David Rubenstein, Duke University Commencement 2017 Speaker

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Please lower your expectations, I am not that good of a speaker. I assume all of you are feeling a little bit cheated because you felt that you should have as your graduation speaker, Oprah or Nobel Prize winner or coach K. To be honest I felt a little cheated myself with the selection this year. I am finishing up my term as chairman of the board and after four years, I wanted to sit back and listen to somebody who would be far more interesting and far more enjoyable, and far more inspiring that I am going to be. So I feel a little cheated as well but let me explain to you how the decision was made. I have made a few speeches in the outdoors over the years and it seems that every time it happens, the son shines So Dick Broadhead said why don't we take a chance because we don't want the rain so to some extent the weather is with the good luck that I have somebody up their like me and when I give outdoor speeches. So I take a little credit for the weather. (Laughter) (Applause) The second factor really is that there was a letter that came from James B Duke, our founder, to Dick Brodhead not too long ago and saying to Dick Brodhead the chairman of your board to be honest has done nothing over the last four years of any consequence. Make him do something before he retires as chairman of the board. Make him give the commencement speech and that is how I was selected, I think (Laughter) Some of you may wonder what exactly does a Board Chair do? And how does one get to be a Board Chair? And I have wondered those questions myself many times. What does a Board Chair actually do? Well, let me tell you what the Board Chair actually does. Anything good that happens at the University, he takes credit for it (Laughter) Anything that doesn't work well, he looks for somebody else to blame. Now I got that technique from Washington, DC where I lived. People always do that there. (Laughter) (Applause) And think about what has happened over the four years as my chairmanship has gone forward. The University has really increased its status around the world. It was a very good university when you all entered here, a far better university then when I was a student some 40-plus years ago today and over the last four years, the university is gone from a great national university to a great international university and his widely respected around the world. And you are all the beneficiaries of this because you now have a Duke degree or you will shortly have a Duke degree and think about this, the rest of your life, wherever you go, people will say to you what is your name? Where are you from? What do you do? And where you go to school? Where did you go to school? Where did you get your degree? And you will always be able to say you went to Duke and take great pride in that. As you go through life, you can change your name, you can change your looks, you can change your profession, you can change many things, but one thing you will not be able to change is where you went to school. You will always be a Duke graduate, and you should take great pride in that because there are 170,000 alums around the world who are eager to help you because there is a great spirit among Duke alums to help other Duke students make their way in the world. So always take great pride in the fact that you are a Duke graduate, and you should always feel that you earned this degree, you worked hard to get it and now you are part of N elite group of people who benefit from having a Duke education. The truth is I really had nothing to do with your enhanced status. The enhanced status of the Duke degree over the last four years is due to many people. It is due to the faculty, the administrators, it is due to you, due to the alumni, due to the alumni, do to the parents, due to the donors and it is due to many different people. And I honestly had little, if anything, to do with it. But over the past four years and really over the past 13 years, the great leader of this university, Dick Brodhead has been the guiding course who made the Duke University degree or so much more than it was before (Applause) And in his honor, yesterday the Board of Trustees decided to honor him and keep his name alive here at Duke after he retires as president of the university by renaming West Union the Richard H. Brodhead Center for campus life ( Applause) Over the years I have met many university presidents and I have worked with many of them, but I've never met a university president who is as hard-working, asked smart, as articulate as Dick Brodhead and all of you are the beneficiaries of this extra nearly talented person and the University will certainly miss him and it is my honor to say on behalf of the Board of Trustees, it is a great pleasure to have worked with you, Dick, and I hope with you, whatever you decide to do later, keep Duke in your mind, and always return, and you will always have a willing and receptive audience back at Duke. We love what you have done at Duke and thank you very much, Dick. (Applause) Now Dick will be succeeded by a very talented individual as well, Vince Price who is the Provost of Penn. He has very large shoes to fill pair at my shoes are much smaller to Phil and I will be succeeded by somebody far more talented, trend by. Jack is the vice-chair of the board and the former CEO of HCA, the largest hospital in the unite states, and he led the