Ep 2: Pop The Balloon Or Find Love | With Arlette Amuli

[Music] n [Music] hello everyone and welcome back to my channel as you can see this time around we have a lineup of single men Make Some Noise guys so um just to give you guys a little bit of gist of how this is going to go you guys all have some balloons so we're going to bring out some single ladies okay if you guys are feeling her like what she's looking like liking the body you know the deal if you're liking it do not pop your balloon but if there's anything you're not feeling you're like oo n this ain't the girl for me go ahead and pop it then I'm going to go over to a few of you see what's going on what what you don't like and all of that stuff um and then we'll just go ahead and take it from there y'all ready all right okay let's go ahead and bring out our first single girl welcome in hello and if we can have what's your name I'm Shiloh Shiloh welcome and how old are you Shiloh I'm 35 35 okay and what do you do I'm a dental hygienist dental hygienist nice okay so looks like we still got a lot of balloons unpopped I see yes but let's go ahead and go to some of the guys who did pop their balloons just get a little bit more information you know what's going on why they ended up popping so let's go ahead and go all right let's go all right so we'll start right over here I'll have you let us know what's your name and how old you are I'm jivens and I am 24 years old 24 okay and jiven why did you end up popping your balloon for Shiloh she's 35 a little too old for me sorry all right and so you don't date older than you that's kind of like a yeah that's a no-o okay all right and then apart from the age like if very beautiful woman I love it thank you and now is driven somebody that you would approach at at 24 no so I'm guessing just too young way too young okay and now as far as like looks go if he wasn't 24 what about he's a very handsome man thank you okay okay all right so then let's go ahead and head back over here sir if we can have your name and how old you are oh yeah my name is Anthony and I'm 28 okay you're 28 and Anthony what do you do uh I work in medical transportation oh why I Ain get the same questions as he don't worry about it don't worry about it everybody's a little different okay and now why did you end up popping your balloon for Mich Shiloh here uh the age difference age difference okay okay and have you ever dated anyone older than you before yeah I do I do one time and okay it seems like you're having a little flashback you know yeah that's why I you know I don't want to go that that same road again that's why me go ahead stop okay all right and so Shiloh what about for him is same thing no no he has a baby face oh yes okay and do you would you ever date younger at all oh okay so just strictly older my age or close I I might drop a year or two but no more than that no more than that okay all right so we did get thank you for that so we did get another balloon here let's head on this way all right sir so if we can have your name and how old you are my name my name is Renard I'm 27 27 okay Renard and what do you do and I do paid social media digital marketing and I also do photography and videography as well okay nice nice and why did you end up popping your balloon well yeah she mentioned the age difference and I mean that's sad to hear though cuz I feel like age I'm not going to say age don't mean anything but at the same time like you might be more mature for your age depending on your past previous experiences or just your taste and what you like to do so okay unfortunately she might be missing out on a good man that might be a little bit younger but you know oh she's not bu she said she said no I like your swag though a thank you so much you're very beautiful as well thank you oh nice okay and so you said you like his swag is he someone that would approach as far as not the age probably not okay and why not he just looks like a pretty boy oh I'm not into the pretty so what are you more into little bit of dirt under your nails what's up what's a what what's a pretty boy though that's no it just seems like you look you be in the mirror a little bit more than me not to say anything is wrong with that it's just for me personally yeah okay I'm not mad at I mean want your man to look good though don't you and you can look good and still when I say dirt on under your nails I don't mean like literally okay Co I mean like you can get down and dirty outside understand understand cool well thank you and then let's go ahead and go down here all right and Sir if we can have your name and how old you are my name is David um 30 years old okay and David what do you do uh I'm a construction superintendent with an electrical engineering background nice okay and why did you end up popping your balloon uh just uh the age difference the age difference okay yeah I think it has a huge impact on especially if you want to get involved in a serious relationship okay and so with her being older you think that it would affect the relationship yes in what ways uh familywise you know I'm African so that matters so you said familywise like as far as starting a family your family with like as far as starting a family I feel like uh we need to uh mature together in a relationship okay uh her being 35 years old I think she has more life experience than me in some ways so I respect that I'll dve it love the answer okay so Shiloh as far as for David here is he someone that you would approach he's 30 that's closer it is closer and he's very wellous like that yes love the C and the beard so he he is someone that you would consider dating okay all right so 30 we're getting closer we're getting closer there okay and now so let me go ahead and back up so we do have one more person over here that ended up popping their balloon on us so sir if we can have your name and how old you are hi my name is Dr Elum and I am 38 years old okay and Dr Elum why did you end up popping your balloon a couple of reasons first reason is you said you don't like someone with you wanted someone with the little dirt under their nails and that's not me actually get manicures why do I get manicures because I'm a dentist and my hands are actually insured so may not be able to date you but I would hire you oh uh oh here networking hello okay all right so so as far as you just don't get a little dirt under your nails but she kind of specified a little bit more like she doesn't mean physical dirt she just wants someone you know who gets a little rough outside like well maybe I can ask her to elaborate so if like something wrong with my car you can take care of it or go get it taken care of I won't take care of it but I will hire someone who can can you mow the lwn like when I yeah so you do like I think you mean like a handyman like around the house does some things I don't mean that's what I said like I don't mean like physical dirt yeah that's not me okay not a problem with that all right okay and then so with um Dr Elum here was he someone that you would approach yes he actually looks like um a guy dated in high school and he was like my high school sweetheart but he's very handsome that's what I thought about I was like is that his brother Maybe I'm his doppelganger okay all right well thank you very much okay so Shiloh we do have four guys left that have not popped their balloon um so if I can borrow one of y'all's toothpick we're going to kind of switch it around now the ball is now in your Park and so with these four guys let's get a little bit closer to them so you get a clearer view of them okay I'm going pop his balloon just because he looks really young too uh oh okay go ahead how old are you 30 all right so let's wait come right over here so shend are popping your balloon if we can get your name I think you said you're 30 right yeah okay what's your name bo b okay and B what do you do model an act okay he models an act and he's 30 you you said that was no just pushing it I'm just tell why I didn't pop my balloon cuz you just thick that's it thank you yeah keep it real thank you yeah no problem so that's the only reason everything else she said well she a she 35 and she was saying she don't want nobody younger you know I would have popped it then I was like nah she's thick I'mma keep it that's it I would have popped them all back but you know I was like I'm going keep it so besides that yeah besides that she's someone that you would approach only I'm thi only so what about you got pretty tea what about face now that you're up close you're seeing her no she's pretty she's very pretty thank you yeah all right cool and this for boar I know you said he looks young and he's he's cute and he's he's cute he looks young though okay yeah listen black don't crack black don't crack and I like that but you just look young I think you like beards too and yeah listen it's it gets there you just don't connect here and here so it's okay we not connected all right okay and so now you narrowed down the three guys yes um let's see here do you have a question that you want to ask any of them before you pop the balloon if I go by personal preference first I will pop his next just cuz he's shorter than me and I have heels on let's do it I like taller guys all right