EMILY LEAH BROUGHT "RECEIPTS" & THEY DIDN'T PROVE THE POINT SHE WANTED | FULL REACTION

what's up i'm bee and welcome to my channel today we are going to be reacting to emily leah's most recent video titled the receipts and emily leah's side she posted it on march 9th of 2021 and right now it has just over 11 400 views now i wasn't sure if i was going to react to this i'm somebody who personally doesn't keep up on every single aspect of certain dramas going on i try not to be too repetitive in the people that i make my videos about so that way it doesn't ever feel like a personalized attack or like i'm going after somebody unnecessarily but i know that there was a lot of interest in this video and i was really interested to hear what she had to say as well so i watched it kind of like not really paying attention because i was busy doing other things but there were a lot of things that i wanted to respond to within this and then i put up a poll on my community tab and the majority of you said yes make a video so here we are before we hop into emily's video a few things i do have it on 1.25 speed somebody had asked in my last video about her whether i had slowed down her video for analysis purposes and i did not she is just a bit slower in the cadence of her speaking i don't think she has always been like that i think maybe she's trying to do it for dramatic effect maybe she's unsure what she's saying i don't know but i've seen a lot of people talking about how slow her video actually is so i bumped it up just a little bit and then i wanted to show you the tags real quick again i showed you the tags on her last video i'm going to show you them here uh tags on her video this is from tube buddy which is an extension that you can add to chrome to get like extra analytics about youtube videos there's a link in my description if you want uh the tags on here are make money save money investing business how to make money finance entrepreneur small business passive income social media marketing side hustle six figure work from home productivity investment just interesting tags i don't i feel like they're worth noting because they kind of give insight onto what the purpose is of her video and hopefully what her channel like what she's hoping her channel will become i'm assuming i don't know if you think they're interesting let me know your theories about them below but i just wanted to show you that and then somebody else had also mentioned you know in emily's video the first one when she came back she said i've since found out that a lot of these like facts that i said weren't true or weren't completely accurate and one of you asked well then why does she have her anti-mlm video still up such a good question i don't know if she like went through and took out ones where the facts were wrong or inaccurate i don't know which facts she's referring to specifically i have no idea i can only speculate and in this situation speculation isn't helpful to anybody but that's a really good question and she also said you know i don't want to like be blurring people out i want to have actual conversations with people educate stuff like that so if you're reacting to people blurring them out and maybe saying not so nice things about them or you're giving incorrect facts you probably shouldn't have those videos up and then finally i just had one other thing i don't remember her exact phrasing but she talked about how you know people are just being catty and oh i think it's from this video how she doesn't agree with name calling or being mean or savannah marie's approach to how she creates content and it flicked on in my head that emily leah posted a video one time of i believe it was monet monet distributors got together like got a big hotel room rolled up in their nice cars did kind of like a promo video showing off their lifestyle and she put clown music behind it like you don't think that that's a little bit mean i mean for me personally i think that's a pretty slight offense i don't think that's the worst thing you could do to somebody but that's you calling them clowns and so if you don't agree with being mean or making fun of these people that's definitely making fun of them so again it's just something that she's done in the past but she's said that she doesn't agree with other people doing but she won't talk about the times that she did it and actually take accountability and say you know in the past i didn't behave great i did things that i look back and i don't agree with now it's all about the group chat which we'll get into it we'll get into all of it i have the new brown sugar oh milk espresso from starbucks and i'm so excited to try it it's been sitting in my fridge for like two hours so it might be a little bit watered down but i'm ready it's pretty good let's get into it hi there welcome back to my channel or welcome if you're new today's video just about everything let's hear it that's what this video is going to be um i have some disclaimers i want to make a habit all written out on my phone i have some disclaimers i want to make before i get into it because i am i'm over it and i need to explain kind of my thought process throughout all of this and why i did certain things um i just want to share that and i'm going to be showing proof receipts i've got i wish i could show you guys my phone right now i have so much to go through i i want to just keep this real and go through everything so bear with me as i go through so i am going to show a group chat um that does include a large amount of anti-home creators i don't know necessarily if you've been keeping up with the it's i'm on 1.25 correct it sounds like she's talking completely normally and for me i know when i talk to people that i don't know or when i'm speaking on camera i definitely slow my speech down because i have a tendency to talk a little bit quickly so i intentionally do it so i know that i speak a little bit slowly but 1.25 it sounds like a completely normal speed drama and allegations and everything made against me was that i was included in a group chat that was full of creators that were bashing other people but the group chat that i'm going to show may not be the group chat but the point i want to prove and i want to make is that there are group chats that do could be categorized as bashing other creators and i will show the messages i will show videos scrolling through i was not in this group chat however it was sent to me and i do want to say i did so when i first watched the video again i was not like fully focused on it so i didn't get a chance to read what her screenshot said but i am very interested in actually seeing them and knowing what was said in those group chats however the fact that so much of this is focused on a group chat maybe not the group chat but a group chat you know i was canceled because i got accused of being in a group chat i think we're all kind of on the same page where it's like it's not really about the group chat it's you know you're you're making it about that so a lot of us are focusing on it but you chose to leave yes people were coming to you being like oh i think it was emily emily why were you talking smack about savannah which if she wasn't i do think it would have been really good for savannah to correct early on if she did maybe i missed it but being accused of talking smack about somebody in my opinion is not like the biggest accusation in the world everyone at one point in their lives has said something bad about somebody behind their back so i think that's something that people could have gotten over pretty quickly if you were involved in it which you're saying that you weren't even if you had been involved if you were just like yeah you know what i did that that was my bad i shouldn't talk about people like that and you just owned it which is a completely different situation because again you're saying that you weren't involved in it so you leaving isn't even really related to the group chat it's because you said you didn't like and you didn't agree with making anti-mlm content i don't like how all of her focus and attention is going into like debunking and throwing other people under the bus for group chats however if nasty stuff was said we've been over this i'm nosy i want the names ross verify between multiple different sources all of these things and it's matched up for a long time it's like a long time um and i i'm going to go through those for you so yes everything was given by multiple sources so i was able to verify and you'll be able to see that all of the stuff that i show it's just it's it's too much it's too much and another thing i want to say with that is it is just a piece of the puzzle i've been doing entirely content for a year and a half and i saw this shift in the community and the creators a long time ago and there are so many creators that can agree with me that that is why i didn't want to get involved with other creators and contacting other creators and having these background conversations i saw the negative side coming out very very early it's very hard to defend yourself when you one can't keep up with the accusations that are being made against you but it's also hard when you can't prove what is being said is wrong there are so many things that have been said about me that i just can't prove i can't prove that i'm you know this or that i can't prove that i was never in a group chat i can show you guys what i have and that's about all i can do i really don't care about the group chat i don't care if she was in a group chat at this point of course it's a bad look to be in there talking poorly about people in your community but the bigger picture is her actual behavior what we actually saw because i did see some accusations of people saying that both emily and kimberlea got paid off by monet or they got paid off by a different multi-level marketing company and that's why they're anti-mlm and all this stuff which you know if that didn't happen with emily that's gonna sound like a ridiculous accusation but people are gonna have to take your word for it and i think when you this your entire community and your subscriber base and then you dip out and you make yourself unavailable to them they're gonna have a harder time believing whatever it is you have to say if you're not available and you're not at the forefront addressing things it's gonna look like you have something to hide and that trust is just not gonna be there between you and your subscribers fortunately that's the situation i was pushed into and we'll we'll talk about that too in a little bit um i'm trying i don't have these in any particular order i just have a bunch of stuff i need to talk about thing that is really really important is people do not need to like me i'm not making this so people will like me i know that a lot of people don't like me and for those reasons i don't know um and i understand i do put my myself on the internet in a very vulnerable situation and a vulnerable place for people to judge me and send me things and that is my own my own deal but i want to preach the importance of just being kind because some of the things just it needs to stop i have that all in another category i just want people to know what actually what i was actually experiencing