just putting it
to one side for a minute, as we go back to one more. We're going to go back to a
scene to do with this belief about love their abundant, finding love, keeping love forever. This belief that says you got
to work for love, earn love, chase love, look a
certain way to get love. Which isn't true, love is there for you and you can have it for
the rest of your life without any work required, once you understand the block you have that goes no, I got to have
thin thighs and fat hair. Because if I've got fat
thighs or thin hair, maybe it's not available
to me, that's not true. So let's find out. On the count of five you are drifting back to another vivid, vital, crucial, deep powerful significant scene that is all to do with
why you picked up a belief that real love, lasting,
amazing, deep love is not available to you. On the count of four, you are
becoming younger, smaller, lighter, shorter, drifting right back to another vivid, vital,
crucial, deeply significant scene on the count of three, that
movie of your life is rewinding, going backwards, backwards, backwards, rewinding more and more,
going back years and years. You're becoming younger,
smaller, lighter, shorter, drifting right back on the
count of three, two, one. Just be there as I click my fingers, yet again, it's like you
switched on a television set, a picture is filing up your mind. You are right in the middle
of it and you know exactly where you are, is it daytime or nighttime? Are you inside or outside? Are you on your own? How old are you about? And that's not important, the only important question is this one. What are you doing, seeing, feeling and experiencing in this scene? I want you to feel what you felt then. See what you saw then. And as I click my fingers
I want you to hear exactly what you heard then. On the count of one, two
and three, here it comes. I want you to stay in that
scene of being a small child, where you formed a belief that
love is not available to you or it's such hard work to keep it. Other people can have love
but you got to earn it, work for it, run after
it, be perfect, be good. Stay in that scene, I
want you to see this again as an illuminating ah-ha moment, a light bulb moment. Again you can look at it
and go, yes of course, when I was just that
kid my dad wasn't there, my mum was always at work. And I felt that I wasn't
enough 'cause if I was enough they would have been there,
they wouldn't have fought, he or she wouldn't have left, they wouldn't have preferred
my brother or my sister. My teacher wouldn't have been mean to me. But they were, and
because they were I felt that I was just not lovable enough. And I can see I've carried
that belief with me for all these years, for no other reason than that's how I saw
the world as a child. And no one came along and
said, "But that's not you." But today we're going
to say that's not you. So I want you to go back
to that very first scene, I want you to imagine you're
holding three snapshots, three DVD's in your hand. The first scene where you
went back to the money blocks, the second scene where you went
back to the success blocks, in the third scene where you
went back to the love block. I want you to imagine
you're looking at scene one, you're holding it in your hand. And I'm going to tell you
the truth, that's not you. It was you, but it's not you. And I want you to repeat after
me, this is so important. You've done the investigation, now we're going to do something
called an interruption. You have to interrupt that
belief by saying out loud that's not me because. And when I have you say
this, you're going to give me the because, because I'm not five, because the fact that my
dad left has nothing to do with how I love him, because
the fact that we were poor, doesn't mean I'm not a
genius with something to offer the world. But I want you to give it 1000%, I want you to let go of that old stuff. And then when you let it go,
we can go into the final bit, the installing the coding abundance. So repeat after me,
remember your talking about scene one, the money blocks. I want you to repeat after me, that is not me. - [Audience] That is not me. - Because.
- [Audience] Because. finish that sentence out loud. - I'm going to do this
three times for each scene, stay in scene one and repeat after me. That that cannot be me. - [Audience] That cannot be me. - Ever again.
- [Audience] Ever again. - For the rest of my abundant life. - [Audience] For the
rest of my abundant life. - Because.
- [Audience] Because. I want to hear it. - I want you to justify to me, I want to hear every single persons voice telling me why that's not them. So one more time, still in scene one, that will not be me. - [Audience] That will not be me. - That cannot be me.
- That cannot be me. - [Marisa] Ever again.
- Ever again. - [Marisa] For the rest
of my long gorgeous life. - For the rest of my long gorgeous life. - [Marisa] Because.
- Because. - [Marisa] Shout it out. You're a good audience. So let's do it for scene
two and even better. Scene two when you have
this belief that success, monetizing your gift was not available, I want you to go, that's not me.