sir so if we can have your name and how old you are um my name is Terrence I'm 34 um from Alabama and I'm an electrician and we also got some of the fastest cars in Alabama and Iona so all right okay d i c you from the south I'm from Louisiana okay I lived in Louisiana too okay yeah down there hom is you close by there hom uh streetport oh okay yeah I've been in okay yeah you gorgeous though thank you okay so you said you like to date guys you're a little bit taller than you but I mean yall are like seeing ey to eye right now heels though yeah so that means he's actually taller than you no when I wear heels I want him to still be taller okay all right I want to look up a little bit and so Terence why did you keep your balloon unpopped for Shiloh Oh I thought she was gorgeous I thought we was going to go to Louisiana [ __ ] but n you know I ain't forcing nothing so I'mma let whatever take me take me so know all right perfect so I'mma actually ask these guys a question and then we'll see what response you like from there all right so guys we have our beautiful Shiloh here what would be the ideal first date of where you would take her oh and first before you answer that can we have your name and how old you are yeah um my name is LaTroy I'm 37 okay and lroy uh what do you do um I own a health and wellness company nice okay perfect then if you want to go ahead and just answer that question um probably um a cup of coffee for me would be yeah a nice little Coffee Spot um yeah I want my own coffee shop one day okay yeah yeah for sure it' be tea for me but you know somewhere there we can grab a hot drink at for sure okay all right let's get done here all right sir and if I can have your name and how old you are my name's Adam and I'm 31 31 okay and what do you do I'm a creative producer nice perfect and then if you want to go ahead and answer a question for M Shiloh oh I probably will take her to get sushi I love sushi too uhoh okay hey did you want to ask another question to kind of narrow it down for you I like that question what would be a second day oh okay let's add on to it um since uh safe sex is important to me I'll take her to the STD clinic I like that I like that I like that Troy Troy let's add on to it she wants to know a second date um second date for me probably would be probably a glass of wine somewhere okay somewhere nice in the city probably Signature Room somewhere like that yeah okay all right so I know these are hard choices for you it seems like but we do have to pop one of their balloons so who are you leaning towards popping I'm going to pop his balloon I forgot his name but I like his sweat all right Troy we can have you come out here and you stand on this side of me you stand here all right so we have two lovely people here who ended up matching um before we do proceed like is there any question that you wanted to ask her that you want to get to know her a little bit more or anything like that do that 101 oh all right well is it going to be a yes for you for L yes okay guys it seems like we've got a match all right take that and you guys can just go ahead and go on [Laughter] [Applause] out okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single girl yes right over here welcome in all right and if I can have your name it's Jessica Jessica and how old are you I am 31 31 okay keep the mic up here and Jessica what do you do um so I do a couple of different things I'm a jack of all trades or Jane but I work in nonprofit and a aome model as well so nice Okay nice and so what do you look for in a guy ooh that is a great question um he has to be motivated um the guy definitely has to have something going for himself if he fine that's a plus too if he got a beard what some of y'all do thank you Lord um but yeah there's a couple different things that I look for um I feel like once you know you know okay so I think it's a case by casee basis depending on the person Okay cool so we did have uh some balloons pop so let's go ahead and go on over them see what's going on there you just want to follow me I'm glad he popped mine ah okay let's start with our first guy here so if you just let us know know your name and why you popped your balloon bow okay and why'd you pop your balloon bow I just not my type you know I will keep it uh me for the camera I thought I thought you was older than 31 I thought that's what I thought okay so you think she looks a little bit older than her age yeah okay well how old are you 30 30 oh you the first time he doesn't look 302 you no how old does he look 17 oh thank you thank you I mean you did say you like beards as we see I do okay all right and so as as far as her just looking older than her age that was the only reason you popped yeah that was one them okay you said one of them there was more yes uh I don't like I get beig girls that yeah hey was good for the goose I was good for the gander and what you don't like somebody else well Bab baby you're right you're right it's not for me okay all right okay let's go ahead and go right here I see we also popped so if we have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon I'm jiven and I am 24 years old and I pop my balloon just because the way you walked up like you seemed a little more masculine than I I would like so yeah that's fair sorry yeah okay and now that you're speaking with her is it still giving off that type of energy yes oh yeah okay okay and what about him like do are you feeling this or which is very bizarre because you seem very feminine so I guess it's just not a match and what what makes him seem feminine he got his taco meat out the nose ring it's a whole lot of whole lot of and you look a lot older than 24 so I probably wouldn't have gone for that anyway but I mean to each his own um if you feel like I'm masculine baby that's what you think but you get to know me I'm about sweet as pie so yeah okay well you just look a little older than me so I was like uh probably more seasoned you know so it's like okay so you guys both think either one looks older than their actual age yeah okay okay okay okay so we did get a balloon pop over here let's head on this way okay and if we could have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon my name is David I'm 30 years old and the reason I pop my balloon uh no disrespect but I have certain specific type of women that I like and and what is that specific type uh more athletic okay yeah cuz health is very important so by by looking at her I don't think that she's fit enough for me you wouldn't know what's so bizarre about that is I actually lost 150 lbs and two to add under this shirt baby I got abs believe it or not I do have abs nice so I respect that likewise and now is he somebody that you would approach no and why not um honestly he comes across as very a little bit uppy or very too much so like I feel like he needs a certain kind of woman that he feel like he needs to have on his arm like one of those petite TR women who maybe don't say too much but I don't know I and then his voice is a little softer than what I would go for personally but I mean to each his own okay right and everybody get preference is there any fact to what she's saying any truth actually it's not I feel like I deserve everybody has the right to choose what they like uh especially being in a relationship you need to be attracted to the person that you're going to be with and she's just not that person so okay all right okay and we did see over here that you ended up popping your balloon what's your name how old are you and why did you pop your balloon my name's Adam I'm 31 and the reason why I pop my balloon is because I just feel like stylistically we just don't we wouldn't look together well that well as a unit if that makes sense like yeah I feel like you know you you kind of resemble someone that is a part of my family so I just feel a little bit weird about that okay yeah so she reminds you of someone in your family that you know or like she reminds me of my cousin yeah okay okay so that's the only reason why yeah and then style-wise I just think that the way that we both dress is just a little bit different okay but she's beautiful and also congratulations on the weight loss as well thank you so much okay and is he someone that's like your type like would you date him um um o I don't know right off the rip if it was somebody I would go for particularly however you do have a very nice sweet genuine vibe to you thank you that I would be willing to see if the juice is worth the squeeze if the opportunity had presented itself possibly okay but thank you for being respectful and uh cool I appreciate that of course okay okay let's go ahead and head back this way oh we did have one over here so if we can have your name how old you are and why you ended up popping your balloon I'm 34 my name Terrence and uh when he say she look like my cousin I was thinking that before that but she definitely gorgeous and I do have a cousin you look you know y'all look like y'all could be cousin or sisters or something so I'm like damn that [ __ ] said the same thing I was thinking [ __ ] so I was like but you is gorgeous though so you know I like you I like and like you said congratulations keep keep it up and you a strong black woman I can