FIVE COMMON MISTAKES PEOPLE DO IN RELATIONSHIPS THAT ALWAYS ENDS IN BREAK UP - FEMI LAZARUS

while you are enjoying the sh and the ice cream Cold Stone make sure you are putting love in reserve tank so that the day the other side when they draw love there's one arrow that pierces the day it is that arrow that will pierce your heart you have extra to serve are you with me say ah I I love this guy he doesn't he doesn't speak rashly to me he can't hurt me it's just so cool you don't know what's going on one day now one day something will happen the humanity of the person will speak expect it in his life to be with people are not expect their Humanity to speak is to lie one day so it to speak and it w be funny in relating with people understand they are humans first it doesn't matter what you think they are understand that people are people and things will happen people can change their words and their commitment it happens somebody can see you today and say ah God I swear my mother's grave that day will never come and I will let you let go of your hands from my hands I will hold you till eternity two months later you call him who is this this is don't forget are you not in love with me anymore that was then things happens and when people leave you it doesn't mean something is wrong with you they are done maybe they part in the story is over tell your neighbor move on tell your neighbor again move on let me tell you one of the biggest frustrations you can give yourself is to love people who can't love you back or to love someone you can't have or to be in a love triangle this guy said he's trying to pull out of this relationship then once he pulls out then he's coming for you and you come be Gat man they wait and every time they are sharing pictures online Valentine they post the girl they don't post you I've been waiting for 2 years nobody has told you something is wrong with you that's witchcraft leave leave now and find your beard very important sometimes people complain I don't even want to relate to anybody anymore this life is too painful I don't want to relate to anybody I don't relax if you are emotionally intelligent you never get to that point I want to show you five common mistakes people make in relating with people that H in pain if you make this mistake I promise you it will end in tears guaranteed tested and trusted number one the mistake of impatience and haste please write that one capital letter impatience and haste that somebody chattered you up and the chat was long doesn't mean he likes you that you chat into the night every time doesn't mean he loves you yes sir nobody is committed to you until they have said it and that you started dating last week does all mean he's your fance meet my fans you never settled the block we are using to build this is not even dry you don't somebody you met last week how many children will we have they've not told you that you're not fine how many children are we going to have tell me how can you be the one deciding for the man that you will only CAU for a few months they married man once we start now 5 months we are married and now you they decide then the fellow is still saying I'm trying to put this together one year you are frustrated is impatience it doesn't matter how excited you are about a person take it slow so it can last take it slow so it can last take it slow so it can take it flow so it can the thing is not dried is on WhatsApp status my boo they will boo you my Boo the one that makes my heart tingle the the speed for WhatsApp upload some people just want a relationship they can pep others too just so they can post and they will go through his Facebook to look for the best picture where it doesn't look like an IND smoker and pick that one and put it there and say my own gift from the Lord who told you that you they give who told you that the gift is for you how many people did we call gifts now somebody has married them if people be patient they will rename the person they named their spouse is imp patience and sometimes in a platform like this be patient know people know who they are study their values study their orientation you don't meet a path you should not meet observe observe people take your time are you with me people don't like this one now when you get access to people take your time study them observe them evaluate their personality don't get too excited that you forget to take your time except you love pain you will always jump into conclusion jump into people and then you will meet sleder all the time and then you keep making conclusion and this church people said all the church people you are the one who is not patient you're the one who is not patient number two common mistake who make in human relationship the mistake of overrating they overrate people they assume people's character should be based on the gravity of their tongues we and when you overrate people you expect too much from them you expect them to give what they don't have to give are you with me you read them based on your perceived performances of them that the way this guy speaks in Tonga capital letter tongues that he's going to be a benevolent person now is Sting you are confused sometimes people are not bad you are the one is expecting too much study people and don't overex don't over expect the emotionally smart you don't have time dragging your emotions through guci mix guci mix blend you every time every relationship with people you enter you come back broken and battered take your time take things slow take things slow and be careful of immature validation or premature validation be careful take things take things take things take things sometimes I see people online say my father I don't know this person I don't know this person say my father my father Apostle Lazarus one person went to post on Facebook and said thank you Apostle Lazarus he just called me now to encourage me