Escorting You Out of My Life: Corniya Coleman v Larry Coleman

[Music] imagine being a bright-eyed 19-year-old starting your college Journey when all of a sudden you realize you found your soulmate on today's case Mr and Mrs Coleman say they couldn't believe how lucky they were to have found each other in a sea of students but their marriage has been anything But Sunshine and rainbows Mrs Coleman says not only has her husband cheated on her repeatedly but when he gets caught he blames her for his indiscretions Mrs Coleman says she is at the end of her rope but Mr Coleman says he can explain let's hear their case court is now in session the honorable Judge star presiding your honor this is the case of Coleman versus Coleman thank you very much Mrs Coleman you are appearing in court today because you say you are fed up with your husband's INF fidelities you also say he's an alcoholic who refuses to help raise your children you say the marriage is over if you don't see a change yes your honor Mr Coleman you're here to save your relationship you admit to a lack of intimacy in your marriage that resulted in you seeking affection from other women but you say your problems are fixable and you don't have a drinking problem yes sh I'm not sure how you fix seeking comfort in the arms of another woman but let me keep an open mind in this situation Mrs Coleman why are we in court today we are here today because I have given this man seven years of my life but he has lied to me cheated on me constantly and I am over it I am done I am ready to get a divorce I can't do it anymore Mrs Coleman says um you've been together seven years I know you've been married for three years you have two children there are lots of stakes here what say you to these allegations I'm here because I want to save my marriage I love this woman with all my heart and I think she still the one for me I do have my you know infidelities and my ways but I love this woman and I think we can fix this marriage well I'm questioning how in the world do you think it's okay for you to have quote infidelities and ways and she's supposed to be okay with that I have changed and I've showed her that I have changed and she knows this so she's coming up here and telling all these lies on me I don't think that's right well I'm on here so let's start with how you all met and let us figure out what the stakes are and why we're here today missan yes your honor we met seven years ago at a college in Selma and when I met him he seemed like the perfect guy he was very sweet very nice down to earth just amazing and I fell in love with him very quickly but as the years went by he started his addictions and his ways the cheating the infidelity the addictions okay so you got married after dating for a couple of years what went wrong I started going through my husband's phone I started having intuitions and this was like four years ago I was like something's up some something going on I can smell it I know so I went through his phone and I saw that he had been texting a woman this is the same woman that he was in a relationship with for I was not in a relationship he was in a relationship with this woman for four years and and you know this to be fact a fact he had been contacting this woman through social media he created a second account and blocked me from the original account you think it was used by your husband so that he could hide what he was doing am I right yes ma'am Mr Coleman what say you to these allegations sir well first of all I didn't use it just to cheat I actually lost you know access to the account one day and I decided to log back in it months later I didn't design it just oh I'mma cheat on my wife just because she doesn't have this account yes I did block off that account because I don't know why but I just felt the need to now her going through my phone is just ridiculous she goes through my phone at least twice a week at least that's probably because you've given a reason to not trust you listen I don't believe in you have to go through somebody's phones to be sneaky but that's what young people do that's what I have learned while I sit here at this bench but there are reasons for her not to trust you because you have not been faithful clearly your honor I submitted the messages to the court oh wait there're okay that's confirmation that he had sexual intercourse with the woman that he was in a relationship with for four years it says cash or blah blah downtown either either oh yeah remember I oh after that one you kept saying it was too I'm assuming big is the word it feels so good though that's the other woman let me check in with my old lady cuz she's talking about school going to get out early and I got to get her early tell her your homeboy needs a ride or something your honor I found out Lela that she was a escort or is a escort when I read those meaning she gets paid to have sex she gets paid to have sex but not only that your honor they develop a relationship find out she was an escort till after the fact yeah because you thought you was giving ready to get free you learned you had to pay for it world and he PA and he paid her a lot of money to have sex with her and not only that they was in a relationship we was not in a relationship they were sex things saying all kind of things that I can't go into detail about okay you don't have to convince me of another thing Mr Coleman you can call it talking flirting doing whatever it is you want to do with it if you are sexting another woman and you are having intimate relations with her whatever kind of way you want to describe intimate relations and you know exactly what I'm talking about and you either cashing her or hitting her off with some fees that's just stank I don't know what else else to call it triflin and sank and VI okay I'm not saying I'm the perfect man no you're not the perfect I own up to my truth and I am you know so is that the only time you stepped outside of your marri yes that is the only