tell love that thank you so much wen't you sweet thank you you thank you so you just out here looking like everybody's cussing or something okay be the hairstyle though too cuz that's like the hairstyle that she wear too so like somebody Ain no no no it's a cousin it's my cousin it's pretty it's just like that's that style okay little need a baker a little a need Baker just a little bit just a little bit just a little bit n i a say that well you know I do got sweet love baby uhoh okay and now is Terence somebody that is your type um nobody is sweet okay and what makes him not your type um mama always say um can we skip this question no I'll keep it I'll keep it a bu which I'm not necessarily the most attracted to him okay um I think I agree with him I think your partner should be somebody that you are attracted to attraction is a piece of the pot not the whole piece but yeah okay okay fair enough okay thank you all right let's go ahead and head back over here so if we can have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon hello my name is Renard I'm 27 and I held on to my balloon when I saw you because you're beautiful and I actually I disagree I think you do look fit and I could tell just by the way the body is yeah we like that you know but it was for me it was the kind of that sarcasm and your faal Expressions was real strong and I was like I can't do it and then lastly I don't know I just wasn't getting positive energy from it so you know I was like I might have to like some Palos Santo around you just to bring some positive energy you know around you and everything but um yeah that was uh that was why I popped my balloon anything you have to say say in regards to that um you know what perception is reality I don't think you really know me but I understand off of Optics we all have our own point of view and our perspectives um I'mma keep it a buck with you I am very sarcastic I like to be funny I like the joke so it can be offputting to a few folks and that's your preference that's cool okay and is he your type is he someone that you would approach no and why not um aesthetically he has very beautiful eyes thank you um if I could be honest not necessarily my type physically and then it does come across a little bit feminine as well I love very masculine okay um men cuz I like to be feminine and soft um but honestly I wouldn't necessarily go for him okay yeah all righty okay answer sir if we can have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon yes my name is elim and I'm 38 years old I pop my balloon not because you're not gorgeous not because because some men can't hold space for your emotions but for me it was the weight loss and while we are all proud of you for losing the weight I am considering the risk longterm you may have health problems down the line that we may have to work with and the habits that you've developed over time are going to be challenging to upkeep in your 40s and 50s and 60s so for me I'm concerned about your health over a long period of time okay okay and any response to that um because believe it or not I am a health nut um I am veganish I don't eat beef pork chicken or dairy um because I am a health nut I go get tested for everything I have no high cholesterol no high blood pressure um no diabetes no nothing I'm completely healthy um my blood pressure is A1 I work out five to six times a week I Strength train as well um I eat very clean I'm just in a thicker body very physically fit outside the clothes um but to each his own if you're worried about health things just because somebody's in a smaller frame doesn't make them healthier than me and to be honest with you I'm a little thickness but I can I can run with the big boys or the big girls I get down in the J baby I do it all so understand perception is reality and that's what you get from Optics but I'm trying to tell you um you kind of fine so y'all got a air pump cuz we might need to she trying to pop your balloon back saying like hey I got I got a four pack I can show you back to know I'm fit now tell me your name again it's Jessica Jessica so I do run a nonprofit maybe there's an opportunity for us to work together what kind of work what we going to be doing helping to save the world I hope isn't that what your nonprofit is about are you trying to help save the world well I'm trying to do what I love to do and help people in that Arena so I like to pull teeth so I travel around the world and I pull teeth what is your nonprofit about uh mental health okay mhm and more please well one I thought we was trying to repopulate the Earth but you know um two um to answer your question so I am staff facing um I Am A diversity equity and inclusion expert so I deal with policies a lot of different things behind the scenes to make sure that our organization is staying um Equitable um however the nonprofit does focus on 211 mental health and things like that so I don't necessarily see that side per se but I do deal with our staff and do various different trainings and things like that I still don't know what you you're a nonprofit is about mental health so basically if folks need shelter if folks are in crisis they can call two on1 and say hey I got something going on I need somebody to talk to if they have food insecurity um it's an opportunity for them to get rental assistant so we have a couple of different things that we do in our nonprofit beautiful well I'd love to learn more maybe there is an opportunity for us to work together do you plan on having kids in the future yes I do and that's why I'm trying to get this body right and tight because after I pop these kids out trying to snap right back and then um yeah I don't I don't plan to gain the 150 lbs that I lost have you thought about the ramifications of the weight that you would gain by having children yes I have it's something I think about as I am approaching the age of my childbearing years um that's something I've taken into consideration which is why I'm manage them five6 days out the week beautiful well good luck to you thank you likewise thank you thank you okay and we do have our last guy here if we can have your name how old you are and why you ended up popping your balloon oh yeah my name is Anthony and I'm 28 and I pop my balloon cuz kind of what bro said like she remind me of my cousin back home and it's just like I know that kind of I I know how that Vibe goes with me and it's back and forth it's beautiful but it's not you know I couldn't keep a romantic thing going with it dang I need to can y'all please pull up these pictures of y'all family I need see I maybe I should have put me a little wig on where you from I'm from Cleveland Cleveland okay all right man yeah I mean I don't know I'm from Florida but still hold let me go back out and come somebody got a wig in back but no she look good she look good though I like I like her she look good I mean can I get one of your locks real quick put one in the back one in the front all right Jessica well thank you so much for coming out unfortunately everybody did pop their balloon so we couldn't find you love today but maybe next time you sure you don't want to blow your I think it might be a air pump in the bank I'll take that thank you so much let's give it up for her guys all right let's go ahead and bring out our next single lady hey welcome in if we can have your name hello my name's called calleda how old are you I'm 31 years old 31 okay and what do you do I'm a model all right nice nice and what do you look for in a guy um tall and doesn't matter dark white black okay I like all types of guys nice okay so you like to experiment yes okay all right we like that all right so we do see a couple balloons did get pop so let's go over to some of those guys and get a little more info okay all right let's start right on over here and I'll have you to stand right next to me for this camera okay sir um if we can have just let her know your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon my name is David I'm 30 years old and the reason I popped the balloon um she's just not my type and what makes her not your type um I will say a buddy shape I just prefer a little bit of a thicker you know yeah okay F and now is David somebody that you would approach is he your type um no in what way um I he's intimidating kind of looking so I wouldn't walk up to him oh yeah it's called Uh male energy okay sure yeah so just that just the energy that he's giving off what about as far as like looks Go I mean he's handsome he's not bad looking thank you you're beautiful too thank you yeah all right cool thank you just go ahead and ask our guy here why did you end up popping your balloon and what's your name and how old are you my name's Adam I'm 31 and like him just a little too skinny for me okay that's fine but that's it other than that you're beautiful thank you I mean she is a model you know this yes for sure I get it and I've dated some models and I've retired from doing that sorry we left a bad taste in your mouth like yes yes but it's okay okay yeah okay and is he your type not really I don't really like dreadheads like for personal reasons but I mean you're not badl looking either you're handsome too so yeah all right yeah all right thank you and then let's go right