- [Audience] That's not me. - That cannot be me. - [Audience] That cannot be me. - [Marisa] I'm not that little kid. - I'm not that little kid. - [Marisa] I will never feel like that. - I will never feel like that. - [Marisa] Ever again.
- Ever again. - [Marisa] Because.
- Because. - And again, still in scene two. You're going to shout it out,
you've got to justify to me why that's not you. I want to go that's not me. - [Audience] That's not me. - For the rest of my long abundant life. - For the rest of my long abundant life. - [Marisa] Because.
- Because. - And let's go to scene
three, this weird belief that because we didn't have
love, it's not available. You know even if your
parents couldn't stand the sight of you, somebody
wanted you to be here. Someone put you here,
they wanted you to be you and they'll support you in everything and giving you everything, but you have got to
believe you're worth it. So let's go to scene three,
where you have the block to feeling lovable enough. And I want to go, that's not me. - [Audience] That's not me. - [Marisa] That will never be me. - That will never be me. - [Marisa] Ever again.
- Ever again. - [Marisa] For the rest
of my long joyful life. - For the rest of my long joyful life. - [Marisa] Because.
- Because. - And again, that cannot be me. - [Audience] That cannot be me. - Ever again.
- [Audience] Ever again. - Never again.
- [Audience] Never again. - Because.
- [Audience] Because. - And one more time,
that will never be me. - [Audience] That will never be me. - Ever again.
- [Audience] Ever again. - For the rest of my long abundant life. - For the rest of my long abundant life. - [Marisa] Because.
- Because. - And now I want you to repeat
some more words after me. I want you... 'Cause you created a vacancy
now, you've created a gap, a space, you've let that old stuff out. And when you let old stuff out it's time to let new stuff in. so I want you to repeat after me. I am enough.
- [Audience] I am enough. - I matter.
- [Audience] I matter. - I'm deeply significant. - [Audience] I'm deeply significant. - I have a gift.
- [Audience] I have a gift. - I have so many talents. - [Audience] I have so many talents. - I know how to monetize my gifts. - I know how to monetize my gifts. - [Marisa] I was given those gifts. - I was given those gifts. - [Marisa] To monetize them. - To monetize them. - [Marisa] To share them with the world. - To share them with the world. - [Marisa] I'm ready for abundance. - [Audience] I'm ready for abundance. - [Marisa] I'm worthy of abundance. - [Audience] I'm worthy of abundance. - [Marisa] I deserve abundance. - [Audience] I deserve abundance. - [Marisa] And I want you to think about what would happen to your
world if you were abundant? How many other people would benefit? You see if you are creating wealth and doing great things with it. The more good you can
do, the more your mind will set you on fire to go out and get it. So I want you to think about
how your world will change and how other people's
world will change too, when you have abundance, when
you have abundant health, abundant wealth, abundant love. When you have an abundant
mindset and you never go oh, I don't know where it's coming from? And what if they leave? And oh my God, what if it doesn't workout? What if I get rejected? If you just decide I
live in an abundant world and there's enough for everyone. And if I have more, it doesn't
mean that people have less 'cause I have a generous heart. And I want more to help other people. In me having more I can do good things, I'm a happier, I'm a better
parent, a better person, a better partner, a better
daughter, son, brother, sister, husband, wife, lover,
boss, employer, employee. Think about all the good you can do. And how when you go from zero to abundant you show other people it's possible too. There are people in the world now, we look at think wow,
that guy came from India with no education and
founded this fashion site. Because the old days of going
to uni, going to college, coming from wealth and that type of thing, only they don't even exist anymore. The people who have
money now are the people who invented something,
came up with something. Monetized an idea, and we can all do that. You can do that, you can do that now, so think about how people will benefit. And as you go deeper, I want
you to just do one more thing. I want you to think about
the missing bit in you. You see we all wait for
someone to say, I love you, you're great, you're
amazing, you're wonderful. We have unmet needs, as
children our needs weren't met, when you were a child
you had specific needs, you needed to feel safe,
you needed to feel loved, you needed to feel significant, you needed to feel that you mattered. And if you didn't get that,
you go through life thinking oh well, I'm not safe and I don't matter, and I've got to find
someone to meet my needs. I've got to find a
great guy, a great girl, to say, oh you're so great. Or a great boss to praise me,
to become a loving parent. And you can find them, but
they might not do that forever, maybe a few months, maybe a year. But when you do it, it's forever. I want you to do one more thing, think about the unmet needs of the little kid you once were. Think about the words you wanted to hear. And we all want to hear the
same words, I'm proud of you, I love you, how lucky I am
to parent you, you're great. You're smart, you're interesting,
you're great to be around. Whatever you most needed to hear, I promise you if you say it
now, your mind doesn't know where it comes from it let's it in. If you put ChapStick on your lips your mind doesn't go hang on
a minute, is that organic? Is that fair trade or is that
cheap stuff from CVS Pharmacy? It just lets it in, it
nourishes chapped lips and words nourish a chapped soul. So whatever you most wanted to hear I want you to say it
now, I'm proud of you. - I'm proud of you. - [Marisa] I love you.