and what i actually saw and what happened with this whole group chat accusation fair enough we should always be kind to people i mean i don't think being kind and being nice are the exact same thing i think you can give criticism and critique and still be kind about it but from hearing some of the messages that she got obviously those aren't okay let's handle things in a mature fashion in a way that respects everybody as human beings and the whole deal people deserve to know i understand and i'm not making this video for people who hate me or creators who have bashed me i'm making this for the people who are on the sidelines like what is going on i also want to make it very clear if you've watched my content before i never wanted it to come to this i'm going to be naming names i'm going to be showing names i'm going to be talking about the whole thing because i wrote my name right through the mud i deserve to defend myself i'm not stooping down on anyone's level i deserve to defend myself and i have the right to defend myself in this situation and i'm tired of it i'm tired six seven months since everything happened with the original video making accusations and people ran with it and i need to set the record straight and with that i've stayed quiet um throughout the entire thing and other creators and accounts took my silence as a weakness she's gonna say this several times throughout the video and let's just cut it right now nobody took your silence as weakness we just didn't i don't understand where that thought comes from where that theory comes from people took your silence as you don't want to address the things that you've done and so you're just going to not speak i don't think anyone was like oh she's weak like we can mess with her no it's just you don't want to own up and so you're not available to your community and your subscribers and we think that's shady i should have known that people were going to do that but it all it all ties together this also has been unfolding four months it's been i i would honestly say a year all of this stuff is just collectively pieced together and if other creators are honest they will agree since i posted my first video um i've had creators contacting me asking me to do interviews as well as apologizing to me and then within hours days posting videos bashing me i did see madison harnish from cruel world happy mind on her stories say that she did in fact send emilia a message i don't remember exactly word for word what she said it was just a friendly message of like hey if you want to talk i'm open to talk to you i don't have anything against you i don't know who's been dming her privately to apologize and then turning around and bashing her or she's talking about multiple creators who have done like separate parts of this thing i don't know if anybody else wanted to interview her but i do know in one specific instance with madison it just seems kind of like a friendly gesture from what i saw additionally i did just double check on madison's youtube channel and since emily's first video about this came out she's not made any content on her so i don't know that wouldn't have been madison even though madison did reach out to ask for an interview in my opinion that's shady and that's wrong and i know for a fact it happens to just about everyone who's been involved in this situation um yeah and i know i've been getting a lot a lot of videos made about me who have been saying that i'm turning off the comments because i'm weak i'm a human being and let me tell you the stuff that people say is nasty and it has nothing to do with the situation i'm having people accuse me of things and i'm like what are you where are you getting this from and nobody's sharing any sort of proof so there's nothing to if there's nothing for me to defend because i have no idea where this stuff is coming from again your mental health matters it does you know as a human being you're not supposed to be dealing with we're not supposed to be dealing with having thousands and thousands of people watching us judging us we're not supposed to have that happen and so everyone's learning experience throughout this is completely different and unless you are a creator that is having this happen you won't understand what it's like and it's hard it's okay quick thought if we're not supposed to be having this happen if we're not supposed to be out there for thousands of people to comment and make assumptions and have opinions on us don't put yourself out there i don't understand how you reconcile that in your mind of like as a human i'm not supposed to get all this feedback but then choosing to make social media part of your career because i agree i think there's a lot of anxiety and fear and issues that come with the fact that we have access to news worldwide we have access to so much information and it's like bombarding us every single day i think there is truth to that it contributes to a lot of issues that people have but that's why it's important to make sure you have boundaries with how you interact with your social media how often you're using it what kind of things that you post you know you set those up for your mental health because i think it is very possible to have a career on social media where you share certain parts of your perspective your knowledge or your life and still be mentally healthy while getting comments and feedback and interacting with your subscribers and your supporters because i think it's really hard to gain a social media following as just a regular person you know if you're not a celebrity to start from the bottom and work your way up if you're not willing to engage in those relationships and hear the feedback even if it's not nice you know you can block certain words from your comment section if you really are trying to be protective of yourself which i think if you know certain words are going to upset you is a great idea but again you can't sit here and say like oh we're not supposed to have thousands of people giving their opinions on us while making social media a massive part of your career it's hard to know that people are allowed to just run with stuff with no backgrounds and no proof with nothing and there's nothing you can really do and the creators that are in this i do want to say that i'm not telling you to not support them i'm not telling you not to watch them i just simply have to defend myself and set the record straight because i've been shoved into a corner and now i'm being told to be quiet doesn't make any sense so yeah it is and you know my last two videos that i posted i got a lot a lot a lot of videos made about me saying i didn't show any proof so i was milking the drama what i have to say to that is this whole entire time past six months of me being silent i wanted to step back i also wanted to see how the community itself would react how creators would react how the audience would react how everything would tie together because i wanted to try to figure out where this is all coming from and what the problem is with this this whole situation and my last two videos really really showed me based on how people reacted to it that it's nobody knows where to stand with that and i'm still trying to figure it out i've got a pretty good idea but it's disappointing and what i wanted to kind of prove from my last i can't wait any longer or else i'm going to forget what i wanted to say she's saying that she you know the reason that she took a step back was because she wanted to observe in my opinion that is a false statement i don't think you said i'm gonna take a break step back and see where the cracks are in this community i think you came on camera and said i don't like doing anti-mlm content anymore my boutique is doing great i'm gonna start a business podcast because that's what i'd rather do and i never smiled once while i was on camera making anti-mlm content so you chose to do that you blatantly said that you did not like and or agree with making anti-mlm content and then you went and tried to do something else and as far as milking the drama i mean you came on and did two videos with ads about how you were you were back and you were gonna do things that people weren't gonna like and there's so much drama and people are shady behind the scenes so watch out like you did two videos like that without really saying anything and i think if you wanted to do kind of like a precursor video to say hey i'm back i have these certain things i would like to talk about and that's what's going to be coming up on my channel within the next few weeks and you kept it to like five minutes that would have been way more well received because you could have gotten all of that info out quickly and then people would have been on the lookout for the videos that actually contain that content instead of hemming and hawing for 45 minutes about how oh i'm coming i'm back that does seem like you're just making content because you know people are anxious to hear from you and see what you have to say for yourself so you know they're gonna watch it videos i didn't include any proof and the funny thing is that's what other creators were doing they were posting videos with no proof but they were getting praised for it and who i posted videos with no proof and i got destroyed for it so here we are with the proof all right so let's commentary channels don't have to provide proof they can just say here's what happened and here's what i think it's good to provide proof if you have something to back up what you're saying you know that's always a good thing to do but i don't know who she's talking about people were making videos about her and not providing any proof because most people were talking about not the group chat but how she left and she took that video down so let's jump right up if you don't know let's do it everything i'm just as lost as you but i do have a brief idea of how everything went down so the grant i am on creator um savannah marie she posted a video beginning of october of last year and it was so obvious that people were saying nasty things about now i have not seen those messages i don't know if she's seen those messages i don't know if she heard it from someone emily hasn't seen those messages keep that in mind or anything i've yet to see any of that um but there's a group chat i will show it in a few minutes that possibly could have been the group chat but i don't know for a fact again there's nothing for me to go off of it was just a bunch of allegations so from there she posted a video not naming any names nothing and people just ran with it people in the comments and everything just started accusing me based on really nothing and i panicked because i had no idea what was going on that's the situation and i want to be completely transparent about the situation with savannah because it's really disappointing so first off i want to explain why i didn't agree with savannah's content and i have okay so we have a little bit of a good start saying that she panicked and didn't know what to do that's a little bit of accountability coming in would love to see more of it but apparently we're just going to talk about why she doesn't like savannah which i don't think is relevant to what you did a lot of a lot of reasons