on over here s if we can have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon my name is Terrence I'm 34 and I'm looking for a bigger I want bigger too I I want I want to be like I'm working out a little bit sometimes for the these three right here it's okay I been lost you over the couch I you over the couch it's okay but you beautiful though yeah you like a um I appreciate it a black queen I am a black queen period okay and now is Terren your type is he someone that you would approach um no he's a little too short for me I like taller men CU I'm tall so yeah and you said taller about like how how tall like when I put on Heels I'm like 5'9 almost 5'8 so like six foot or taller okay yeah all right thank you okay sir your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon bro I'm 30 uh I've been KN him since like high school and doing all that stuff I know her family so we sff so that's why yeah so we Ain Crossing those paths we not but he's cool he's a handsome dude he's cool yes that's that's the only reason she's dope she's cool people yeah okay so just cuz you just cuz you guys know each other that's you yeah that's the only reason okay all right fair enough okay sir your name how old you are why' you pop your balloon jivens I'm 24 years old and I don't like your nails they're too long sorry and then um just a little too too old for me okay that's fine and just the nails that's the only thing the nails um I'm a fitness trainer so I could build That Ass Up You know okay sorry am I supposed to say it is fine it doesn't need no more building but thank you she said sh no building okay fine I appreciate it okay all right and now is he someone that you would approach how are you feeling him um he's fine I just don't like the open shirt with the hair and the necklaces but he's fine he's handsome too mhm all right okay and now you know Nails that's something that could be changed if that's the only thing well it just it just represents what else what else you guys just speak your mind like I need I need you to be able to be my wife you know okay and you can't really do that with long nails like that they're going to be breaking every like two seconds oh oh sure okay so do you always wear long nails do you not always this length but you know I it just depends on my mood what I feel like doing okay like you said she changes it up yeah cool okay all right all right okay so let's go ahead and ask our next guy here your name how old are you why did you pop your balloon hello I'm rard I am 27 and I pop my balloon one I was going to pop it early cuz I saw the nails too but I said I thought the same thing like okay this this can change but then when he said you know we could work on the booty a little bit I was and then you were like no I'm good just write like that I was like oh maybe a little stubbornness too and I don't know like we got to be open yeah see I like open mind like okay well you're telling me that you want to change me and I'm telling you I'm fine so that's a problem for you no but I it was more just like maybe in the I actually if you think you look good and you like you actually do look good but that's fine but it's more like other conversations or other things possibly oh maybe I think you should grow in this area maybe you might be a little bit stubborn that's what I just got off of initial just and then you kind of said a little hard-headed so okay you are you are gorgeous thank you I appreciate it okay and is he your type in any way I mean yeah he's very handsome I probably would talk to him if he came up to me at a party or somewhere yeah probably thank you all right nice okay so we'll come back to him cuz he had you you had it last minute pop let's go over here and then we'll get back to you so if we can have your name how old you are and why you popped your ballon oh yeah my name is Anthony and 28 uh probably because uh a little bit of conversation about the booty me I'm from the south so you know traditionally how get down but uh you know if she some cornbread maybe it'll get well but you said you you said you was fine like you didn't want to change it so I am fine well I mean you are fine I'm not disagreeing with you there but I was like you know if you wanted to put it on I would have been encouraging that but you didn't seem open-minded to that path in your life and that's why I had to make my decision okay that's fine but um yeah she's definitely gorgeous and she seemed a little high maintenance too oh so that's fact okay see so you can't keep up with her is what you're saying you can't afford me is that what you're saying no it's it it's more like a it's a Down to Earth Vibe like how we going to chill and stuff when you always worried about the Kardashians and all other stuff trust me I'm very down to earth I'm not worried about them at all like I'm very chill actually my personality is very chill but I just this is just you know what I want you know how I make myself look good but that's not my personality all the time you know what I mean I'm very chill but it's okay that's for sure yeah yeah okay and is he your type in any way not really but you know he's the handsome dude too you know but he's not really what makes him not your type a little too short for me and um I mean you're okay your style is a little different but it's cool mhm okay yeah thank you okay so let's head on over here if we can have your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon my name is Dr elim I'm 38 years old and I pop my balloon after listening to you okay damn okay I think humility and integrity is something that takes a lot of work to acquire and it doesn't seem like you've done that work yet no okay have you had therapy before no you want to be my therapist if you need one I do okay okay I charge by the hour sure I mean it's you know it's funny but it's not a joke okay sure so you think I need therapy I know you need therapy I think we all need therapy but it takes a certain level of humility to admit it and if you can admit it then well you definitely need therapy okay okay sure and why do you think she need I know you said everyone needs it but why are you telling her specifically that you think she needs it well I think we're all giving a bit of constructive criticism and it seems like you're taking it harshly which means you have a level of insecurity that needs to be talked with a third party okay I think you're too into that cuz I don't need therapy I'm fine I'm not insecure very secure with myself but that's your opinion and it's okay thank you for proving my point I feel like sometimes men like when you're too confident they think like it's a problem for them and it's fine it's okay to be insecure but not you don't know me you just see me two seconds ago insecurity is something we all struggle with and the fact that you can't admit that means that you haven't been able to work past it okay and you're already proving to me that it's going to take work to communicate with you because you're not listening to me okay Doctor you got a card I'll call you after the show and you can give me a session you can take my Instagram sure and I did I mention I was a doctor or you just called me that feel like you said Doctor but okay so this is a great opportunity for you to learn that communication can be had without getting defensive and we can talk to each other like adults and work through our troubles in the same way I have and in the same way you need to okay so we can definitely talk after the show okay sure okay and now as far as Doctor here yeah is he someone that you would approach is he your type in any way I mean yeah he's goodlooking too he's tall I like that dark skin sure and and I can definitely afford you financially but maybe not emotionally okay so you you can't handle me is what you're saying but it's okay that's fine I can handle you I just have to make the decision if it's worth my time to do that okay that's fine that's fine it is what it is I'm mean open arms like seriously no shade okay all right like it's all love just being honest with what I've been through and what it seems like you need to experience as well okay all right sure okay well as we see here here all the balloons unfortunately did get popped they did so we couldn't find you love today but you know what maybe next time thank you so much for coming on thank you for having me bye guys okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single girl oh right over here hey welcome if I can have your name Kayla Kayla and how old are you 22 22 okay what do you do I do real estate and I'm a property manager Property Management okay all right and now um what do you look for in a guy I just I don't I don't know they all look good though they all look good I don't know okay so what about height what oh you got to be taller than me what heels on okay so cuz I'm 5'8 okay so and we heels you're probably like 510 59 okay nice all right and so what do you like to do for fun so I model on the side too um I also got two properties out here that I use for airbnbs so yeah I'm I'm you know I do a lot of stuff okay um and then I I got two dogs so if you're not a dog lover just go ahead and pop it now okay oh nobody's popping nobody is popping okay a okay you like dogs oh all right