new search for the new president and jack, I am sure you will do a terrific job leading the university. Congratulations on the position you will assume. (Applause) Now I asked earlier what a Board Chair does and I told you it is designed to get credit for everything that goes well but how you become a Board Chair? Well, when I was sitting where you are some 40-plus years ago I think it will be fair to say that my class was say the least likely person to become Board Chair at Duke ever was me. And I think Jack would say in his class probably the same thing. Nobody would have selected us and impact fact had there been a bet, a million to one odds would have been against me to become a Board Chair. It was a fluke. And all of you who are not stars at Duke or even modestly successful at Duke, you too can wind up as Board Chair someday (Laughter) So how did I do it? It was a series of good luck. I had the good luck to hear about Duke University the day before applications were due. Somebody gave me an application form that he had. I did not know Duke and I could not afford a typewriter in those days. Typewriters were things that existed before computers. You were able to put your fingers to them and you put words on it and it was a unique device at the time, but honestly I could not afford one. So I wrote out my application in longhand, and it was very illegible and I think the Duke admission officer feeling sorry for me excepted me. I had the good luck to get accepted at Duke and the good luck to get a new job at Duke working in the library, and to get financial aid, which enabled me to come here. I had to good luck to go to law school and practiced law and be told by people when I was practicing law you are not a very good lawyer. Get out of the practice of law (Laughter) I had the good luck to work for somebody who is running for president of United States, and he dropped out after 30 days so I did not have to worry about that campaign. (Laughter) I had to good luck to get involved with another person running for president and he did win. And I got inflation to 19 percent and nobody has done that since. (Laughter) But I had the good luck to lose the election with him and so I had to go out and find a job again and I had the good luck to practice law once again with people who also told me you are not a very good lawyer; get out of the practice of law and I did. I had the good luck to start a financial investment firm and that financial investment firm, I had the good luck to pick people who knew something about investing and the result is the firm did pretty well and; therefore, I had the good luck later to realize that making a lot of money while it seemed pleasurable and interesting at the time really wasn't as good at thing as I once thought. It is no doubt a great benefit to making money, but I thought I had the good luck to realize that giving it away in a sensible and intelligent way was a much more meaningful way to lead my life and so I had the good fortune to learn that before I was too old to do something about it. And I realized how important was because I had the good luck to have a mother who told me this. When I was building my firm she would never call me to say congratulations on buying a new company or congratulations on selling a company profit, congratulations on taking your own company public. She probably read about it, but she never actually said that was a great thing. When I started giving away money and doing things to get back to society, she started calling me all the time and said you are actually doing something with your life. So I had the good luck to have a mother who knew the value and that was the greatest good luck of my life. (Applause) Now one of the other great looks of my life was that when I was at Duke there was a math requirement and I didn't want to take a math course, but fortunately in those days there was a course in logic and that somehow fulfill the math requirement and so I took the course in logic. I don't know if any of you have had the same dilemma taking math courses. And in that logic course, I learned a lot about codes and how to decipher codes and use logic. And I want to tell you today what I have learned as a result of my course in logic and I am going to give to you today the code, what I call the da Vinci code of being a Duke graduate. This is only for Duke graduates, so please, all of you who are not Duke graduates, do not listen to this part. This is only reserved for Duke graduates, or if you do listen, make sure you don't tell anybody. Let me tell you what it means. Now we have used in basketball and football and other athletic events a phrase called, "Go Duke." Some of you heard of it. Now sometimes it is said in conjunction with a reference to another school 8 miles to the south and given the dignity of this event and the fact that the Dean of that school is, I will not mention what that phrase is but can any of you remember what it is, "Go to --" right. Let me skip that part and focus on what go Duke really means. The G actually stands for gratitude and today it is very easy for all of you to say thank you to your parents, to your guardian's, to your grandparents, to your siblings for helping you get through this time at Duke, but doingbut doing that today or tomorrow really doesn't punch the gratitude ticket. If you are going to get anywhere in life, you learn you have to work with other people and express your appreciation. Nobody can do anything