but i'm gonna just name a couple no again you don't this isn't this is my opinion i want you guys to know where i stand with this entire thing um and these are my true reasons what i was trying to say was i was confused as to what was being said in this group chat since she never showed anything and after we had a private conversation together i was disappointed that she let the rumors and accusations keep going it was my fault for believing she would come out and say it wasn't me but it's been six months and she never did it never made it sense why she posted that video it never made sense why group chat name calling wasn't okay but her going on video and doing it was proof because that's what everyone wants so first off i think it's very clear i was really frustrated with the fact that savannah was just going and confronting people but not really confronting people because there was no proof there was nothing and i know it's really controversial um but she i think that's fair from what i recall savannah had said that somebody reached out and was like oh these people are talking smack about you and so she went to at least one of them specifically and said like hey why is this hap like why are you talking about me and they were able to quash it but it seems like she did go to certain people who she believed were involved individually and if she didn't come to you then she probably didn't think you were involved i don't know he was contacting and i'll insert proof she was contacting other creators okay so this is from savannah to somebody else i know there's a group chat a few people in the community have told me there's a cue load of you guys talking about me there when no one even approached me about the situation at hand and now people are saying you're behind it i don't want to believe them because i obviously have considered you a friend but i don't accusations with no proof except for appreciate any of this [ __ ] i don't know why no one wants to confront people personally and privately i'm almost 30 i don't have time for the high school drama like just be straight up with me dude the people i've been told are talking a bunch of [ __ ] are people who have slid into my dms being super nice and i always thought i was on a personal instagram account um it was frustrating because so she didn't confront people about two weeks before she actually posted her video so when she posted her video i believe she had no idea who was involved and she was hoping that people would try to figure it out themselves that's where i stood and that was my opinion i don't understand why that video was ever posted so another reason why i don't agree fair enough it is hard to remember exactly what she went over but it seemed like she was just talking about how disappointed she was that these certain things were happening in the anti-mlm community but again i feel like when you are talking about things going on on a personal level personal gripes that you have with bad behavior that other content creators are exhibiting it is a little bit irresponsible to not name the names because you know people are gonna assume and obviously a lot of people assume that it was emily i thought it was emily because i was like that kind of sounds like something she would do i remember watching a video of hers where it sounded like on camera she was talking smack about you so that's where my brain instantly went as well and if that's not the case it's irresponsible to not clarify who was not involved especially if they are getting a lot of hate i want to make sure that i get this right was and this was this was a long time ago but i remember seeing it and i just happened to have it in my photos and this was one of the main reasons why i was like not a huge fan of this whole thing um and that was a instagram story of a comment she received on one of her videos and it wasn't a very positive one it was one that was you know disagreeable and she posted to her instagram story and said it's pinned on my original paparazzi exposed video she's incredibly okay so i have to get super close to read this but it's essentially talking about how she shouldn't be anti-mlm because she is an affiliate for a company and she makes profits off of the purchases of others which are very very different you know you know you know the difference between being an affiliate of a company that approaches you or that you like apply for that you don't have to pay for you don't have to pay to be an affiliate of a legitimate company you just don't whereas you do have to pay to be part of an mlm you can be a shady affiliate and not disclose links or not say that you would get a profit from any purchases made through that link you could lie and say that you love a product when really it's not that great just to get the money so there can be shady things going on with affiliates but for the most part you're not like recruiting other people to be affiliates under you so you can profit off of them but as far as posting that on her story saying you know it's pinned on my original paparazzi exposed video she's incredibly dense have fun friends lmao that does seem a little bit mean-spirited i don't think that i would do something like that i don't pin negative comments and i definitely wouldn't direct people to go send hate to somebody who left a negative comment on a video of mine but you know that's just aligns with savannah's personality where she's very much outspoken and she'll call you out and if you're doing something that she disagrees with she'll make it known i don't like that she did this but it's not something that's gonna like scandalize her in my eyes if that makes sense have fun friends lmao and then she posted right after update she deleted her comment lmao thanks for playing that was kind of the first thing that really just rubbed me the wrong way of trying to encourage your supporters to go and harass someone on a comment it just it didn't sit right with me and i'm happy i saved it so i can show you guys why i felt the way i did um and the next reason and the last reason i get into because i've got more but those are more personal i wonder how long ago that was from let's hold on let's go back let's see how long ago that was so there's no time stamp on this the comment says it was posted like 20 something hours ago but savannah has super short hair in that video which would indicate that it was quite a bit of time ago the comment could have been left at any point in time whether it was originally like when she first posted or later but it's interesting that she's like kept these receipts for such a long time because i feel like if you just don't like somebody's attitude you don't have to give proof you can just say i don't like their attitude i don't want to support their content and that's your personal preference but to have something to like back it up i don't know just interesting more but those are more personal reasons um is i just simply didn't agree with her content style of calling people names and um someone well actually multiple people have said this to me over and over again i didn't want to put in the situation but i do have to defend myself so you guys know the way i was thinking and on my antenna videos i always want to make sure that i was being understanding and kind these people because they are human beings and the majority put the clown music on the monat video if people who are anti-love have been in an mlm before so i wanted to have the respect of not calling them names so when i saw i've only watched a couple of her videos calling names isn't the only way that you can disrespect somebody right like let's just make that abundantly clear the ones that i did see she was calling people names and i didn't like that um so i'll kind of play a couple here hold that i'm reading this and i'm like stupid whoever you are you're here to point out how desperate these two are anyway so it's really all but there's more there's more but i don't need to get into it and so once i saw all of this and after the accusations were made in her video about the group chat and people were running with it and trying to expose me and call me out and all of this stuff again there was no proof of anything the first thought i thought of was like okay and i'm not trying to discount anyone's feelings that they're being a group chat that's not okay for there to be a group shopper creators or teaming up against someone else that is not okay but my first thought i was like do you know one what they're saying in that group chat and two my camera battery just dies okay so as far as the name calling goes i can understand why somebody might not like that and they might not want to consume content that has that sort of attitude and that's totally fine if emily doesn't agree and gets you know a bad vibe or is just like ah that rubs me the wrong way that's not how i want to go about my content but i i don't know i just don't understand why she's sitting here explaining why she doesn't like savannah if she wasn't in the group chat like it makes no sense to me how these things are correlated i guess she's just going back and trying to explain why she made that video like what she was referring to in that video but it still doesn't explain why you felt that it was a good idea to make a video about why you don't like savannah and how you don't have to be friends right after you're being accused of being in a group chat that was talking about savannah that you supposedly were not in this is very confusing behavior to me to switch that but anyway what i was saying was it didn't rub me a good way when i saw that happening and i was confused on why publicly there was name calling done by this person as well as trying to egg their followers on to go and i don't know attack harass whatever you want to say in the comments section of the comment and again these are just a couple examples there's more but i'm trying to condense this as much as possible so let's get into the group chat um i will try to figure out how i want to do this so essentially again i want to preface this by saying this may not be the group chat but it is one and my point with this is to one show that i'm not included in the screen chat this was sent to me what does it matter if it's not the group chat it doesn't matter the screenshots that i have are true they prove that a bunch of creators were lying about not being in a group shop but anyway so i'm going to show you guys the list of people who were in this specific group chat and again it may not be the group chat but it is one but it is a group chat and i will show the messages that were included in the group chat so make without what you will i i have to show something and this is this is what i have and so i want you guys to take note i will show now the list of people who were included in this group chat looks like there's quite a few people in here before we go into what she has to show for this when it comes to certain creators the creators that i enjoy i do see some of them on this list and i went to try and look back see if i could find anything that was permanently posted as opposed to being said in stories the way i remember them speaking about these group chats or not being in a group chat was that they were not