time I've had physical attractions and I had sex with another woman only one time and she can attested that is that the only time that's the only time that I saw and he promised me that that was only the time so I believe him but you do understand Mr Coleman that that will require you to rebuild trust cuz she doesn't believe and that's what I'm trying to do but every single time we get in an argument she bring it up and she has told me herself that she's forgiven me for this but yeah every time she get mass at me she goes and oh well you had sick with that lady I hate you I don't want to be with you I wish I was another man how supposed to make me feel I do say that and I say I'm I'm I'mma stop you for a minute um if in fact you think you can get over it and you are working on rebuilding trust you cannot continue to throw it in the man's face I'm working on it yep you can't do you know why because then that means you're not going to get through it notice I didn't say get over it because Mr Coleman let me be real clear she's never going to get over it she's never going to feel the same way about you as she felt when she was following you around like a little puppy dog cuz you were like a mentor as well as the love of her life she's not going to feel that way because she trusted you without hesitation back back then so you've got to work really hard to rebuild that level of trust that innocence she may forgive you but she will never forget how that made her feel that's just the truth and if you do anything sneaky that's what's going to bring it back cuz that same hurt will hurt again stop sneaking dipping and Diving that's the only thing that's going to work sir your honor I feel like he has a sex addition it has been several times that I have went through his phone and saw him sexting other women a particular type of women at that what kind of women [Music] escorts your honor I feel like he has a sex addic even though even though I found out that he had sex with this woman one time and was contacting her for those four years it has been several times that I have went through his phone and saw him sexting other women a particular type of women at that so what kind of women escorts he has contacted over 50 women it has not been 50 your honor he has contacted over 50 women and he even admitted this to me but he said he only had sex with a woman one time which is the one that he was contacting for four years she's not affectionate with me so that's the only reason why I you know I sexed these women and it was not no 15 it was not no 50 women it what are you talking about you admitted that it was 50 excuse me Mrs one minute I would like to hear Mr Coleman it sounds like you're seeking affection outside of your marriage that that's right cuz I don't get it at home she doesn't if you go a month and a half without even touching me I mean I mean what you want me to do like is there a reason you're not having regular intimate contact no it's because of her she choose not to do it she's even told me she only have sex with me because she needed real bad not because she want to have sex with me just she need it real bad I don't think as a man I'm supposed to just sit here and just accept that like if if you my wife I at least need it at least three times a week but if I'm going months without having it I mean how you want me to feel you I mean I don't know I don't know about what your times a month or times a week are but I do know no marriage can itself if y'all are not intimate it just won't work it won't your honor we have sex at least three to four times a month he is he is lying we have sex at least three to four times a month now sometimes it have been two times a month yes but it have never been more than four it's been no times a month at one point so the reason why I haven't really been giving him sex is because I'm hurt I'm bitter I'm mad I'm upset I feel like he betrayed me he he cheated on me he had sex with another woman and he have contacted over 50 women so how can I have sex with him I I can't do it and you have to realize I have a oneyear old I have a 2y old I go through so much my two-year-old he is autistic I have to do so much in a day I do a million things a day so I am tired and another reason why I don't want to have sex is because of my pregnancies I had the worst pregnancies my pregnancies my birth postpartum after I had my baby it it was the worst it was the worst time of my life well it wasn't the worst time but it was I don't want to say that but I completely understand what you mean I feel like there wasn't enough support when when I was pregnant and after I had my children so it's kind of hard for me to to have sex with him especially because if I'm always going through your phone and saying that you have contacted other women it's kind of hard to have sex but I do take full accountability for that I do I do need to start having sex with my hus more sex more than two or three or four times a month I do I do take full accountabil I do need to get better with that Mrs Coleman Mr Coleman have you all talked to somebody about this have you asked for counseling I have told her I will pay for counseling the only thing she needs to do is set it up I work two jobs I work 16 hours a day I pay 95% of the bills she only provides half of the mortgage and sometimes I pay the full mortgage I pay her her c not her insurance I put gas in her car so supporting I'm the most supportive person she's ever met take that stank face off if you have that attitude what makes you think that this man is going to try to be a better man he admitted his infidelity you actually believe him but he have contacted [Music] women if you'd like your case to be heard on Divorce Court call us toll-free at 1877 31122 22 or log on to our website at divorcecourt.com Mr Show Watch full episodes on our streaming platforms and follow us on social media for exclusive content when I say support when I was pregnant around two months pregnant I almost