worthwhile by him or herself. Albert Einstein by himself realized that you need other people to help you and so as you go through life, remember to try to express appreciation to other people for helping you and do it with humility. Humility will get youll get you far more along the way of life than arrogance people. Don't tell people how great you are. Nobody really wants to hear that. Tell people how great they are and they will appreciate that. Remember what Ronald Reagan once said, "There is no limit to what a human can accomplish if he or she is willing to share the credit with others." So remember when you are doing things in life, express gratitude to others and don't tell other people how great you are. Now the O in "Go Duke" stands for originality. People who really accomplish something great in life do something original. They don't just follow what other people would do. As do graduates now or about to be do graduates, you have the capacity, the mental ability and other great qualities to be able to be original. Try to think outside of the box. Don't just do what somebody else tells you to do. The people that you admire, to graduate degrees, the honorary degree recipients behind me are all people who did something original. Try to think of something that somebody else has done. As do graduates you can live a relatively nice life and go through life relatively easily and people will always be impressed with the fact you have a Duke degree. But if you want to make a mark in the world, tried to do something truly original. Now D, now D, everybody thinks it stands for Duke, but really not. A stands for difference. Try to make a difference in the world. All of us are on the face of the earth or in the grand scheme of things a nano second. Humans have been on the face of the earth for a few million years. We will be on the earth for 70, 80, 90, may be 100 years or something like that, but it is a nano second in the grand scheme of life and you have a chance to go through life very comfortably taking the path of least resistance and really not doing anything that makes a mark in the world. But if you want to make a mark on the world, do something that really is different and tried to make a difference, tried to get back to society. As Duke degree recipients you have a responsibility in my view to make a difference in the world. So cherish this responsibility, accept this responsibility, be proud of this responsibility. You stand in the docket of history and you can make history, but you have to be willing to make a difference and try, whatever you do, to make a difference in your society, in your community, in your country; tried to make the world a slightly better place than you and it. And then I think you will make not only everybody at Duke proud, but yourself proud for having made a difference. Now U, what does U stand for. Is stands for unrelenting. It means taking no for an answer is not the acceptable way of proceeding. Don't accept no. When people will tell you you want to do something and it is different and it is creative and original, they will inevitably tell you no. Because if it was so easy to do it, to be done, people would have done it before. So you will find many times in life that people will tell, you know, you can't do that, but you have to be unrelenting. If you have a great idea, pursue it. Bill Gates didn't take no for an answer when people told him personal computers didn't really have a future. Jeff pesos didn't take no for an answer when you told him you could not sell anything over the Internet. Steve Jobs did not take no for an answer when people told him smartphones would never work. Wendy Kopp did not take no for an answer when they told her teacher of America it did not have no future. Barack Obama did not take no for an answer when people told him an African-American cannot be president of United States. You should know that to make a difference, be unrelenting, persist, persist, persist and if you do so, will make yourself a much happier individual and make yourself happier in the world. Knowledge, K stands for knowledge. And although Kchevski, Micah Kchevski is a great person and his last name stands up for the letter K. Some of you will get a degree and some of you will learn 2 degrees and some of you will earn 3 degrees. But having a degree is the beginning of knowledge. If you think by having a degree you have knowledge, you are in a very bad shape. Your brain is a muscle and it has to be continuously exercised. And if you stop exercising it at the time you graduate, you accomplish virtually nothing in life. It is hard to believe, but it is virtually true. 30 percent of college graduates never read another book and their entire life. That is because these people think when they have a college degree, that is all they have to do. They don't have to do anything else to exercise their brain. The great pleasure of life is exercising its brain. So today you can celebrate perhaps your degree. Maybe don't have to read a book today, but try to keep reading. Try to keep learning, exercising your brain. One of the great pleasures of my life is reading. I now try to read 100 books a year and I think by doing that I have made myself a much better person then when I graduated from Duke. And so all of you remember knowledge is essential. Continuous knowledge and make sure you exercise your brain continuously. E, E is enjoyment. I've talked about all the hard things you have to do to get