in any sort of group chat that was bullying or speaking negatively about others i could be remembering it wrong maybe they said i've never ever ever been involved in a group chat not me like never happened like fake news they could have been saying that but the way i remember hearing it was i was never in a group chat like that so i could be remembering wrong i would be very disappointed if they blatantly outright denied being in any sort of group chat at all and then we find out that they were but again we haven't seen what emily has to say about it madison from cruel world happy mind did a story talking about how this group chat that emily showed was not one that she was actively participating in she said that this was supposedly created by the mlm police in order to get like a headshot from all of these creators or a photo that they could use so that way they could kind of i don't remember the word she used exactly but so that way they could compile a list of anti-mlm content creators and have it all in one place so it was like a bunch of these people who make anti-multi-level marketing content were added hey send me your pick and like your info if you want it included in this resource madison said she never actively participated and she doesn't really know what happened in that group chat because she didn't respond it seems like maybe some people took advantage of being in that group setting and maybe said negative things but if you were just added to this group and you didn't participate i don't think it's a lie to be like i've never been in a group chat because you didn't ask to be added into it some people i recognize from this first page are isabella lantern madison megan megan sip monica what i want you to pay attention to is at the top it does say details for the group chat kimberley is in there i'm assuming these are her screenshots because you can see there's no like follow button right there i would assume i've never been on a group chat on uh instagram but i would assume that it doesn't like show your info we got deanna mims details test post it says lead chat so it was in fact a group chat we got kyla nicole and then looks like maybe some instagram accounts that are anti-mlm um and it also shows who the admin was of this page savvy writes books that's all i recognize added people and we'll see in the messages that they add people all right now let's get into it since you've seen the list you might have seen some shocking people who have claimed not to be in the chat and you're right let's go through it i'm stunned her name is deanna what her name is okay so full transparency deanna and i aren't friends but we are friendly and we've had like dm conversations every few months so i have a little bit of bias towards deanna i like her but seeing whatever emily says about her i will do my best to be fair let me pull up the post because i posted my instagram story a couple days ago um because of an instagram story that i was sent and i just i could not hold back so i posted on my instagram story i'll show it here it's brought to my attention that some anton creators want to pretend like they've never been included in a group chat with other creators i can't confirm that there are since i have rb group chat however it's one of them it's a good chat they do exist i've never been included in any group chats period receipts will be shown in my next video creators will be shown this is pathetic and needs to stop accusations were made rumors were spread i'm done with this i want to keep i wanted to create i wanted to keep creators private but some creators are straight up lying in their instagram stories you know who you are karma will come back and get those who lie i'm done with people making claims what a shame receipts will be shown and oh and then she's so hung up on like this isn't the group chat but it's a group chat so you're a liar and you're worse than me i was gonna say i don't understand the point of this video the point of this video is to discredit other anti-mlm content creators which is not a good look in my opinion someone said all of a sudden creators and accounts don't want to talk about this after milking the drama themselves for months why isn't anyone questioning them i've had my name through the mud and once i start coming out and talking about it everyone runs and hides and wants it to go away now i posted that because of an account her name is isabella isabelle or something like that now we all know i'm not the best with names but i think it's pretty rude to know before you film a video that you have receipts about somebody and you're gonna be bringing them up and to not have like the courtesy of getting their name right to me that's just disrespectful if you want respect from others you have to be respectful to them and coming out here being like oh i think her name is this isabella lander i don't know that's just rude to me maybe i'm like taking it way too seriously but i think people's names are something that you should be respectful of and she posted since a specific creator wants to speak about the hashtag anti-alone community or say we're manipulative or we've been manipulated to create content i've never been manipulated by my audience to believe me i have studies facts and statistics linked to prove myself true of my videos also nobody manipulated me to create specific content i do exactly what i want to do nobody makes me do anything truly amazed that this creator will try so hard to milk drama so gross and tacky to say the least i love this community i won't let some random weirdo bash it with no backing again karma handles the negative energy in people just waiting for karma to do its work i believe the same thing but i do want to say once i posted my instagram story it wasn't very long before this instagram story was down and so i didn't want to talk about it because i thought it was really important so in one of my pockets yeah i mean if that instagram story was about emilia some random weirdo she grew pretty quickly in the anti-mlm space so she's not some random weirdo i disagree with a lot of the things that she's done but that just seems a little bit unnecessarily shady past videos i said try being manipulated by an entire community now what i meant by that was is when anything happens in the mlm world you get a bunch of dms telling you to cover a certain topic so there is pressure maybe it's not necessarily manipulation but there is a lot a lot of pressure and that can be turned into that and i'm every creator gets it including i'm assuming her i don't necessarily think it's sustainable to want to please everybody and look into everything that people send you or make content about everything that people suggest you make content about because it's almost like you're chasing fickle fans if you do because if you have that thought of like oh well if i don't cover this they're not gonna like me and they're not gonna watch my content that's probably somebody that's not going to be a real supportive subscriber anyway i think it's important to be open to getting video suggestions from your audience because they're the ones who watch your content and you know be receptive look into it if it's interesting to you and decide from there whether or not you're gonna make a video about it but you shouldn't be like oh i need to make this like i have to because somebody sent it to me um and i thought it was funny how she said random weirdo i have had messages with these people before who funny enough really supported my content months ago and now hate me you're saying these people did you talk to isabella personally claim i'm trying to milk drama you think i want to milk this drama about this about allegations that were made against me that make no sense and that i'm genuinely having a hard time defending myself because i can't even keep up with the lies i'm not milking it but again these are the same creators i want you to keep this in mind who have made videos about me and not letting me defend myself but that doesn't matter that doesn't matter so yeah anyway that instagram story was down pretty fast but i want you guys to note that she is included in this list of people in the group chat the next one i that doesn't say anything about her denying being in a group chat i emily emily emily to do uh i meant to talk about deanna memes so she this was sent to me she in someone's comment section of a video said i wasn't in that group chat message love i just wanted to clear that up i stay far away from that you were you're in the list that's not the same group chat though that's that's not the group chat this is all about like conflating things yes you were you're on the list no she said i wasn't in that group chat meaning the infamous group chat nobody even knew about this one until you brought it up so how would she know before you've made this video that you're gonna bring up a different group chat that she needs to deny being a part of you're in there um and then there's a comment under actually i said i can't imagine you would be i think you're the nicest person another thing with the list is not everybody was engaging necessarily but for people to say that they were never in a group chat this is a great chat that exists and this is just one like there are show what's in it because what if that was created and like none of them responded none of them engaged in it none of them had any sort of conversations within that group chat do you think that they would rack their brains and remember oh yeah i was added to that one random chat that i never responded to probably not funny yeah so i wanted i wanted to show that because i don't think it's right that i'm i'm sitting here trying to defend myself and people are running with content that they can't back up i'm tired of this i'm tired i'm tired of this okay so yes it goes on so there's an account i don't know the exact name it's like cruel happy world her name's madison again rude she posted to her instagram story again right after i posted mine everyone has a right to defend themselves but to generalize an entire community of people without evidence or reason to back it up is not doing that in my opinion i've never been involved in a previous group chat like really didn't know that was a thing but recently antimon creators have gotten together to discuss progress in the movement and in ways which we can post the most beneficial content i think that's amazing i agree i think that's a great thing to move forward from however you were involved in a group chat you were in this group chat i just i don't like how people are pretending like they didn't know this existed when again this is once show her involvement show what she said that's how this would have been better organized show what each of those people said in the group chat did they say anything according to madison no she's like oh it's just about getting headshots like that's not being involved in any sort of negative group chat at this point we're gonna go ahead and take a little bit of a break my husband and i both took the day off so we could have some time together while the kids are at daycare and we are going to go get lunch and prescott at prescott brewing company literally the best brewery in the whole entire world