lost my 2-year-old and he wasn't there for me he was working double shifts back to back you expect him to do I mean I I want you to have reasonable expectations she wasn't working no listen to what I'm asking you no ma'am was Mr colan trying to hold down this growing family during that time and was he working those multiple jobs yeah he was he was working two jobs and working double shifts yes so it wasn't like he was out at the bar or the strip club during that time period no he wasn't so Mrs Coleman you have to acknowledge what he was doing during that time now it you may have needed some additional emotional support but you can't say the man was not supportive that's not fair to him yes ma'am you he was supportive it may not have been exactly what you needed at the time but he was supporting the way he knew to support Mr Coleman let me be real clear she's continuing to punish you and she is going to continue to punish you until she feels that you've suffered enough and that is not going to be healthy for you I can tell you that right now but you're punishing him I am is why are you I take full accountability I'm punishing him no you're not taking full accountability you're acknowledging it but accountability would then start moving in a direction to try to fix it yes ma'am okay you're acknowledging it yes ma'am acknowledging it is saying this is on me but accountability is how can I make it better so Mrs you said that you are done at the end of your RO with Mr Coleman because you think he's cheating on you but you've acknowledg in this courtroom you only think he actually slept with another woman or stepped out of your marriage physically one time you actually believe that I believe it because she hates me she already told me she hate me multiple times I believe it because I know he have contacted over 50 women I kind of think that it's been more than one time that he physically stepped out he is not and he has a lot of addictions I feel like he has an alcohol addiction I did not have alcohol addiction he he does when I first I was ready to come in here and suggest that I can send you to addiction specialist he doesn't have an addiction he is looking for affection Mrs Coleman if you all are not interested in fixing your relationship I am the marriage is over so I'm G tell you right now take that stank face off you have the worst little attitude I do okay I do if you have that attitude what makes you think that this man is going to try to be a better man the man says he admitted his infidelity yeah he says he did not go outside of his marriage again he promised you that you actually believe him but he have contacted women even a yet sex and true I'm going be honest with you I think that that's a violation of the marriage also yeah but I understand exactly [Music] why Mr Coleman is not interested in a marriage where there is no love and you can't treat him like he's a piece of you know what for the rest of the marriage it's not going to work Miss Coleman do you want your marriage or not now I understand if you say I can't get over it and I'm ready to throw in the towel but don't put all the blame on him because he breached the trust but you are breaching the relationship you're not doing anything to work on the relationship at all as a matter of fact you're doing everything to destroy it if you have two little children don't you think it's worth sitting down with a marriage counselor finding out if you can ReDiscover Each Other's Love language don't you think it's worth seeing if you can rebuild that trust do you have a willingness to work on the relationship I think about it but I I I don't know I don't know because I've been through too much you know Mrs Coleman you're not doing it for me cuz honestly when you walk out of this courtroom and I bang this gab you can go on about your life you only doing this for you and your children and your husband mhm you're not doing this for me mhm so don't with your attitude say to me I'll think about it cuz it's not for me baby it's for you and you are standing there in a whole column of resentment right now and I can tell you for certain all this resentment is not going to keep your husband not only you can determine if you want him and Mr Coleman listen to her cuz I have news for you you don't have to pay for a mistake that you are consciously trying to get through the rest of your life you deserve to have somebody who loves you and trusts you if you're going to work hard at rebuilding that trust and so at some point you have to say I deserve to be happy also at some point you will say that it's not all on him Mrs Coleman it's not you have to start to put on your big girl shoes and say people make mistakes I don't know what your vow said but mine said in sickness and in health in good times and in bad this was a bad time yes ma'am you're honest I have divorce papers also and I have also within the past year and a half I have almost filed for divorce three times but he didn't want to pay the money to get the divorce so that's why we everything else why should I have to pay for that and plus I love him so that's why I how she love me when she constantly disrespecting me like Hest if I come in the house I do and tell her I'mma B the kids and she like I mean what you want me to do Mr Coleman this is what I want you to do determine if this is the marriage you want if it's not fulfilling for you sir tell your wife that you want to co-parent but you're going to go and get your happy Mrs Coleman if you can't get through what occurred in the past and you're going to live there you will have no future [Music] there're just some people that are not going to listen no matter what you say listen there were two things that were for certain he cheated and she's not budging with her decision absolutely not and guess what Tik Tock what else [Music] good made in Georgia for

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Length: 20min 14sec (1214 seconds)

Published: Mon Apr 15 2024