Chatting with Lady C - Harry looking morose/Diana's death no mystery & (dis)approval? of Meg

hello ladies and gentlemen and welcome back to a new episode of chatting with lady c hello mom how are you i'm very well honey how are you i'm very well thank you you're okay yes very well like the shirt i prefer this one i hope this isn't one that you had earmarked for discard i did actually but i did i hesitated when i put it in it's just that i have so many shirts and um and putting it on today i've i realized i actually like it it's beautiful wonderful cotton i have to say you children really do have fabulous tastes and you do that beautiful stuff in german street yes german street is the greatest isn't it the best okay so are you gonna hit me with something fascinating today yes so for our first question today harry looks ill in his videos do you think he is can he be suffering from stockholm syndrome do you think he looks ill the last video i saw on him so there's every day there's new ones so i would have seen it before the weekend because the weekends my days off don't really do anything he looked all right he doesn't look happy but he looked alright well i think this is what she or he means like because i noticed it doesn't have a name okay so many people have commented that harry looks ill or unhappy or he he doesn't look like the ebullient hill fellow well-met i'm up for a good time old harry oh and some people have said and he really does i think there are times when he looks as if he is suffering from stockholm syndrome you know like he's been hijacked and uh now his personality has been erased and he has a new personality the personality of his captors i think what we are seeing is an interesting phenomenon because if people read my book carefully i mean i have been very careful to bend over backwards to be really nice and positive about both harry and megan and uh but if they read what i've said and they compare when robert lacy's book hits bookshelves which it will do very shortly because robert's book basically backs up practically everything i said although we do have different interpretations of certain things but that's in the detail the overall is pretty much the same and we both uh have gone out of our way to be as impartial and as balanced as possible robert's book and my book basically dovetail on practically every important point and i've noticed that his technique was my technique bend over backwards to be as nice as you possibly can towards them and try to understand their motives and be as sympathetic and as understanding as possible uh he slightly on on occasion excuses them a little bit more than i do but people have accused me of excusing them which i don't think i was doing so maybe he'd say that i'm unjustly accusing him but what comes across in my book if you read it very carefully is that harry has always had problems harry was spoiled by his mother he was not consistently disciplined he was never made to understand that actions have consequences he was always a troubled and troublesome child and he has grown into a troubled and troublesome man and the hail fellow well-met persona that everybody loved was a genuine part of him just as how the party party girl that megan had was an aspect of her personality with her it was more a tactical move it was harry it was more a ploy to try to fill the void and somehow be happy even when he wasn't happy what we are actually seeing is that megan has allowed harry partly by playing upon the more destructive sides of his personality and in because she's very self-indulgent and he's very self-indulgent uh and when he had or had to function within the royal world it kept his self-indulgence in check well now the breaks are off and what we're rarely seeing is harry enjoying being misery guts harry she has allowed harry to become in touch with the dark disturbed side of his personality and we are seeing the mask of jolity shorn away and what we are seeing is really of the fact that harry has never really been that happy a person spoiled but a moana and not happy and he's he's enjoying you know if if basically uh the scorpion is enjoying being a scorpion uh the antelope enjoys being an antelope the shark enjoys devouring fish i mean it's in its nature and there is something extremely desirable to somebody who is allowed to express and indulge and wallow in the in aspects of their personality that have been kept in check by good behavior in quotes how healthy that is is open to dispute uh because i do not think that we are witnessing uh two healthy people functioning positively i think what we are witnessing is two very unhealthy people delusional deluded somewhat paranoid totally self-indulgent very selfish very self-centered or dressing up the dark aspects of their personality in rhetoric that they think is acceptable to everybody else as they embark upon power please to be constantly not only in the forefront of the world's attention because they're both attention junkies uh and you know president obama's uh who was harry's girlfriend before megan used to complain that harry was basically paranoid because harry was always complaining about the press and the paparazzi and everybody after him when nobody was after him at all megan has done the same thing megan was always complaining to the canadian and then the california authorities about or that she was being hounded but there was nobody holding either of them so they are they're tripping on on what is essentially their core personalities and so is he a victim of stockholm syndrome or is he actually benefiting from the ministrations of his mirror and his mirror image is megan he's unintegrated animal and is she his unintegrated animus uh it's a very interesting psychological question and i don't think it behooves want to go into it any more deeply than to say i think what we are witnessing is harry enjoying being himself in the negative part of himself that basically never had any appeal nobody ever wanted to see it everybody showed him tuck it away harry and uh it people pick up that it's not very healthy next question honey so for our next question today do you think diana would have allowed harry to marry megan if she had been alive more than one person has asked that in various guises i think had diana lived harry would not have found megan in the slightest bit appealing or desirable because harry is stuck in his development where his mother is concerned i think as harry got older harry would have come into conflict with diana more and more uh he would therefore have been free of much of which binds him at the moment because he is his relationship with dan was artificially interfered with my death so i do not think he would have had any interest in meghan markle i think had he supposing that all of what i just said didn't happen and he still met meghan markle because she has made a study of diana she has been a graduate student of the university of the diana princess of wales cult she has according to people from she was very young studied or been captivated by being insurance back used her as dan as a role model read all my books all andrew morton's books presumably all the other books that were written about diana he she evidently wrote read and she's made a real study of diana and presuming that dana was still alive oh and harry had not married uh because possibly harry would have even been worse than he turned out to be in because dana might have spoiled him more although i suspect actually that harry would have rebelled against diana it's a natural process as well you know the child needs to be free of its parents and so a lot of the homes that megan has over harry would not have had the appeal they presently do i think putting all of