and when we're done with that then i will be back to finish the rest of this video may or may not be in different clothes we'll see all right i am back face washed in my pjs had a great few hours up in prescott let's rock the second half of emily's video out we're literally right at the half point let's just finish getting through it and just also say all of those instagram stories were posted after i posted mine so it was like once i came out all these creators who were milking my drama and i will say this cruel happy world mind madison um girl contacted me february 5th i believe i'll pop up the screenshot asking if she could alright so i took a good hard look at that and it's basically what i remembered from earlier where she's just being friendly saying if you want to talk privately or in public i'd love to help your channel any way i can that's the condensed message so i just think it's interesting how they wanted to milk this drama for more but once i come out and say something again people were assuming my silence with weakness but it wasn't i was just trying to see how everything would unfold people would react i didn't know what to do i didn't know what to do okay so another thing i want to say who created this group chat well when you have a group chat i created one just for um research purposes i wanted to see what it looked like on the creator's end this group chat was created by the mlm police um and i'll show you where it says admin that was who created it who could add people or whatever i'll also insert a message that i have from this group chat where the mlm police says she can't add any more people to okay so it says well let me add anyone else you can take me out please add sarah oliveira's in my spot she's a sweetie and then somebody else said you can take me out if you need to make room for more people to me honestly says that like this wasn't a group chat people were dying to get into to talk smack about other people i don't know that just kind of supports the narrative i've heard that you know this was just as kind of resource gathering but again we don't have the full context so i don't know but there's nothing sinister in there just to show that they do add people now this is also interesting we'll do another instagram story because people really went off when i posted mine um the mlm police posted this super tip can we stop reacting to people that are talking negatively about the anti-loan community it takes away from advocating there's always going to be someone talking like that's his own situation however i i want to also say that i'm not speaking negatively about it i'm just sure i'm saying there's stuff that needs to be fixed and i'm hoping this this proves it but yes this group chat was created by the mlm police now there's more on that but it's kind of relevant for this video yeah i just thought it was interesting okay and if i'm remembering correctly savannah marie did post a story kind of putting on blast the fact that the mlm police which is an account on instagram was responsible for the people who were talking negatively about her and that's kind of where she got her info from and they were the people involved in it so it doesn't seem like it was emily or kimberlea starting issues with the group chat but again my main concern with emily as a content creator is not whether or not she was in a group chat it's one of those things where it's like okay if you weren't in it just say that you weren't in it and that's fine you know people will believe you or they won't the real problem is with how she spoke to subscribers and how she left and you know we've been over all this i don't need to beat a dead horse something that she said earlier was about how like i'm not talking negatively about the anti-mlm community i'm talking about how things need to be fixed and that's totally fine you know i think anytime you have a community of people kind of gathered and oriented around a singular mission things are going to happen things are going to go wrong maybe you're going to fall into a pattern especially on youtube where you get rewarded for outrageous things you're going to put out as much content as you can or maybe get a little bit catty and petty and that's that's something that i perceive as normal i've seen that happen in multiple other communities that doesn't make it right and that doesn't mean that you have to be silent about it you can speak up and you can say i've seen this trend that i think is wrong and i think there's a problem here and we need to kind of you know shift focus reorient take a step back and pay attention to what the goal of anti-mlm is which is educating people on why multi-level marketing companies are predatory and damaging to more often than not women and let's focus on that let's work on that you know all of this extra stuff is just unnecessary it seems like a lot of the creators now are willing to be open participants in group chats that talk about how they can move the community forward which is something that i like to hear and something that i would like to see because if we are being honest for a lot of creators in that community the content has gotten a little bit stale maybe it's really repetitive maybe it's just reacting to ridiculous things over and over again and for a certain amount of time that can be entertaining and you can be like wow oh my gosh i can't believe huns are saying this our huns are doing this wow that's crazy but it is also important to educate people if that's actually the mission that you are involved in and how i post that to my story and all of these creators all of a sudden want it to go away but it's still happening for me i'm still having people make videos about me claiming things that just aren't true nor can i defend myself from these allegations so let's get into savannah's post the account that created the video first talking about this group chat that existed there was no proof and people agreed with it and assumed it was me she posted don't be so 2020 i thought we all agreed to leave 2020 in the past and not stir up that no one cares about anymore i'm not stirring anything up when this is still something i'm dealing with to this day maybe not you specifically are dealing with it but i still am i'm disappointed that we did have a really good conversation behind the scenes of voice messages back and forth that were that were long um and we ended up good terms we both followed each other for a period of time i'm wondering if that post was in reference to other creators because i i personally wouldn't want to deny emily the chance to speak on what she's been through and things from her perspective i obviously think that she's doing a little bit of avoidance when it comes to accountability and really trying to understand why people are upset but overall she has a right to speak on what she went through i think she might more so be referring to other people in the community or even commentary channels who are speaking on the situation still as opposed to emily but that's just how i would have read it and i was hoping that she would see that people are still running with this stuff enough to be like it's not her we already spoke about it and i put too much trust into someone defending me and i shouldn't have i should have came out myself but i was scared i had people making videos about me those weren't true i couldn't defend myself so yeah i also noticed and was sent that she posted on her instagram story again a bunch of posts saying i'm bothered but they include her children so i'm not going to post them but she said instagram is a cesspool right now my mental health isn't doing great to begin with probably time for another mental health break enjoy your fake drama in a relevant drama i've got a family to take care of yes people are spreading lies again and it's pathetic so the drama is fake fake and irrelevant but it was it was relevant enough for someone to make a video talking about it with no proof no evidence no nothing and so now that i'm coming out with something again people assumed my silence was weakness and it's just not being on social media realistically your mental health is gonna be pretty low and having people make a bunch of videos about you and having the one person who you contacted and assumed you fixed everything with not come out and be like it's not her it's not her we've already spoke about it and i told her straight up and i said i don't agree with her content i just thought it was funny fake drama what do you mean i don't think it's necessarily true that your mental health is going to be low if you're on social media and if truly emily if that is how you feel that in order to be on social media and have a career on this platform or on any other social platform that your mental health has to suffer i would encourage you to reevaluate that because one i don't think it's true but two if if you have found that it is true for you and you being on social media like this has taken a toll aside from you know this this drama because drama is gonna happen um but outside of that you feel like being on social media in this way is detrimental to your mental health i would reconsider this career path then your mental health is everything that should be like you as a person that should be your number one priority anything that gets in the way of your well-being and your health should not have a place in your life it was relevant enough for you to post a video about it and to ruin someone's reputation online and not come out and say that it actually wasn't this person no we let people make videos and run with it that really hurt that really hurt okay so let's get into what was actually i can see where emily feels hurt that savannah didn't come out and say anything which again i think savannah should have however again for emily your reputation wasn't ruined because people thought you were in a group chat people were a little bit upset but they would have moved on it's about your actions that's why people are still upset actually included in this group chat and everything i'll play a little video i'm not gonna go um like comment or message my message however i will say like the overall gist of what i got from this chat was that people go and list certain creative someone said i've never heard of emily fine do we like slash love her and then someone else said i only have a small issue because she took some of my posts parentheses i could tell they were mine because it was before i knew how to blur out faces so i used a sticker lol and no credit but beyond that she seems fine and people and other creators would go and say so the bottom half of this is personally find some of the comments like quote you people in mlms are so dumb on the condescending side and then somebody else said well to be fair i'm pretty hard on the huns too so it's not something i can personally criticize without being a hypocrite tough love i've had combos with huns going through their awakening and it's a different combo than i have with karen carrying cancer with her oils and not listening to reason someone said sometimes i think we do need to keep ourselves in check and not turn into janice from mean girls who is just a different flavor of mean i can't say i've been the kindest