let's go ahead and see why pop their balloons then come on let's go with the one that popped first all right if you just stand right next to me camera okay if you don't want to just let her know your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon hello I'm rard I'm 27 uh I you are really cute and I like your personality but the dogs I actually like dogs but you know I like to travel and you know we going to have to get dog babysitters or something you don't got to worry about that though we really do though that's on you swe yeah it is on me and I that's what we going to do but um yeah you're gorgeous I like your personality but the dogs saying I like dogs but that's that's an issue for me miss that okay so it was just the dogs nothing else is if if I'm going listen to she said it's not a problem so if it's not a problem which I don't know we'll see then maybe I'll take a balloon okay but is she your type oh yeah of course and I'm actually liking more about her just her voice voice and the way she's interacting with y'all more than actually the looks to which is actually a plus soet yeah and now so is he your type yeah I mean I don't discriminate I like black men so I don't care what color you is light skin dark skin I like black men okay you don't have Prepon like beard hair style I like it all so you're more of like a like a personality person I see okay all right well let's go to our next guy here let's see what's going on and if you can let her know your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon Jens I'm 24 years old and I pop my balloon because I know her yeah that's it she's very beautiful and yeah we just two closer friends but it's okay it's okay about your brother no no no no no no we we met while we're doing modeling so like I don't cross pass once I put you in a friend zone that's it you ain't no coming back from that okay and do you feel the same same about that yeah oh yeah okay okay all right cuz just cuz somebody friends on you doesn't mean you have to do it back no no no I already did it I did all what is he questioning about what's the issue okay if I can borrow your toothpick so let's go ahead oh you know what the right when we were about to give the options to you let's head on over here sir if we can have your name how old you are and why you pop po your balloon my name is David I'm 30 years old and the reason I popped my balloon cuz uh as soon as you walked in you look gorgeous you look beautiful however she asked you a very important question she asked you what are you looking for and you said I don't know I don't know what I'm looking for that's the reason why I said no okay and now how old are you again 22 22 okay I'll be 23 in March okay okay and now do you have like anything in particular that is like a red flag for you where you're like no that's if you're not submissive to me I don't exactly my point you clarify as in I'm really a romantic woman okay um if we not doing dates or like it's just us and we just always going out cuz you want to be seen and you want to be in a l like I'm not with that I like my man to be laid back okay so you want to go on dates I do what do what do you like to do I like to do everything I'm really like one of the ones like I just whatever you want to do I'm here for it cuz I'm really like adventurous I like to do whatever I'm not from it so just me being in Arizona I'm down to try new things so yeah where you from I'm from Texas okay yeah okay okay okay okay and she didn't catch your name and how old you are my name's Adam I'm 31 31 okay and I did hear some people pop their balloon back there when you said something about submiss so let's just let's go back let's go back this way because I have a feeling I have a feeling I know where it's coming from all right look at me I wasn't even stopping there I was stopping here all right so if we can have your name how old you are and why you ended up popping your balloon yeah my name is Anthony I'm 28 and I'll popped it because she was saying that she needed a man to be submissive and that ain't me I ain't never been me he's too turn yeah I'm too turned why do you need your men to be submissive because I'm submissive to my man and I just too submissive I sure one second sorry we'll get to you don't worry we're right here yeah that's that's my whole thing I I don't think two submissive people should be in a relationship so like I'm going to be the definitely the more dominated and then the woman will be the submissive one it only makes sense yeah yeah right and I was going to ask you about that so if your man is submissive and you're submissive what are you submitting to if you guys are both that's a good question yeah and she she don't seem like she know anything that she want like she just she that's exactly let me can I can I clarify something to y'all real quick that's exactly why I'm here to see what I do want because I'm just used to finding men like in the club I don't want that I don't want the men that's in the club as we go the balloon Popp but she's definitely she's lovely she wonderful but like yeah too many of you know differences in opinion kind of a red flag for real yeah sorry though all right it's okay whatever a okay so let's head on over here cuz he he already had something to say before we even got to him so ask me the submissive question so first let's have your name how old you are and then we could go ahead and get into why you pop sure my name is Dr elim I'm 38 years old okay and I pop my balloon just because you're simply too young and age isn't really a factor but you don't know what you want how old are you again 38 you're 38 oh yeah red flag so he's you you are very handsome I wouldn't even thought you were 38 of course not but it's less about being a red flag and more about being a liability I get it if I were to bring you into my life you would be a liability right do you got kids though no can you no you can ask another question now um I mean you said you a doctor right that's correct okay I mean I don't even know what to ask you because you don't like me I'm too young it's not it's I mean if you change your mind I'm open to it though why would you be open to it cuz you're handsome for one so you only like me because I'm beautiful just like I'm beautiful yeah but that's not why I would only like you so why would you like me cuz you didn't answer that because you can bring something and add something to my life but because you're a liability you can't add anything to my life right you would be a liability to everything in my life so what can I not add to your life what what is that you can't teach me anything you can't help me with my finances in any way you can't add any intellectual anything into my life and it's not because you're not capable it's just because you're not there yet Young not there yet and if you're not already on that path I'm already on it that's the problem you don't know enough about me and you're absolutely right I don't know enough about you you said you've had you have Airbnb properties the other girls back there you're messing up oh next oh and I can tell that you're triggered and that's okay I'm not triggered sweetheart you are you are very handsome we can work we can work through this together please you said I can't bring you anything so it's like what was there's no need to talk bring anything right now say okay and this is why your immaturity will prevent you from being with a real man no I've dealt with real because you're not listening to me and you're trying to talk over me go ahead I'm listening adults have conversations I'm listening okay so if we were to get together you would be asking me questions like Dr Elum what did you do to acquire everything that you acquired what did you do to learn everything that you learn what type of habits and skills do you have that can help me get to where I want to get you have two Airbnb proper how can we get to how can we get to I already know how to do that my dad that's how I got it next contestant please please okay I I was going to pick you okay so let's go ahead and so we have two guys still that have not popped their balloon yet so I'm going to have you hold this toothpick and now is there a question that you want to ask either one of them to go ahead and narrow this down H yes I do go ahead ask it ask it okay I can go to either one or just in general and just with you go to either one or okay that um okay okay can I ask Y what do y'all looking in for a woman let's start here oh first let's let her know your name how Jordan then go ahead and answer okay my name Terence I'm 34 I look for a good strong woman that's loving family background that want to grow her spirituality or relationship with that higher power or whatever she believe in you know I'm not like bias or anything or I'm not picky but I do want a strong women that's like uh that I can lead and um show you know have a family with you from the south yeah where you from Alabama okay yeah and um shoot I mean I don't ask for much but I do want some you know I want how old are you 34 34 you got kids no I've been in two relationships so how long shoot 175 why you not married I ran for the last one but I think I'm ready now though I'm ready now though I was a little young okay I'm I'm