Bipolar disorder versus borderline
personality disorder what's the difference or how do you tell the
difference? That's what I'm gonna talk about today. This is actually based on a
viewer question. If you're new to my channel, I'm Dr. Tracey Marks a psychiatrist
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question is from paper parade and she says can you explain the difference
between a borderline with depression and bipolar? I'm gonna focus on the
difference between bipolar disorder and borderline personality disorder because
depression is actually a part of bipolar disorder. There's a big difference
between the personality disorders and the psychiatric illnesses like
depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, bipolar disorder. Personality or your personality
is your hardwiring and the illnesses are your state at the time. Another analogy
would be comparing your personality to the climate of a region and a disorder
like depression would be the weather that you're having at the moment. I grew
up in Florida which is a warm climate and we basically had two seasons: hot and
not hot. But then we'd have hurricanes that could rip through and completely
disrupt the environment. But once hurricane season passed, we'd still be
left with a warm climate. The climate affects how the weather manifests at the
time likewise your personality makeup affects how your illness manifests. So
going back to the geographical example, Russia has a very cold climate and this
affects the type of storms that you see there. So you get blizzards in cold
climates and sandstorms and desert climates and tropical storms in
tropical climates. So if a person with say narcissistic personality disorder
gets depressed, it's going to look different from the person with dependent
personality disorder who becomes depressed. The narcissistic person
because of their self-centeredness may look more angry and self-loathing
whereas the dependent person because of their neediness can
become more pitiful and helpless when they get too depressed. Now these are
just broad stroke examples. So back to borderline personality disorder, this is
actually a really big topic but I'm only going to briefly define the disorder for
you and I'm going to use our Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental
Disorders the fifth edition and I'm going to read the definition. So
borderline personality is defined by the following: a pattern of unstable
relationships self-image and emotional expression marked by impulsivity,
beginning in early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts as indicated by
five or more of the following. It's important that you realize that it's
five or more of these characteristics so what you don't want to do is take out
one and say oh I have that does that mean I have borderline personality
disorder? No unless you have several of these things. Number one is frantic
efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. An example of this is the
person who may seem to read into things too easily. Things that you say are
interpreted to mean that you're done with them or that you're abandoning them
in some way. Number two: a pattern of unstable in intense interpersonal
relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of
idealization and devaluation. In this kind of relationship, the person with
borderline personality disorder may at one point think that you're the best
thing ever and you can do nothing wrong and in the next moment or the next day
you're the worst thing ever, the exact opposite. Number three is an identity
disturbance You have a markedly persistent or unstable self-image or
sense of self. This kind of identity disturbance occurs at a deep level and
not to be confused with whether you're not sure if you're meant to be a teacher
or an astronaut. This is a confusion about core identity issues like your
gender or your sexuality or even your spirituality.
Now I tiptoe around this because I don't want you to walk away thinking that
anyone who wants to change their gender has borderline personality disorder in
fact as I mentioned before an important thing to remember with this is that the
diagnosis is based on a grouping of symptoms of the things that I've listed.
So you need five of them and it's not that anyone who's angry say has
borderline personality disorder. Anyone who's ever cut themselves must be
borderline. It's about having multiple things that fall into this category and
having it present a problem for you in many ways not just in one relationship.
Number four is impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self
damaging. Some examples of this could be reckless spending or reckless sexuality
drug abuse or binge eating. Number five would be recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures or threats or even self-mutilating behavior. And this would
be things like cutting yourself or taking over doses of pills even though
you don't really want to die you're just responding to internal distress and
that's why you're doing these things. Number six would be an unstable, reactive
mood and this would be things like episodic low mood, irritability or
anxiety that usually lasts a few hours or a few days. And this is one of the key
differences between borderline personality and bipolar disorder and
I'll expand on that after I get through the criteria. Number seven is chronic
feelings of emptiness. And this is one of the reasons people with borderline
personality disorder cut themselves it's a coping mechanism
to help them feel real. Some people will cut themselves though to relieve tension.
Number eight is inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger.