and in fact there are a couple of comics i wouldn't do now remember the whole point of anti-mlm is to educate and to deter people from joining but there is a healthy and unhealthy way to go about it and making cringe reaction content face is not censored isn't the way to get people on your side at that point it's simply making fun of individuals and that isn't helping anyone jane isn't just creating opinions i don't know i've never been in an mlm i discovered this community started with one of my book fans who was a doterra hun and tried to recruit me with curing promises she was pissed as hell at me for telling her what i truly felt about that she died from breast cancer eight months after trying to recruit me she had been treating her breast cancer with my doterra oh gosh and hemp works that really affected me deeply that i couldn't do anything that she wouldn't listen to me and wouldn't go to the hospital it was so upsetting that i felt like i needed to see a therapist after she died that is true oh my that is so tragic but that's a reason that anti-mlm content is important it's for stuff like that to help people to keep them from getting scammed to keep them from losing money to keep them from facing literal physical consequences of believing in mlm products over modern medicine and i'm not saying that you know the pharmaceutical company is perfect because i think there are a lot of things that can be treated naturally but stuff like this when it's that serious to trust essential oils over a doctor is so sad somebody else responded and said jesus that's sad i'm sorry opinion it seems like omg i'm so sorry to hear that i'm so sorry to hear about that omg wow okay i'm not going to read this long message currently on there obviously it's an emily leah's video and it's in this video so you can read it if you want but it's somebody talking about their own physical health which i just don't feel comfortable reading like how do we feel about so-and-so and it gave freedom to say whatever they want so that's just another person introducing themselves stuff like that as far as emily talking about like oh that's a leading question the question was do we like slash love her i do think that that question could be leading because it's kind of like are we going to accept her are we gonna bring her in is she one of our own but the screenshots that she's showing are mostly like innocent to me just talking about how their approach needs to be better you know i just i read them out loud to you so you know what they're talking about i only have bits and pieces someone said thank you i do worry that my tone comes off as rude sometimes okay this one's kind of rude some [ __ ] again tried adding me to her body shop group would you go away i am so vocal on my facebook about my hate for mlms but yet they still add me that's definitely kind of rude but i could also see how that person would be annoyed that they keep getting added into this group that they don't want to be in and i don't know how they typically speak so maybe that's just a casual thing to them it's like oh this girl but they say the b word instead i don't know things you guys can someone was asking if they were going to block and and this person said yeah i'm going to now the girl is helpless and knows no better so i don't want to but i'm sick of being requested now into the groups and then somebody else said maybe say hi i'm not interested in being added to any more groups at the moment since my feed is already overloaded may you please stop adding me if i keep getting added i would have to block you very diplomatic and kind but still probably will block as they just mass invite read the messages and i mean like helpful advice on how to handle this like an adult whatever their messages it's hard because it's not face-to-face you can't really assume what this person was feeling or what they were really meant by these messages and i want to make that very clear you can't based on a message you can't catch the tone of what is going on but there are the messages i want to note that i never saw oh she said like i never saw or heard anybody talking about savannah so i don't know where that is yeah probably not in that group chat so going back to all of the instagram stories that i just showed of people being like stop building the drama stop bringing it back up i'm not bringing it back up it's still very relevant to this day i'm still getting videos made about me and actually one of them i've got a couple i want to react to just to show what is actually going on in the mindset of these things so there's actually one that i was sent that has a product placement in the middle of the video and this creator has posted multiple videos about this and both of them in the past couple days include product placement in my opinion that's milking the drama you know that video is going to get views because it's bashing someone and you have product placement in there and another thing i don't personally watch camellia i think is how you say her name okay so i checked out her channel and her three most recent videos are about emily leah and then she has one a while back that i i didn't watch it obviously but it was around the time that both emily and kimberly announced their departures and it's about the drama in the anti-mlm community so if we assume that emily is mentioned in there that's four there are about four or five other ones that are about kimberlea so we've got about nine videos out of 62 about the situation as a whole so i can see how that might feel excessive when you kind of look at that ratio almost one-sixth of the videos on your channel are about something that i'm going through from emily's perspective i could see how that would feel like a lot is there is an antenna alone creator her name is i can never get her name right cc something like that went on live and i was sent this and this is really alarming and if you yeah you can just listen listen just yeah what did you say does she know who you are yes or no i don't know i'm one of the anti-immigrant creators who has more subscribers than her now so she probably doesn't know it's nice to meet a creator i only know exists because she made videos about me shade i don't like that i vividly remember that part from the first time i watched this video and i don't know that that is disappointing to me it's weird for me to call her cece because her name is chelsea and that's on her instagram so i feel comfortable saying it but she used to have her name like chelsea not cece on youtube a few years ago and i remember a few years ago when she did mainly beauty and then like a little bit of commentary videos i watched a lot of her videos when she had like 12 000 subscribers and then she kind of like took a break she got a new job so weird that i know this about a content creator but i did watch a lot of her videos when uh when she was making them back in the day so she got a new job stopped making content and then came back a while ago and put out put a few feelers out there of like different kinds of content different videos and then kind of eventually found some momentum in anti-mlm and chelsea has always had that personality of i don't know how to say it i think she can rub people the wrong way sometimes because she's very straightforward and doesn't really care how you feel about what she says because she's gonna say whatever she wants to say and be herself and i think that that is an admirable trait to be yourself but at the same time that looks a little bit conceited of being like well i'm one of the anti mlm creators who has more subscribers than her so probably not my favorite thing to see so to me when i heard that i was like all right so we're admitting right here that essentially it's just based on subscriber count disappointing really it's disappointing and i've i have the proof to show you it's it's disappointing and to be clear the only reason why i know who she is is because she has been one of the very vocal ones not included in the drama or the allegations or anything but someone who felt the need to come out and team up against me i've never watched her videos but i was sent this club and i was like all right all right if i remember correctly and she can shake and talk about this one she wants her profile picture seemed very familiar on instagram and i'm pretty sure she did dm me yeah situation no it's not its own situation if she did show the dms that's like show the hard-hitting dm's if cece dm'd you trying to be friendly and then came and talked smack that's something that would back up your point that people are against you that people are like plotting against you and i will put full transparency out there i don't think it'll come up i i don't think she ever read my message i don't think i'm on any of these people's radar but if y'all remember on the live i was like i don't agree with how she's acting but i feel bad this was back in october i feel bad about like what's going on and how um she must be getting a lot of hate because again what she did wasn't right but i do think she's going through a tough time and i wanted to message her and you guys were like yeah i think it would be nice for her to get a supportive message and so i wonder if i can find it this was on october 22nd i said hey emily i just wanted to message you some encouragement i've been keeping up with all this drama in the anti-mlm community and i know you've taken a lot of heat full transparency i have a small commentary channel and i've provided criticism on the last video you put out that aside i cannot imagine how tough this must be i'm sure the negative feedback feels so overwhelming but this will pass if you need some time away from youtube take all the time you need but don't let the fear of hate keep you from creating content which seems to be something you really love everything will be okay keep your head up people can still support you and want you to be okay while still having a problem with the way that you've conducted yourself so i don't think it's fair to make a blanket statement of like yeah people have come in and they all want to be my friend they want to interview me like everybody wants me to absolve them and then they turn around and make content about me because that's just kind of the weird aspect of social media where you can be friendly with people but if they're a public figure in this way you still have a right to comment on how they've acted publicly and you have a right to disagree with it talking about having more subscribers does not does not rub me the right way but most of these people have who have made these videos that were not included not involved they wanted to insert themselves and and to me it was a very big red flag when i saw a creator saying that they weren't involved in a group chat and i will say this over and over people assumed my silence was weakness and it's disappointing that right when i come out everyone's like runs and hides and says oh no let's let it go let's let it go why why my fake drama my fake drama that has affected me so badly in these six months that it made me question everything fake drama i wish i could take a mental health break because it's awful it's awful i have messages you have been you have been taking a mental