forward in life. But life is not designed, so that it is just drudgery and hard work and pushing and pushing to get somewhere. You have to enjoy life. Surely God did not put us here to suffer. He put us here to enjoy life and there is nothing better than enjoying life. As Thomas Jefferson called it, "The Pursuit of Happyness." I f you can pursue happiness without hurting yourself or hurting others, nothing can be more pleasurable. You should enjoy life, but how do you enjoy life? All of you are not going to do what you enjoy right away. It took me many years to figure out what I enjoyed and like. I was 37 before I started my company so I spent many years doing things I didn't really enjoyed wasn't good at. Experiment, try many things, but you have to enjoy what you are doing. Nobody ever ever won a Nobel Prize hating with they are doing. If you are going to accomplish something in life, a work of no, have to enjoy it. Experiment and find many things that you ultimately will think will make you enjoy life. And if you enjoy what you are doing, you can accomplish great things. Now I was given a degree at Duke many years ago and in those days the degree, we were handed out them at the stadium. It was hot as hell, no air-conditioning, and I really could not remember who the speaker was and I could not remember when he was speaking who he was. I cannot remember a single thing he said. Fifty years later I don't remember what he said and I did not remember what he said 50 minutes after he said it (Laughter) I tried to use a little pneumonic device, so you will remember what I said at least a four maybe 50 minutes and "Go Duke"," really stands for gratitude, originality, difference, unrelenting, knowledge, and enjoyment. Try to remember that. Of those qualities are the da Vinci code of being a Duke graduate. Now there is one other part of this I would like to have you remember. The first three letters, of "Go Duke" are G-O-D. And it is my theory that God looks favorably upon Duke graduates. (Applause) Now I can't prove that; I can't prove that, nor can the divinity school, but why would you want to take a chance that I am wrong? (Laughter) So in my view, all do graduate are God's new chosen people, and you should feel that you are especially selected and you have a great deal of responsibility because God is looking down favorably upon you pair just think of the weather he gave for your graduation today. Now, of course, you can't just rely on God. As President Kennedy said in his famous inaugural address, at the end of it,, "With a good conscience our only sure award and the history the final judge of our deeds, let us go forth to lead the land we love, asking his blessing and help, but knowing here on earth God's work must truly be our own." So go forward, and as you go forward you cannot depend only on God, but you can do the things I have said and if you express gratitude, if you are original, if you try to make a difference in the world, if you are unrelenting and you pursue knowledge and you enjoy what you are doing, you can make a life that will make your parents proud and make your children crown and make Duke proud and make you proud. And I encourage all of you to think about this, not just today, but tomorrow and well into the future. Now a final word, today is Mother's Day. How many people here are mothers? Raise your hand or stand up if you are a mother. Please raise your hand or stand up if you are a mother. ( Applause) You have done a great service to humanity by bringing people onto the face of the earth and raising them well, and particularly if they are due graduates, very important contribution to society. I had intended to have myed to have my mother come here to hear my speech today because as I was finishing the term as chairman of the board, I told my mother to come and this would be the last time I would be on this platform and she said okay. Who is the commencement speaker? (Laughter) And I explained it and she said oh, I was hoping for Oprah (Laughter) Sadly a few weeks ago she passed away and she was not here to see me give this speech, but I have given it in her memory, and in her honor because I recognize that she taught me the value of giving back to society and she was never so pleased as when I gave back to society. And I really want to rededicate my own life to giving back to society and give back to our country. And one of the ways I plan to do so is to get back to something I think is very important to our country and that think that is Duke. I think Duke is an important national treasure and those of u s who can support Duke, give your time, energy, ideas is something I think really helps our country and humanity because if Duke does well, the United States does well, and indeed the whole world does well. And so that is what I intend to do to honor my mother. And I hope all of you who have mothers and are blessed to be able to have them with you today cherish them. And those of you whose mothers are not here today, I hope you call them. It is a rare privilege to be able to call your mother and a privilege I no longer have. But I hope all of you who also no longer have that privilege will do things to honor your mother and to live a life that makes your mother proud of what you are doing. Bank you. Godspeed. (Applause) thank you -- Godspeed. (Applause) Thank you very much. Thank you. Thank you. (Applause) Thank you. Thank you very much.
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