- I love you. - [Marisa] You're are great kid. - You're a great kid. - [Marisa] You got something
to offer the world. - You got something to offer the world. - [Marisa] You're talented. - You're talented. - [Marisa] You matter. - You matter. - [Marisa] You're significant. - You're significant. - [Marisa] And now let's
say in the first person. I matter.
- [Audience] I matter. - I'm talented.
- [Audience] I'm talented. - I'm significant.
- [Audience] I'm significant. - I'm lovable.
- [Audience] I'm lovable. - I'm enough.
- [Audience] I'm enough. - I have something to offer the world. - I have something to offer the world. - [Marisa] And I can monetize it. - And and I can monetize it. - Because I have talent. - [Audience] Because I have talent. - I have belief. - [Audience] I have belief. - I have ambition. - [Audience] I have ambition. - I have drive.
- [Audience] I have drive. - And I'm unstoppable. - [Audience] And I'm unstoppable. - And as you go deeper into
an absolutely relaxed state, as you go deeper, drift
deeper and sink deeper. You're aware of a phenomenal,
powerful, extraordinary transformation taking place in you. Because here is your truth. When you were little kid,
you felt the way you felt, you saw what you saw, you
experienced what you experienced, you felt what you felt, you had no choice. But now you have a choice
because you are not a little kid, you are a beautiful,
talented, extraordinary, gifted, an adult. And as the talented, beautiful,
gifted adult that you are, it will never again, ever for the rest of your long abundant life, be relevant or necessary or interesting, or even appropriate for you
to think the way you thought when you were a child. It will never again be
relevant or even interesting, for you to believe what you believed then, or to think what you thought then. Or to see what you saw then,
you put all that behind you. It's like the water of the
shower you took this morning, you can't run back to your
room and get that water because it's like vapor, it is behind you. And all the beliefs you had
as a child are behind you, they are shrinking, they are
fading, they are disappearing, they are going, they are gone. They're erased, eradicated, eliminated. They are shattered, smashed
and out of your life, they will always be for the
rest of your long abundant life, something you once
believed long, long ago, and they cannot and will not interest you or affect you ever again. As you move on from one
phenomenal, extraordinary, incredible achievement and accomplishment. You can move on from one
accomplishment to another. That is the truth about you. So stay in that truth for just a second, remember that little kid is
not you, can never be you, is nothing but a memory. Something that you used to feel that cannot, will not, does
not affect you ever again. And knowing that, feeling
that, believing that, you can slowly, calmly, easily just get ready to come back into the room, knowing that you can never go back. You went back and had a look,
you went back and investigated like a good detective what went on. Then you interrupted it, and then you recoded into
yourself better software. You installed the truth, the truth is not what you
felt when you were five or four or three or ten. The truth is, you're here today knowing that you are abundant, gifted, talented, significant. You can have everything,
you can have anything, you can have it all, all at the same time. Because the past is not you. You as you here today
are gifted, talented, extraordinary, significant. So knowing it, feeling it, believing it. Just open up your eyes, just take a deep breath. Come back in the room. And just give yourself a
massive round of applause for doing that. And just go on doing that,
whatever scenes come up from your past just remember to say, "But that's not me, that's not me." Remember what you are, but
remember what you aren't. You're not five. And you never have to
feel like that ever again. Thank you so much. Thank you, thank you. Thank you. And if you go to marissapeer.com we have lots of abundant
stuff that we'll give you, we always have stuff
on there to give away. So there'll be lots of
things that you can take. And go ahead and live an abundant life because life is amazing if you believe it. Thank you very much. Thank you, thank you.