that aside had he met her and had she worked her wells the way she did using the same scent you know uh all the buzzwords that she knew would work sort of let's just press those buttons and go with the flow which she's done al had all of that happened and harry become attached to megan diana unlike charles and the queen was not afraid of drawing a line in the sand one thing dan and i had in common was that we would both let rip and i think that's partly why we got along initially so well because each of us was comfortable with the other because we do let rip or did letter it for me she's not alive now so she can't let rip i think she'd have made her position a very clear to harry i think she would have said absolutely not a chance i think diana was sufficiently astute and diana was sufficiently manipulative devious and sufficiently of an operator for recognition to kikina uh because the two ways that you recognize the meghan markles of this world or indeed the dianas is when the recognition bell rings i recognized in diana certain things that were similar to mummy because when diana started to behave and certainly said oh my god that's mummy all over again well diana would have thought that's me all over again and she'd have said not having it and she would i think she'd have said absolutely not a chance you're just not good i'm not putting up with it there's no way i want that hustler in my family uh which charles and the queen did not do uh you know they were gentler and uh more more uh and also they fell for megan's charm and megan's act and megan's drama and they megan was able to pull the wool over their eyes initially i don't think she'd have pulled the wool over down his eyes for more than 20 minutes because it would have been the courtesy of one shark recognizing another and also diana had many saving virtues that megan doesn't have so i don't think that so so just to be clear megan and anna shared all the vices but megan and dana did not share the virtues and i think diana would have been very on to that and she would have just erupted because she was like vesuvius she was always erupting next question so for our next question today do you think that diana was murdered if so how and if not how do you explain the way she died mm-hmm well oh i do not think that dan was murdered oh i think if you stop to think about it very logically and reasonably and sensibly which i had to do because i wrote a posthumous biography of her and then i have updated it over the years uh in terms of the inquest etc etc and i've interviewed practically everybody of notes or who had something to do with with the subject uh diana cannot have you do you all just just no no no okay nothing wrong i was just had a a little creek yes i think had they wanted to murder down and i make this point in night the raildown and my posthumous biography of her and anybody who's interested in this subject in depth i would recommend you get and read the real diana of the english version preferably because the american version didn't have the sources while the english version does it's available i think on amazon but basically it's the same book uh it's just that the american version doesn't mean the source is what english does uh or get it off kindle which would be the absolutely updated version of it uh had they wanted to kill diana they would have sent in frogmen the week before when she was in the mediterranean because you might not remember it because you were very young but i was on a cruise the week before diana was on her cruise her law schools and she shadowed every single place that we went to she went to the exact same places because there are only so many smart and chic and fashionable places to go to and we went to them all and she then ended up going to the mall and in fact we even left from the same airport everybody leaves from albia i mean it's sort of you know just the dancing and you you know you go to call it evolve here etc etc etc blah blah blah and they would have sent in frogmen while she was swimming because ghana was an avid swimmer and she was always diving and going underwater they'd have just sent in a frogman pull her down for two minutes release her she's if not dead well on the way to being dead that's the efficient way to kill somebody as a member of the secret services pointed out to me which was very simple terrible accident poor down has died you know had a cramp didn't make it nobody can prove anything couldn't be cleaner and neater and no big fuss the idea that diana was murdered is preposterous for several reasons the first one is had she been wearing a seat belt she would have been alive she would have been virtually uninjured i mean she might have had bruised dreams but that would have been it her fatal injury was torn pulmonary vein as a result of not wearing a seatbelt and impact injury which tore her heart out of the chest bounced back in and tore the pulmonary artery that's what killed diana the idea that this british secret services would have been sending people to assassinate diana oh when the only people who knew the route the car was going to take was the four people in the car there are many different routes between the ritz and dodie's flat where they were headed so it doesn't make sense i mean were they going to put hitmen on every single route you know it's not logical uh the evidence is very clear as to what happened and i don't want to go into it now i mean it would take a whole video to go into it in any detail and the video might even be a three-quarter of an hour and i don't think we want to do that if people are interested they can read it in the real dial and and uh effectively in fact i'm the only person who's ever addressed all of the only writer i should see who's ever addressed all of the issues and the evidence and interpreted it are joining up all the dots which i did with the assistance of mercedes and various other people because she was in the mercedes i think her death was very regrettable i think the tragedy is had she had on a seatbelt she would have lived but and i say this because i actually liked diana had she survived she'd have been a vegetable and i don't think that would have been a life for her to be worth living so this was a terrible thing but i think it was preferable to the alternative of being a vegetable but it just goes to show how life is you know and i mean there are all sorts of theories that all of which it has to be said are explained by the evidence the evidence the physical evidence of what happened why it happened how it happened and why it cannot have been a hit it's all there it's all there there has been exhaustive inquiries and all the evidence is there i just don't get why people think that she was murdered you know maybe because it's people find it comforting to explain away such a tragedy because you know there is a beautiful princess of wales with everything to live for and dies because of the stupid thing of not having on a seatbelt you know people want explanations as to why our lives are more manageable and we are more in control of them than we actually are because the reality is a lot of what happens in life is serendipity or luck or chance or good or bad fortune or good or bad luck and dan unfortunately was really unlucky and but no she was definitely not murdered definitely not and on that note honey i think we should say thank you so much and goodbye keep the questions coming in please thank you everybody and we hope you enjoyed this episode and if you did please hit the like button subscribe and share with your friends thank you and goodbye

Channel: Lady Colin Campbell

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Length: 25min 29sec (1529 seconds)

Published: Sat Oct 17 2020