I didn't call him and I saw it why will you do that for what of validation I saw it I don't know that person in my life till now my father my Prophet if I rebuke you once will you stay cuz your father rebukes how do you have commitment to people until they rebuke you and there are pastors too who they are frustrated in Ministry everybody is Son and Daughter my son my daughter there are people that they have hundreds of contact if you don't post about them on their birthday they will know they will repost every WhatsApp status how are you getting the time repost everything and even text message they was screenshot and post 250 something status only you they are now offended I did birthday people cannot buy me gift be careful of entitlement be careful if you want to live long be careful of your expectations maybe the last time I ever settle down to read birthday message I can't remember what here I don't I don't and I let my people know maybe until the day if I don't talk to me I now check oh wow thank you for this things that just get my PA please reply all the messages oh Apostle Lazarus is a good man he's a man thank you tomorrow now if he change so you don't go pay me I will not take the praise that criticism has nothing on me you are the best man in the world I li hosana hosana crucify him when people are hailing you watch their lips it can change see I'm not saying listen to what I'm saying I'm not saying when people are praising you they are bad no but I'm saying don't get so attached to the point that you don't expect their Humanity are you feel I'm I'm just telling you all right because if you plan to do this thing for long you must minimize the chances for offense are you feel what I'm saying here I don't have anybody connected to me maybe those who follow me and say uh post is my birthday post my picture I will rebuke the person post your picture something wrong with you I should Bless you that's what you need picture I now time oh daughter oh daughter oh son oh son tomorrow night say do again just simple wisdom sir just simple wisdom just simple wisdom just simple wisdom let me add one beware of people who try to take advantage of your small Seasons they want to take advantage of you because they know that things are not well don't let any people can be of help but don't let anybody possess you it's Witchcraft and you too God has used to be a blessing to people don't don't don't Witch Hunt their lives you know what I did for you yesterday no and you were not helping you were buying the person buying the person people just tell you what do you need in your church how kind of messages I've gotten what how can I sponsor your church sponsor sponsor get out of my sight sponsor he who pays the piper dictates the tunb sponsor in this church we don't know who gives what we don't even know where what is coming from I know that God just blesses us August 24 2014 2024 this ministry will be 10 years but as a church we are still 5 years plus we have only ordained leaders once in 10 years once we take our time we don't rush preach let the heavens fall character is different and that one takes time to be revealed we don't rush we don't rush after this Sunday now if you notice on Sunday we have to start two Services here no rushing somebody got to your church last week now he's the assistant pastor you are hungry they having breakfast why shouldn't they everybody in the church has a title Prophet Apostle and you license people to misbehave Rebellion is never powerful until the rebellious is close to the authority take your time take your time in relating with people take your time with people it takes time there are people who don't like you they just need your validation take your time what I'm saying may look hard but you will survive traps when you have this understanding you will see through smoke screens you will look at life and see it for what it is you'll see it for what it is and let me balance this this in no way doesn't mean that I don't appreciate people when they app appreciate me I do but I also know man will always be man s in all honesty I'm grateful but at all in case the other one happens also I'm grateful the third mistake people make is the mistake of underrating people you can't sum people up by the season you met them in some are at the last phase of being small be careful of your conclusions don't leave a man who is at the last pH of his smallness for the one who is at the last pH of his greatness you will regret it and will cross number four mistake is the mistake of assumption people assume never assume people's intentions till they say it never assume they intend to go far with you till they say it the people intend to be with you for a season respect their decisions and make sure that when time comes to separate the door is open for you all to come back and go in if you are going to be in a place for a season spell it out you in a Ministry you are serving as a pastor God is going going to call you to start yours spell it out so that your leaders will not assume are you feel what I'm saying here spell it out are you being blessed are you sure all right and when people are in your life for a season value the moment you Share value it value it you can't keep any relationship forever you can't it is what God keeps that is kept even your children that you give birth to will one day go to their husband's house value every Rel relationship when you have the opportunity to number five mistake people make is the communication mistake they either communicate what they don't mean or mean what they can't communicate and then things go out people either communicate what they don't mean or what they mean they can't communicated and there are issues there are issues can I give you 30 seconds to ask for wisdom yes just ask for [Music] wisdom sh

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Published: Sat Mar 09 2024