health break what like the last six months that you've not been creating on this channel i don't know i guess i'm just kind of confused because i think that people are talking about like let's not milk this as in don't make content responding to her not you don't come out and i want to know who's like running and hiding if she's just referring to those stories of people being like let's ignore this and not talk about it or if there's people coming to her and being like no no don't talk about me that would just be something i would want to know from someone between someone who watches my videos and if you remember the isabella girl who is involved in the group chat who's been active on her instagram stories all of that there are messages that are talking about me i'll just i've got so much stuff you guys so yeah let me figure out where this where this goes basically this was her message to someone it says kim has mentioned her several times and promoted the video emily made last night other people previously close to her knew they talked a lot honestly i don't see any bullying going to her has there been some in the past yes but currently it's people calling her out calling her out on what your actions emily that on the way that you behaved in the face of apparently false allegations the way that you spoke to your subscribers that you came out and said you didn't agree with anti-mlm content not i need to take a break because there are some things going on that i'm not sure how i feel about and i need to figure out not i love this content but i'd like to pivot somewhere else not thank you so much for your support i'm gonna take a bit of a break and then i'll be back like it was i don't agree with this i don't like it i don't enjoy making anti-mlm content and i've only done so because i felt pressured and i want to do business instead because that's where my passion is this whole group chat thing is becoming more and more apparent that it is just irrelevant it's erroneous it doesn't make sense to me that we are spending so much time on this when there are no hardcore screenshots that make us go whoa these are just screenshots oh there is a group chat okay and um i just know calling out people on their messiness isn't bullying and after so long people do get sick and tired of being spoken to the way emily is speaking to others it's just wrong for her to treat others and speak on something incorrectly and expect us to be okay with it am i missing something when was that message from and for someone to comment on people saying mean things to me i do have a voice message that was sent to someone about me and this is just a sneak peek of what i've had to deal with the past six months i don't want pity i don't pity but i need to prove my side and this is one of the best the best ways to do it so i want you to take note has there been bullying in the past yes is there some to this day hear it from me yes and you want to know why because of people trying to egg on the drama now people are saying don't get involved with it because i came out and i do again want to say that she was involved in this group chat did she contribute i don't know i don't remember i don't know but she was and my messiness what do you mean my messiness having people make false allegations about me and then not come out and stop things when they were getting bad or shell any proof and have videos being made all the time about me it's not like she came on here and said like emily leah kicked my cat and it was it was a lie it was somebody did something bad to me and they're in the anti-mlm community and i don't like it there's a difference essiness i personally think i handled myself pretty well with everything i've had to deal with i think i've handled it pretty well but let's go through and i'm gonna play a voice message of someone who is very very passionate about me so this happened i need to go check i cannot what is the context of this voice message is it to you is it to somebody else was it included in a video we have no info on what this is or where it came from exactly pretty sure it was in september um if you look at her youtube channel you can see her very first anti-mlm video that was not her first video she deleted her first video that was full of false and information she was lying over talking about how she went to beauty school she had no [ __ ] idea how beauty school even worked in that in videos so i don't know what she's talking about um second of all that video was one hundred and thousand percent complete false information and i was a part of that mlm but getting out at the time and i had commented on it about it and all of a sudden she deleted the whole [ __ ] video i wish i would have [ __ ] screen recorded it now she's a fake ex [ __ ] who has her own motive and workshop but you can steal ideas that's all she got oh her channel she's about to lose her youtube career dear i can guarantee it she's like and when i said i thought it was important to say that i don't even know the person who sent this or why they hate me so much it's scary yeah that's a really aggressive message to get but i also kind of feel like those are the messages that you look at and you say okay a person who is speaking like this is probably not giving me any constructive criticism and they just want to vent their feelings out so say what you gotta say like that won't impact me okay so there's a lot i have to say about that that message was sent before savannah even posted her video so how she knew all this was gonna happen i don't know um i also want to set this straight who sent it video also i did in fact go to beauty school i'm in the process of moving but once i figured out that's really a concern that a lot of people have on if i even went to school i don't get it um on that but people say i have a motive what would my motive be i wanted to post content that i liked to do and i realized it was getting to a point where i noticed a lot of community it was just based on like bashing other creators like and i don't say that to be shady everybody making videos on youtube wants to make money i showed you the beginning the name calling the editing people on to go and you know respond to comments and videos i didn't like that i didn't agree with that and so that's where i stood and it's frustrating to also hear people say things about oh she wants to push her own small business or whatever isn't that the point that i was trying to make was that i'm encouraging people to go start their small business you can't win no matter what if you have a business if you don't have a business i'm just saying for me personally i like to take my advice i like to hear my stuff from people who are doing it themselves and a lot a lot of the entitled creators are not business owners this is actual business people who've done it being someone who's done what she's done obviously doesn't do things the right way so if you need to learn how to do things the right way don't learn from her because she's not she doesn't know she's just like winging it and clearly not doing a great job winging it are we anti-mlm or anti-small business i can't keep up obviously like i said in my last video i don't think you need to be a small business owner to critique people in multi-level marketing companies because they're not small business owners they are independent contractors you can give an amazing perspective if you own your own business but i also think you can give an amazing perspective if you don't everybody brings something different to the table which is great about having a lot of options to choose from when you're looking for a specific kind of content so i think it's unimportant whether or not you own a small business uh whether or not you can create anti-multi-level marketing content however that felt very catty to me talking poorly about emily's small business from what i've seen she takes it very seriously and she's very passionate about it she might not have had everything figured out she most people don't have everything figured out within the first few years of a business it takes a long time to gain competency which i which i think is why her podcast might not have done as well because she is very new to this business owning thing yes she may have had different ideas and different iterations of this boutique but she's still only 20. i don't think you can hate on somebody for trying to start a legitimate business and i do think that this is something that emily is proud of and it makes her feel good so i don't like to see people talking down on things that don't harm anybody else and make them happy i also never claimed to be an expert i also never claimed to be an expert i just wanted to help others was what that screen said them say bad things about people who do have their own businesses and who are doing it and who are not in an mlm and doing their own business um but yeah there are a lot of problems with that and that's how that's how i felt when i heard that nobody deserves to have someone not angry about you that doesn't even know you but that's just a sneak peek of what i've had to deal with the past couple of months and i don't want pity but i want to show this so a lot of questions i got and this was in isabella's video on how i spoke to people i don't know what that means how i spoke to people i was never mean to you i think it means your subscribers to any like creators and dms or anything i don't know where that that claim came from i ignored a lot of messages because i didn't want to get involved i saw that there were groups of people being made early on and i just wanted to do my own content not have to compare myself i wanted to create more than i was consuming with this whole situation and so that's what i did and ultimately funny enough a lot of these creators who are now talking badly about me and everything once asked me for advice on certain things and were messaging me that they watch my videos and they love me and all this stuff so it's like i can't even keep up with it all i don't think that's funny enough their opinion changed based on your actions but something that's been bothering me about this entire thing is like she's like who did i hurt who did i talk badly to your subscribers that should be the focus of this video i had hoped that when she came back she would do what she could to make things right with the people who supported her but instead it's like going on this war path of trying to expose creators and turn creators against each other and how did creators treat each other and that's part of it like that's something worth talking about but the main point of her videos from where i'm sitting should be making it right with her subscribers i saw this community turning to drama about a year ago for smaller reasons but they were all pieces and a puzzle that have led us to where we are now so going back to where this kind of all started with the video that savannah marie hosted about a group chat i was again i was very hurt about the whole thing people understandable i was able to comment after a couple of hours but that was enough time for people to really run with it and make guesses on who she was talking about i don't know why this wasn't handled privately i don't know why there was no