going think about you cuz right now everything sound good it's your hype for me that's the only thing but I'm I'm going to think about you cuz you you actually kind of cute let's go ahead and ask him over here so so we got your name earlier yes you want to just go ahead and answer her question uh I think I'm looking for a girl who is self-sufficient um I don't necessarily need to lead anyone I think you can do that on your own you have your own life um I think for the most part I just want someone who company I enjoy um yeah what kind of music you like uh I listen to a lot of old school so um old school R&B old school Soul um I was making fun of the other girl saying her hair looks like Anita Baker but I love Anita Baker um what else yeah listen to hip-hop of course okay um yeah and how old are you again 31 31 and you don't mind my age your age is definitely something that is concerning but you have a really nice accent so my accent is the reason why one of the reasons why one of the reasons why do you want to know the other reasons I do cuzz I mean I'm lowkey kind of I me you're attractive you're attractive you're attractive you have a nice face you have a nice body um you seem to dress pretty well um I like your tattoos as well thank you um yeah you seem ambitious and that is commendable okay can I ask you what you do for work I'm sorry I'm a creative producer so you do like video yeah I do uh documentary film narrative film commercial video what you do for work I'm sorry I didn't ask you yeah you was the one that was on the last show huh yeah look at you but you you you a fan or you ain't like me how you feel about no you you give I'm really leaning towards him right now cuz he looking a little the ball is in your court am I am I allowed to like go a little bit right it all what it's up to you whatever you want go ahead and ask him go ahead and ask him okay please don't think I'm IMM mature for asking I just really want to know yes how how it I uh I'm a little freak so I had the chck measurement so uh it was like eight but I was like trying to do the most to P to get the eight and a half so but I got and I I'll show it to you I show it okay 8 inches that's a little too big for me what you so I'm going keep it a buck I'm like a little bit under seven but like six C what about on soft on soft oh man I would say are you a grower I'm more of a grower than a shower yeah yeah best believe a more a girl than a shower but you know I haven't had any complaints like I have no complaints okay when you say that how many I know I'm I'm dragging this how many people have you done what your body count uh I I don't know uh it's probably more than my age when though like now or when you was younger like M like more than my current age no what I'm asking you like were you having a lot of sex then or you having a lot of sex now all the above what are you talking about because like I'm trying to figure out when did you get the most bodies cuz like I'm I'm really I love my body too much to just be you know well I I I'm very much so I think uh sexual health is really important okay so um you know I go to the SD Clinic every three months I get tested um I wear condoms um if we decide to have unprotected sex we're going to practice some form of birth control okay um do you want babies no I do I want babies yeah uh that's been a question that I've been asking myself for a long time I say yes cuz I'm starting to like you please say to be honest uh with the way with the way that the world is looking right now I don't think so but you're 31 I understand understand that but there's mass shootings every other day there's okay so if I was if we was to you know rock it out would could I change your mind I don't know unless you going make a million dollars maybe okay I don't know oh okay let's have you move on up here let's go down over here oh you'll stand on this side of me sir okay I'm really upset you right here okay so do you have any questions you want to ask her before you decide that this is someone you want to proceed with um yeah how attracted to him are you cuz this is my [Laughter] cousin okay wait I can't lose you to him than me look he is very attractive you is too obviously that's why you know but you you just you just more soft with me he a little you a little aggressive I like it but oh you aggressive I like I like it just a little soft just a little bit you can still be aggressive with me but not that aggressive okay you you you going to hurt my feelings and I I don't that M at you so is that your only question for her yeah yeah I think we can figure out the rest later okay all right so is it a yes for you for him yes for you for her we got another [Applause] match all right you guys go ahead and head on over there thank [Laughter] you okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single lady hello hello welcome in what's your name uh my name is Leona Leona how old are you I'm 20 20 okay and what do you do um I'm in the military and I'm in nursing school nice okay all right and Leona what do you look for in a man uh that's a good question uh you have to be tall of course um obviously you have to be romantic just a normal things about uh I guess relationships I don't if I see something I don't like I leave autom ially I'm not going to deal with nonsense okay and you can't have any kids all right so you can't have any kids can't have any kids no kids okay all right so let's go ahead and go over to some of the guys ended up popping their balloons just to get a little more information go ahead and follow me okay let's go ahead and start right here okay all right so if you could go ahead and let us know your name how old you are and why you popped your balloon b 30 uh young and and she after that she said she can't have kids you don't want kids or you can't I don't want a man that has kids oh you don't want I thought heard but yeah I was just too young that's it okay I thought I thought that's what I heard I was like oh I can't have kids or don't want kids I was like yeah just Che young that's it okay okay and then as far as looks go like I know you said just the age thank you she think too thank you all right and it's okay and is B somebody that is your type um actually he knows a lot of people I know so no okay like he's actually very handsome though but he just knows too many people I know who do I know let you know we can talk later oh [ __ ] okay okay all right let's go ahead and uh go down here all right uh go ahead and let her oh no you can stand right next right here y you're good okay so let us know your name how old you are why you popped your balloon uh my name is David I'm 30 years old and the reason I pop the balloon is just because she's not my type no disrespect what about me it's not your type what I mean by being my my type I put in consideration the fact that one they want to have kids and when she I thought she said that she's not going to be able to have kid or she's she doesn't want to have kids but that's not what she said um I kind of put in consideration the fact that most women after having their first child they as a Tor on their bodies right so by looking at a body type I don't think just's the one for me I don't even know what that means okay so my response to you is no offense sir but real life you give Uncle and I'm very young so I can't be with somebody who gives uncle and then the problem is you're wearing a suit with Jordans yeah but it's like not like a cool style it's like you just didn't have dress shoes that's how was that's what it's giving well no offense I'm not trying to be rude I'm just being honest so actually I'm glad you pop your balloon because if I was on the other end I would have popped mine too but yeah thank you well all I can say is good luck and that's my own style I like it that's fine right happy for you okay probably get a stylist but okay let's go ahead and head down right over here okay so if you can let her know what your name is and how old you are and also why you ended up popping your balloon my name is jivens and I am 24 years old and just a little too tall for me sorry I like him shorter handsome though thank you you're beautiful thank you and now is he your type yeah if he was tall for sure okay so the height yeah was what takes him out I want to yeah okay yeah all right it's the hey so just the height for you yeah just the hey okay all right the hype for both of you I guess yeah well he's handsome nice okay thank you all right here we go thank you God oh we praise the Lord uhoh okay if we can have your name and why he ended up popping your balloon my name's Dr elim I'm 38 years old do El you're 38 mhm eliminated you have any questions for me um you're a doctor that's great I mean maybe you're just artsy cuz I don't really understand what's happening but you don't have any questions I don't you got kids no okay why uh um don't want them okay you're not married that's correct never been engaged no you're 38 and you're a doctor that's correct what's wrong conversations like this which is me asking you about yourself you don't like when people ask you about yourself well you walked in and you said you were 20 and I was waiting for you to say something that maybe would help with your age cuz you're a little bit