Ending Things

the funny thing is we don't even know when we broke up while we were together I was already moving on what are we I just came back to Philippine after Co I think I need to we need to explain what happened to us so I just came back here I'm going to know I know I'm just listening I'm going to explain I'm going to explain it from now so what he was about to say what he was saying is that it seem we grew with you guys from the very beginning until now you guys are still supporting us maybe at least we have to let you guys know what happened so yeah we're gonna let you know the things that happened before and what happened Us in 2019 2019 I suggested her to come to Korea because I thought if she can speak Korean she would have many opportunity to get a job for example in Korea if you speak English well you can have many Chan es to get a job she already can speak English well so if she can speak Korean too she would have many chances and plus I thought if she do YouTube in Korea she would be a gold button YouTuber because she has many potential she looked like she's born to be YouTuber it wasn't easy but she came to Korea after stopping her study in philippin you look like you're reading something what maybe but it's just like his guide to to not you know to not stutter and explain you guys in a really direct way straight way so yeah he's reading something yeah I'm not I'm not really good at English so I prepared it it wasn't really easy to come to Korea right yeah CFO issues covid issues it's and since it's my first time and I was just 19 years old it was really hard for me go alone in Korea there was a lot of questions from the airport so yeah anyway they they didn't let you go to Korea even though you had Visa like even though I have all the papers they offloaded me for like three times after she came to Korea I wanted her to be a better version herself better version of herself better version of herself so that she can live a good and stable life after she comes back to the Philippines so I put a lot of pressure on her like a strict father it might made her stress out actually it's natural for her age to for sleep late for for sleep and play with friends all the day but I wanted her to achieve many things while she was in Korea but I think this is just quite Korean style this seems to be the reason why Koreans do not feel happy that much and have a high suicide rate I think so I for this reason there were sometimes problems but it wasn't bad in 2020 in 2021 I suddenly had to quit my job for personal reasons and it made me mentally and financially unstable so gradually our relationship started to get worse in the second half of 2021 I had a big surgery I've had a very hard time for month is because of that it was already too much to take care of myself I was sensitive and nervous at the time I think it ended our relationship the funny thing is we don't even know when we broke up the funny thing is while we were together I was already moving on I was trying to move on already because I didn't know our like our situation like what what label do we have what are we in a relationship yeah I couldn't even afford to clar clarify our relationship at the time maybe I just wanted to avoid the situation and then she came back to the Philippines next year last year yeah next year last year of what next year of what next year is 2024 even as that as dads usually say everything was done for you even if it wasn't what you wanted what I did to you was saying I know what you wanted is just stet boyfriend not St father but I had to be more responsible because I stopped your studies and brought you to Korea just all I hope is that you are not hurt too much because of me that's all yeah that's all you you could have you should have sent it to me so that I prepared myself you C although I knew the reasons before when it was happening I knew it was also hard for him at the time because I've heard that when you have for a big surgery it's going to affect your me mental health temper angry your temper temper uhuh uhuh so I knew that but everything happened the way they had to so I'm not questioning anything anymore and everything happened already and what happened back then is the re reason why I became stronger and more independent so if you were thinking that I got hurt of it like too much hurt because of that of course I mean when you are in your relationship it's like the price of joy you know you you love of course you'll get hurt eventually especially if we didn't expect the things to go that way I can say is that I really appreciate all the things you did like I knew you were just like pressured and you had to be really responsible in my parents it's like they have their whole trust in you you know to take care of me and you did everything you think is the best for me so that I can grow up and I I can say that you succeeded you did it you gave you you make me the best version of myself I learned to be independent because of you so when I came back in Philippines I carried it with me so it's like a life lesson that I'm really thankful and I will be always grateful to you for teaching me to be independent were you hurt at that time I couldn't afford to anything I was so I was in very hard time uhhuh because of the surgery uhhuh but were you hurt from what happened our relationship it went down I didn't get hurt I was I was very sorry for you feel sorry for me but you didn't got hurt the guilt yeah you feel the guilt even more than being hurt yeah I felt guilty because of it was because of me no it was not because of you it was because of me obviously but maybe it it could have been better if if only if we were open like we were open to and communicated everything maybe it would be better could be could be but I'm IJ yeah and I infp maybe it could have been better if I am ENFP than you because we were both introvert so even if we were in one house so but the But the rooms our room is separated so we talk do you remember when we talk like in the serious about serious matters and we were just is like close doors I'm in my room he's in in his room we're talking through c talk because we were too shy to open up to each other like face to face and I have it was also hard for because I I'm the type of person who I want to talk something like paru now like now if it's like if I felt hurt if it's if I feel like something is wrong I want to talk about it right now but in his case I have to like feel if the environment or atmosphere is okay for him to open up or is he going to hide again or what it was really hard because there are people who are not open to communication or confrontation and that's okay because it's it's normal I was also like that but yeah it could have been better if you were open for communication I think the communication is is like we are bad at it you maybe because we are for for you could see also the difference we have a lot of difference yeah in culture yeah and you don't speak Korean right and and you don't speak English right now moved on we are now healed and he's also very much okay right now so I think you're now mentally okay I'm fine now you're fine you're fine yeah I think so already a lot of like a long time ago so yeah I I feel so proud you grew up a lot I grew up a lot I wasn't like this before yeah really you were you were just like kid before when I was 18 I admit it and I'm so proud that you have like a lot of character development I can see after two years of meeting you you you had a lot of patience yeah I'm still also growing up even if you're already grown up yeah even though I'm already ground growing up yeah that's okay age doesn't matter when it comes to growing up you know patience I was really Happ to see that anyway thanks for watching why would you thanks for watching us and are you going to come back again yeah later so now what is our label it's actually very important here in Philippines to know what's the label of you know in a relationship what are we Rebel friend Rebel what's that label what's that label label is like uh what are we what is like for example a relationship friendship romantically um friendship friend yeah friends we are friends oh do you think it's possible for an exgirlfriend and ex-boyfriend to be to stay as friends it is why not we are Foreigner it's now clear we are friends okay okay let's end this you going to come back good yeah thanks for watching us and keep watching and supporting her please and they will support you if you're going to start your Vlog but it's really it's really good just to feel that for two years I thought it's going to be awkward for us but now nothing changed it was so good feel so good that nothing changed because when we were in relationship before it already turned into platonic relationship already like naturally so was good bye it was really funny when we met when it was our first meeting here after two years I went to him and then we were we didn't even hug each other we were like this no I was about to punch you because you L for 3 hours so he was like this and I thought it was a piece B I did this I don't have to feel guilty bye-bye by [Music] [Music] bye

Channel: Just Moy

Views: 215,904

Keywords: Korean, Pinay, justmoy, Korean boyfriend, philippines, international couple, 국제커플, 필리핀여자, 필리핀, 필리핀여행, 필리핀생활, 국제결혼, 한필커플

Id: L76OuwT9SGk

Length: 14min 53sec (893 seconds)

Published: Sun Jan 07 2024