Dad Loses His Cool With Supernanny | Supernanny

the kids misbehave hunters told me what he asked everything isn't what it seems so I do believe mom and dad are in for a wake-up call I need to show Mom and Dad what effect they're arguing is having on their family let's take a look at some video footage and talk about what we're gonna see here okay aggressive who do you think's more aggressive again your dad sometimes he's just unhappy because I'm on don't have you listen again how do you feel when you have to listen to knock makes me feel like ear about the divorced and have you ever heard your parents mentioned that word before divorce and after they both said it or has one parent said it was usually there was this silence and you could see that they were both thinking wow you know this is our son saying this I knew that I had now touched some very raw nerves and I knew it was time for us all to sit down and get talking and that wasted no time a whole volcano erupted there and then in front of me you're coming here in front of me of my wife and start bringing up divorce as if we're about to get a divorce you turn into something that it's not only what into what this whole situation Gregg became very defensive he felt that you know he was coming off looking bad then you can sinuate that we're on the brink of a divorce because my child told you that we're on the brink of a divorce I just said my mom has talked about Nivola you said that yes I've said it in front of him I have said it why don't we just get a divorce if we're this unhappy I have said that okay Connors expressing his feelings to somebody he feels like he can open up to and you should respect that I do respect that I don't respect Joe taking him out there by herself and start putting words in his getting him safe what's in his mouth about divorce and a tape and like this is what's going on with your family I mean it wasn't good at all to listen to this man feel this way but I realized that the truth has hit him hard do you know what Gregg he refused to accept and listen and respect what your wife has to say because you don't like what you're hearing that's not so really I'm asking you since all since everything's coming out it's a big surprise now why haven't you ever said anything you know how we all feel you know I love you you know your children love me you know we all love you but the fact is we have problems in this family that means be resolved and I'm a last resort no it's not last resort yes it is so this is the last resort it's been how long we add I've always known 810 years between the two of them we have problems and for you to sit there and say we don't you're in denial I mean we are dysfunctional and nobody's blaming it just on you it's all of us it's me and you as a pair fighting the way we do constantly around our boys there's a better way for us to handle our situations than what we're doing now so you got anything to say no not a word darn it shot down Greg don't shut down no does shells ballgame y'all finish it now I told you Tom don't throw me under the bus and that's exactly what you did I don't I don't see what don't worry you don't feel like if I'll be any of y'all say Greg quit great will you just give me the respect to talk for two minutes please I'm not talking to you you give me the respect I am talking to you and I hope you're happy I showed mum and dad a video of Hunter being aware of the word divorced being used and dad lost his cool will you just give me the respect to talk for two minutes please I'm not talking to you give me the respect I am talking to you and I hope you're happy she wants to talk I don't want to talk listen I feel like a lot of these situations you are the one taking them out of context Hunter felt can't fool enough to go to Joe and hear out his problems that's his look what you're doing watching both parents talk to one another is no healthy situation they talk over each other not listening to the other person and it's a shambles timeout timeout timeout okay just gets me on my bag hold on a minute so I brought in a timer to let this family know that every time it turns that they have two minutes to talk and the other person has to be disciplined enough to listen to what they have to say the pair of you you start to talk then you talk over you start to talk and you talk over nobody's listening you talk when this water runs out their new star okay listen to what the other person saying hear it and then respond Joe was a safe place for her to go to and I think you feel like I knew all about that it was a bigger surprise to me as it was to you so a lot of things you're taking out of context and then you're getting offended at me and upset with me because you think I'm throwing you under the bus you're very well aware the problems around here just as I am just as the two boys are so nothing should be a surprise the only point I'm trying to make is I'm not shocked by what you're saying I just I don't like the way that we went about it I'm not saying to hunters creating things I do he's obviously heard the word because he said that his momma said it and you know if that word is being thrown around then you know let's do something about it we say a lot of words and anger that we shouldn't say been not meaning it so that that's a fault and that's something we need help with and I recognize that that's an area that we need tremendous help in I think the timer worked well as they started to recognize it was important to listen to one another it actually brought their tempers down so I think it's a good little measure for those first five or ten minutes when they're like two Bulls in a china shop I want to nail do what I have to do to make things right and better for my children because if we don't change hunters never gonna change the fact is now we're looking at boys that are in a place that everything they take now we're gonna take into that adulthood what kind of got me the most is it's not about me you know it's about my wife and it's about my two sons it's about the Benton family I'm ready to move forward I'm ready to change things I've been ready well let's let's do it you mean you're not gonna kick me out your house I guess I'll let you stay a little bit less I get messages saying call your daycare your kid is getting kicked out of daycare it devastated I wouldn't have to find the B school they can handle them but I called everywhere oh yeah Andrew at dinnertime always an experience

Channel: Supernanny

Views: 2,124,245

Rating: 4.8667984 out of 5

Keywords: parenting, jo frost, children, supernanny us, supernanny, kids, parents, family, temper tantrums, behaviour, north america, no-nonsense, jo, frost, divorce, fighting parents, Dad Looses His Cool With Jo Frost, dad, mom, mother, ma, pa, father, angry parents, Grown ups shouting, aggressive dad, mom and dad fighting, deep south, southern america, angry mom, Parents cant communicate, difficult children, siblings, fighting siblings, Brothers, boys, naughty, swearing

Id: Zf0SGtt8IDE

Length: 8min 45sec (525 seconds)

Published: Mon Jul 18 2016