proof of these messages or anything to back it up i don't know and i don't know how for me personally i don't know how a community that's so you know excited about facts and proof and seeing all this stuff was so quick to jump on something with no proof no evidence nothing and just run with it to hurt someone that is a good point the way i took savannah's video which again it's hard to go back and bring facts to it because it's been deleted the way i kind of took it was just her kind of like having an event session and being like oh yeah there's this one creator trying to turn people against each other i reached out to my friend who they said was talking smack we hashed it out but like i'm just kind of frustrated that's how i took it however not everybody on the internet is just gonna hear something like that and just be like oh okay and move on there are people who are going to be way more invested than she could have anticipated giving her like full benefit of the doubt assuming that she didn't want something like this to happen there are going to be people who are way more invested who want to know who it was who are going to go to whoever they thought it was and leave a comment and they're going to like dig their toes in and not let go so that is a good point on emily you know there are viewers who saw that video who assumingly are in the anti-mlm community who didn't see receipts who didn't see screenshots didn't get names for a fact who then went and said negative things to others who they assumed it was about point emily yeah and i made the mistake of assuming that after we had the messages and followed each other and i thought we were on good terms that she would come out and be like it's not her like it's not her and i made that mistake of assuming that someone would come out and do that i did and six months later i'm still i'm still receiving nasty nasty comments messages everything and nobody deserves to deal with that i lost this footage basically what i said was what that basically what i said what that i have been told i wasn't canceled so i looked up the definition of cancellation on social media to cancel someone usually a celebrity or other well-known figure means to stop giving support to that person the act of canceling could entail boycotting in actors movies or no longer reading or promoting a writer's works i think that's a bit reductive because you can change your opinion on somebody and no longer want to support them without them being cancelled miriam webster is missing a big part where there's typically some sort of scandal involved that causes a large group of people to stop supporting emily thinks that she was canceled for being part of a group chat maybe we could say she was canceled because of the way that she left and so people didn't like her and kind of banded together on that if that was the approach she was taking i would give it to her but her approach is people thought i was in this group chat so they cancelled me nae nae emily is someone who oh it's brick gas lady i knew she was in it but i forgot at like what point and so i'm just like i said i have watched it the first time so i'm just kind of along for the ride and there will be more videos obviously that she comes out with my piece of advice for anyone who feels frustrated by her where did she get this screen recording from because britt's videos don't sound like that by her or just annoyed do not go to her channel and give her views you wanted them here you go this person was not involved in any of this yet feels the need to tell me that i keep dragging it on when she's making a video about it okay i mean i don't think brett said anything wrong like there's no point in watching emily's first two videos because it is a whole lot of nothing this third one kind of is something but at the same time the general consensus seems to be that she's not addressed things to the satisfaction of the viewers so saying like oh she's click-baiting you don't need to watch these videos is their opinion and i think it's fair when you're a commentary channel to give your opinion also i would tend to agree that in her first two videos she really didn't say much counseling is not a thing that happens in the background it's a public thing she's making drama and complaining that there's drama being being made like what are you expecting when you make videos creating a narrative that is completely false that you've been cancelled but anyway the point i was trying to make is how did i cancel myself i didn't that's sad to me that that is really sad to me that that's what she feels because again it shows that she cannot take accountability and she's to have a hard time moving on from all of this leaving it in the past and moving on to better things or evidence which was i do see they don't need proof or evidence because people were upset with you because of how you left not about the group chat rational people not gonna discount the hate that she got the bullying or the disgusting messages telling her to harm herself excluding those people because like i said when people come at you sideways it's healthy to say you don't know me you're acting very aggressive right now i don't need to engage in a conversation with you and i don't necessarily need to consider your opinion when i move forward that was my problem for not coming forth with proof but i was hoping that i wouldn't have to because i just i didn't want to so now i'm going back to my last video this is why there are lies or rumors or false allegations being made um and it's it's again sad to see a group that was so excited about facts and statistics and evidence run so quickly with a story that had nothing to it very little to it i want to say there's nothing bad necessarily about saying you want to fix something unless you are part of the problem that needs to be fixed and from what i've showed with the instagram stories and you know who was involved in everything there's a large large problem in this community with people running with stories that are just not true they have nothing to them and they just run and make their own guesses on everything which is part of the problem so when i say the community needs fixing it's not necessarily a negative way of oh we need to you know completely we need to readjust how we go about problems like this in the future because this was disgusting nobody deserves to have this happen to them and you can't grow without fixing things you can't if you don't fix things right away it's just going to get worse and i will admit i probably should have made this video sooner but i wanted to take the time to step back and watch things as a viewer and see how everything was played i don't think you needed to make this video sooner because this doesn't even address the actual problem also i'm kind of done hearing like oh i just wanted to sit back and see what was gonna happen because i don't think that was what you wanted to do i think you left for what you thought were going to be greener pastures and kind of hope that this would all blow over and you would blow up in your business casual podcast and then when that didn't happen you realized you needed to come back with something and you didn't do the internal work to understand your fault in all of it and so you figured you could get views and you could come back and start this with a bang and try to expose people which again i get wanting to expose people if they were coming in being all buddy buddy with you and then turning i i wouldn't like that either if it would happen to me see if creators would come out and be like um actually i was involved in this group chat or i was you know this or this is nothing i saw nothing and the viewers were just as confused as i was again this is a piece of the puzzle i'm not trying to say that this is the group chat but it is one of them they do exist and unfortunately it is what it is and on social media it's hard to tell who is who and what is going on but this is my proof this is my evidence this is my story and i hope that you know from here on out we're better with dealing with things privately or at least having something to back it up because i'm equally just as confused as a lot of the viewers you guys are and i'm disappointed on how this was all handled and played out i'm i'm tired there's there's so much more to this story too but this video is already gonna be long enough i'm not gonna say hope you guys enjoyed it because it's not a video i ever thought i'd have to record but i hope you guys have the respect to at least listen to my side and see what i have to say and see what i have for my reasonings behind why i feel the way i feel about the community and creators and all of that i i'm not gonna say i'm gonna be back soon in the video i don't know it could be a couple days it could be a couple weeks um i just i wanna see i wanna see how this is handled i'm gonna be completely real and that's what i've always tried to do but now it needs to be even more even more real that's my thought process so thank you guys for listening to my side and um i'll be back well that was a journey thank you so much for sticking through it with me staying by my side throughout this trip i spoke a lot throughout her video so i don't think i necessarily have anything more to add than what i've already said other than i will reiterate this video confirms what i felt from a long time ago and from her first video back that she's not necessarily done the reflective work to understand actually what people are upset about what most rational people who don't hate her are upset about i think she should be focusing on her subscribers who just feel let down and feel hurt and want her to make it right and then maybe they'll reevaluate and see if they want to support her again because she's making it all about this group chat and playing the blame game essentially passing the blame on to other people so she doesn't have to take any of the heat and coming out as the victim but saying oh i don't want any pity but these horrible things happen to me and look who was involved in a group chat not the group chat but a group chat again i didn't think there were some instances in which she was wronged what matters is the kind of content you want to make the kind of person you want to be and how you want to make it right with your subscribers because you still have over 20 000 of them 20 000 people who saw you and liked you enough to hit the subscribe button and that's what you should care about let me know what you thought of her video her receipts my thoughts you know let me know if you agree or disagree with me down below in the comments and while you were doing that if you would consider liking this video or subscribing to my channel that would be incredible if you have subscribed already thank you so much i am so appreciative of you and i love being able to just sit here hang out with you and talk about whatever thank you so much for watching please be kind to people and i will see you in the next one bye

Channel: B Haney

Views: 17,938

Keywords: emily leah, group chat, receipts, reciepts, kimbyrleigha, savannah marie, reaction, drama, anti mlm, multilevel marketing

Id: Ii8ar_wfLR0

Length: 90min 29sec (5429 seconds)

Published: Wed Mar 17 2021