young for me but understand nothing yet you heard some though but yeah 18 years is a lot yeah it's a lot I was dunking on people when you were in elementary school or I was even born so yeah okay okay cool yeah much respect though you got a great Vibe you're beautiful I'm sure you're going to make a man very happy one day and raise beautiful kids you seem like you have the aura that would make a good mother and I think that's that's healthy so good luck to you thank you that was so sweet thank you now is Dr elim someone if that's your type I mean if he wasn't I mean we definitely he definitely is my type he's very handsome he's tall like he fits it and he's a doctor duh but 38 are you Nigerian Ganan a God I'm Gan oh good for you what's your middle name Ganan and Liberian what's your middle name you have you have a Ganan name Aqua Aqua what is that Tuesday born huh no Wednesday Wednesday yeah what was yours kame hey Saturday y yeah you know how to do you know how to make gel off rice yes all right all right I'm just saying maybe if you are you actually gion because I'm half what's but you're half too you said got name Liberian but I'm like West African though my mom's from Texas oh okay okay so I grew up in Dallas okay cool but I still grew up in an African household don't trip okay okay can I ask you about your piercing oh yeah yeah go ahead do you know what it's called it's a smiley piercing okay is it affecting your teeth at all not at all you sure no but I tend to take it out I tend to take it out and like it just depends on what I'm doing but I definitely can't have it in uniform so what type of uniform military I told you that when I started oh that's right are you what branch are you on Navy dope I work on uh Air Force bases to at Luke yeah look at no way hold the hold the balloon no it's okay I'll just play you can make me Jael off rice though I still will need that okay we can talk we can talk we talk offline we can talk offline oh my God you have a manicure ah god wow this guy be 38 it's okay it's okay it's okay this too bad next lifetime yeah next life next lifetime okay you're great thank you that was a long combo W okay if I can borrow your toothpick okay so we have three guys that have still not popped their balloon so I'm now switching it over to you oh I'm scared okay so um do you have a question you want to ask these guys to kind of narrow it down and make it easier for you to pop one person's balloon okay I want to know their names their ages and why they picked me okay let's start right here since we're already here okay yeah my name is Anthony 28 and I don't know I just like your energy I like to hear you talk thank you was funny too like not not too many women can make me laugh a thank you say about BR Jordan I was like oh she funny thank you thank you okay yeah okay all right let's go to our next guy hey I'm rard I'm 27 and I just love your swag I love your personality and sense of humor uh you have a gorgeous smile so oh thank you and then you said you can make Jola and you want to chop my food out I want to try okay is it just my food you want to chop you only want to chop my food said only the food you want to only food oh now we can try a bunch of things I'm 34 okay my name Terrence okay um I think you gorgeous I mean um sh I would mind see you just run up and just jump on me or something you know you talking about you climb trees yeah I do you want to climb a tree yeah I do I do unfortunately I want to climb a tree or at least be the same height as my tree okay and then don't get me wrong like I love I love how expressive you are but I really like like the clean cut like not long hair look yeah okay so it's going to be a no for me okay do I pop it oh I'm so sorry okay thank you okay so we got two guys oh and I got you to narrow it down to okay I'mma ask yall have nose piercings oh okay okay I can tell you got a little scar okay so where you from and what's no [ __ ] where you from what do you guys do I'm from Phoenix I'm born I'm a native born and raised and what do I do uh my main job is digital marketing spe specifically and pay social media but I also do photography and videography as well okay cool cool cool yeah I do medical transportation but also on the side I um I have a sketch comedy business and I do a fashion I got a fashion business as well yeah yeah I go to pick this okay okay let's go for it okay my question is if I met your friend and I asked them about you what would they say oh that's a great question if you met my friends and they asked about and you asked about me they would tell you that very outgoing it's like it's weird I'm a extrovert but I'm always usually at home like you don't really I'm not really out like that um I mostly travel um what would they tell me I'm funny for sure they tell you that she don't play that like I'm really cool but I don't let anything slide and I'm really down to earth like if somebody does me right or we have a certain relationship whether that's platonic or you know romantic I'm down for real so yeah okay they love me and then I'll ask one more like what would you say your top love language is I would say really really words of affirmation and like just like not just telling me you care but I want it to be shown cuz people can talk but you got to show that like people just like to talk and me I like to talk but you have to have something behind the talking okay yeah those were good answers yeah okay do you have any questions you guys know each other okay and do you have any questions for Leona hey so you say you work at Luke Air Force yeah oh okay I got pop why my my pop worker at Luke Air Force Base and I just had a whole bunch of military stuff dad in the military yeah he was yeah I got I'm a reservist I don't live on base oh no it's all good I just don't want to do the whole military pop that damn why is you going to pop it for me cuz he just exudes like I got this [ __ ] you know I like that so you saying you saying I mean to be honest I really didn't pop it at first earlier just cuz I really wanted to hear her talk I like her energy so want to keep it going no you're great too but that whole military stuff I hate when I tell people that because they always think that I'm a reservist I'm not full-time like I'm not a Barrack's bunny if you guys know what a barck bunny is y'all know what I'm talking about that's what I'm saying like a whole thing to go with that I was like no I'm good so it looks like we going him all right let's have you come on okay okay do you all have any more questions for each other or is that health and fitness is a priority in my life how about you yeah okay wake up 5:00 a.m. I go to the gym I go to the gym if I don't get in at 5:00 a.m. I'll make sure I go in the afternoon if I can't get it in that day I just make sure at least I do four times a week um I do try to eat right again I'm in the military so I can't let up even if I wasn't like I can't let up cuz I look good come on all right yeah that's that's enough for me that's a yes for you yes for me it's it yes for you it's yes for me right we got another m i take that mic thank you all let's give it up for them y'all don't be haters give it up clap clap okay let's go ahead and bring out our next single girl hello welcome what's your name vivana vivana how old are you I'm 21 21 okay and what do you do well I'm a full-time student and I'm a customer service agent with Discover Card okay all right and Viviana what do you look for in a man oh I want a litter and a protector okay somebody who can lead me and help me out okay all right and um as far as like looks go what's your type I don't have a type as long as you're African so you want someone African yeah okay and are you from Africa yeah I'm from Ghana from Ghana all right nice okay so we do have no balloons popped yet so that's really really good um okay so if I can take one of y'all's toothpick thank you sir okay so do you have any questions that you want to ask the guys before we narrow it down for you um sure okay is anyone to be married have kids oh they wouldn't be here I hope okay that's good okay any other questions like some what are some red flags To You O like what's a deal breaker for you I guess that's a better question do you give your girls flowers do you give a go flowers or no flowers so you want you would like for a guy to give you flowers okay so I'm never sorry y' it's okay don't be nervous don't be nervous okay so a deal breaker for you is a guy that won't give you flowers yeah that's your only deal breaker well there's more but I can't I get get to know them first you know I can lay down everything right now so okay so let's go ahead and eliminate two of them for right now strictly based off of looks so I'm going to give you this and based off of our lineup here two of them that you want to go ahead and pop their balloon okay I think I would do dread head sorry cuz you're short oh hold on one second hold I'm sorry cuz I'm a bit tall and I'm model I wear heels so I have to get somebody that's taller than me um ooh two let's actually you know what let's start with this one let's go ahead and get his name how old he is and you know let me stand next to me and you know what were you feeling about her why didn't you pop well she got a nice