And this can look like temper tantrums, constant anger or physical fights. Number
nine and the last one is transient stress-related, paranoid ideation or
severe dissociative symptoms. Clinicians sometimes call these micro psychotic
episodes. They're not full-blown psychosis but they're close and if you
don't know what psychosis is I'll have a link for you in
the corner that on a video where I have talked about or defined psychosis but
let me explain what dissociation is. Dissociation happens when a person
disconnects with their present situation and this disconnection can be from the
current environment or from their thoughts or even from themselves and an
example of this is a person who's been subjected to repeated physical or sexual
abuse and one of the ways they cope to deal with the act at the time is just to
mentally pull away as if it's not really happening to them. And that's one of the
ways that they can deal with getting through it. Well with borderline
personality disorder, dissociation happens a lot in different circumstances.
So that's the criteria for borderline personality disorder. It's a lot of stuff
and so it's not a matter of taking one of these things out and saying I must be
borderline because I cut myself, you need to have at least five of these nine
things that I just listed going on at the same time or in general that's the
kinds of things that you do or feel. So back to borderline personality disorder
and bipolar disorder they look very similar because you can have the mood
swings and impulsivity, but in the case with borderline personality disorder
you're more likely to have mood swings that can shift from hour to hour over
the course of the day. With bipolar disorder the group of
symptoms, not just low or high moods but the group of symptoms that make up an
episode need to last at least two weeks if you're in the depressed state and one
week if you're in the manic state. So you aren't shifting in and out of states
hour to hour. Also the sense of fear of abandonment and unstable identity are
things that have more to do with your hardwiring and it's also influenced by
your environment as well. It kind of goes to the nature versus nurture Theory how
much of who you are is based on genes versus how you were raised in your
formative years. And these issues are not part of bipolar disorder. Think of mania
as like a hurricane that swoops in and swoops out and leaves the hot climate
behind. And some other examples of the practical
differences is that bipolar disorder does not make you do manipulative things.
Manipulative behavior has to do with your personality. Also people with who
are manic or depressed at the time don't engage in self-harm only because of
their mood state. So if you get depressed, the coping skills that you employ at the
time have to do with your personality and it's not the depression itself. So
the depression may push you into doing something that is self harming but it's
your personality type or your personality coping skills that reacts to
the depression with self-harm. The treatment for borderline personality
disorder and bipolar disorder are very different but they can overlap. The
primary treatment for borderline personality disorder is a psychotherapy
called dialectical behavioral therapy or DBT. It's an offshoot of cognitive
behavior therapy that was developed specifically for borderline personality
disorder and when it's implemented by someone trained in DBT it's very
effective and it's usually a combination of group and individual sessions. The
primary treatment for bipolar disorder is medication management. Sometimes the
with the depressive episodes if they're mild to moderate they can respond well
enough to cognitive behavioral therapy. But manic episodes usually require
medication. People with borderline personality disorder can still have a
mood disorder, so you can have both problems. So if a person with borderline
personality disorder also becomes depressed, then they may require
medication to get through the depression. Also sometimes the swinging moods that
you can have with borderline personality disorder can respond well to mood
stabilizers even though it's not considered bipolar disorder. So mood
stabilizers are mood stabilizers and they can help people with borderline
personality disorder who have a lot of mood shifts or intense anger
but the reason you'd be using the the mood stabilizer is to treat the mood
instability that goes along with the personality disorder and it doesn't mean
automatically that you must have bipolar disorder. So this can get confusing,
there's a lot of nuances to this. That's why the best treatment is really should
be determined by a clinician who's evaluated you. But the gist of it is that
there is an overlap between borderline personality disorder and bipolar
disorder. Sometimes people with borderline personality disorder would
need the same kind of medication that a person with bipolar disorder would need
however bipolar disorder tends to be more episodic like bad weather
whereas borderline personality disorder has a fairly consistent set of behaviors
that go up and down in intensity and that tend to hang around for a long time.
That's it for this topic if you're new to my channel it may seem a little
disjointed with needing to go to other videos to get more information and that
is kind of by design because I don't want to make these videos so epic in
length that with all these definitions and going through all these criteria and
then it makes it hard, I mean it's hard enough to go through the criteria just
for one disorder. You see you had to read through that long list, but I think the
best way to get a good grasp on any of these topics is to chunk it out in
little pieces at a time. So that's why I've developed playlists to help you for
the various illnesses to kind of help you get through them in a little bit by
little bit and as I continue to make more videos I'll continue to develop the
playlist in a way that you can start with one and just go through and have a
more complete understanding of the various psychiatric issues. Thanks so
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