body and I was like ready to hear what she had to say so I was trying to see where she was going and she said she wanted somebody to lead her so I feel like she might be on to some what I'm on but well I mean if I ain't tall enough I can't do nothing I can't you know but U if you don't find nobody I take it noral out there we can um try try to see see if you want to work out a plan or something and do something together like on for fun or something okay I don't work out though huh I don't work out yeah I about work out I ain't talking about work out [ __ ] I [ __ ] you can work out none come on you do that though why you do that hold hold on guys hold on hold on hold up hold up I just started working out so it ain't nothing to just start working out and being healthy so it a okay don't close your mind off to that okay all right all right let's go over here okay so this go ahead and let us know your name how how old you are and why you ended up popping your U my name is David uh I'm 30 years old by the way very beautiful woman thank you and uh uh the reason I pop my balloon is just uh cuz she doesn't work out yeah and I think I'm at work out freak so but you can help me work up we can work us together so hey you never know we have to start from somewhere yeah maybe someday but not right now okay that's fine okay and now so David it's just the fact that she doesn't work out that was the only reason why you pop yes okay okay okay all right and now is David your type is he someone that you would approach well he said 30 that's a bit order for me now okay yeah and how old are you again I'm 21 21 okay oh yeah that's one more point that I forgot to mention yeah I'm young so young and lit that's a okay all right enjoy your life not a bad thing at all okay all right thank you let's go ahead and go right on over here so if you can let us know your name and why you ended up popping your balloon b uh just because she don't go to the gym but she should have started off with oh you could take me to yeah but plus I'm 30 you just said that's too old yeah it is for me yeah if I say my African age I work I'm I'm joking okay okay and now is B your type definitely wasn't for the age I say yes somebody I'll go out with yeah okay and what makes him your type well he looks good he's a handsome man so appreciate it yeah okay all right thank you thank you B okay and our next guy here name and why you ended up hopping your balloon my name is jiven and I popped my balloon because you don't work out and I need somebody to work out and that has that discipline already you know so okay yeah but you're very beautiful thank you and so you said you would go to the gym right now you just don't like is it is there a specific reason for that not really I just don't want to if I had a choice I will but I don't I'm good okay I don't have no problem I need you to want to you know or I want somebody to motivate me to want to do it you know there's one thing about like motivating somebody to go do it but there's like that person has to come the other way okay to want to do it to want to better themselves to want to grow you know and I need somebody like that in my life not to understandable thank you and now is um jiven your type definitely I'll go out with them yes okay okay and like what you said definitely that was that was strong definitely what makes him definitely your type well he's well dressed he looks like he has his thing together you know life together so yeah definitely he looks good too okay yeah all right thank you okay let's go right on up here um name and why you ended up popping your balloons yeah my name is Anthony and it's a shame but you know it's because of the whole working out thing okay you know I'm kind of a gy rat so I need to be up in there but you mentioned that you was open to getting worked out or working it out what did you mean by that it's too like is it too late I mean there's a lot there's more balloons over there I just want I just want a clarification here like if we wake up in the morning we want to go to the gym I okay yeah like working out okay okay getting your health together correct yes yeah yes I'll do that okay yeah go ahead give give me that balloon oh okay okay all right y'all you see y'all popped but she she's motivated okay she say she's down you work it out you can work it out okay than all right so we do have two guys here if we said this is Anthony and then who can have your name hi my name is Dr elim I am 38 years old 38 yeah I would like to say no because I feel you said you're a doctor are going to provide for me you're going to take care of me it depends on what you need done a lot a lot like what well I'm a college student so I'm just starting to get my life together okay so I going to take the process with me to finish get my career and all that stuff say that again I going to like help me get through my career and stuff like that what is what do you mean like the career that I want how am I going to help you get the career that you want financially more um support me you want me to pay for you to get a career that you want no pay for it but like be there for me you know because some people will not wait for you to get where you want to go in life careerwise okay so I willing to do that am I willing can you be more specific with your question sure so right now I'm a student I don't have the high paying job yet are you going to wait for me to get my high paying job yeah I don't need you to provide for me okay I'm fine with you being in school and getting your career and doing what you do okay but the age 38 sure so now is her age a problem for you originally it was but after listening to you speak and saying your temperament you giving more of like a 28y old Vibe and you say you don't work out but I cannot tell well is the African jeans I I know and I almost popped my balloon because you said you wanted someone African but I'm half ganian I'm ganian too sty what what's your middle name du and my last name is am that's beautiful yeah that's beautiful wow I know it's going to be a hard one what you going to do girl what you going to do you going to let me walk out of your life right now you going to let age be a fact this man's this man's old enough to be your father he's old enough to be your father oh no that's old game he been doing he been doing that before you was born you need a a man like me we know the same artists but then you w just understanding my culture though right Gan I I get you I I know exactly what you need oh I know it's a tough one it's a tough one it's a tough one do you want to do you have a question to narrow it down between the two of them how you going to introduce me to your family member or family very slowly but my you don't matter but my age it doesn't matter my age no I do what I want in my life okay okay ask how he would how old are you I didn't even I don't I'm 28 28 yeah 38 10 years apart 10 years how old is your father very old okay how about this let me let me ask them a question for you yeah do it okay and it's one that we had asked earlier so where would you take her on a first date uh first day I like to take people a lot of places I'm I'm an adventurer so I like to show my woman the world I think first off we start off getting a couple drinks take their nice little Speak Easy get her mind flowing see what's going on okay and then from there we can go dancing I know a couple places downtown okay you know okay you like to dance I like to dance I like to dance you know and then from there see where the night goes okay this is tough right out over here so for work I travel so I'm based here in Phoenix and in Los Angeles and for our first date I'd fly you out to LA and I'd take you to one of my favorite Beach spots and we'd have a picnic on the beach and then we would go to my friend Speak Easy okay and we'd have a couple of drinks and even though you are a little bit younger it's okay because I know the guy okay okay all right you got to make your decision based off of that who's balloon are you feeling like popping I think I could bypass his age because he he has a lot to Ring to me maybe he can too you never know but I think I'm g go with him because so you're going to pop his balloon oh I'm sorry yeah I fought for you a little [Laughter] bit hold that okay so I know you said you're under picking him just to make sure it's a yes for you yes it is okay and Sir is it a yes for you for her yes all right thank you both for coming on you guys go ahead you ahead go with [Laughter] [Applause] him all right everyone thank you for tuning in as you saw we made quite a few matches uh we did have a couple of single guys left I'm so sorry you guys couldn't find love today but hopefully next time and if you are in the Phoenix Arizona area and you want to be tuned in our next or you want to be casted in our next episode the email address will be in the description box below and we'll catch you all next time make sure you like comment and [Music] [Applause] subscribe oh

Channel: Arlette Amuli

Views: 1,622,138

Keywords: dating show, pop the balloon or find love, love, matchmaking, phoenix arizona, funny, american, african, reality show, it's a match

Id: skVd7mI6MQU

Length: 88min 7sec (5287 seconds)

Published: Wed Jan 10 2024