Analyzing the Magnetic Attractiveness of Tom Holland

before I get this video started I just want to say that I was torn up this week about the spider-man debacle between Sony and Marvel I grew up obsessed with the Marvel comics especially spider-man so much so that I would keep this spider-man vs. venom hologram card within like 15 different boxes stashed away in my closet only to open it up when a friend came over if I was in the mood to marvel at the amazingness and finally hearing that they came to an agreement to keep Spidey in the MCU just makes me feel a so good so let's get into the video Tom Holland to me is a Bourne movie star if you watch him during interviews the way he acts is just so damn star --is-- to give you a better idea of what I mean I want to use Jake Gyllenhaal as a perfect comparison Jake is a goof though I think he's one of the best actors ever lived his off-screen persona is nothing like that of a movie stars in fact yes kind of like me he's weird he's nerdy he's random as hell he's goofy he has cartoon-like facial expressions and he's just like nothing I would expect him to be like based on the usually dark and dramatic roles II please you're in my Cabbage Patch we don't talk enough about Cabbage Patch dolls or Garbage Pail Kids anymore and I'm glad that you brought that up benedict Cabbage Patch is actually his great-grandfather started Cabbage Patch dolls and they were a big thing in the 90s that's how Benedict got his start in the business was his uncle who obviously became really wealthy from all of the Cabbage Patch Kids profits flew him to London and put him in an apartment and he started to auditioned and then he made his career so the truth of the matter is without Cabbage Patch Kids Benedict Cabbage Patch Cabbage Patch wouldn't have a career and you wouldn't have dr. Strom J so think about it that was a really funny story man what what was I talking or was I thinking I don't know what was going on what was next day now Tom Holland yeah he could be goofy and definitely playful but it's all just so graceful when he's joking around with his pals den de a-- and Jacob it looks like friends just being themselves but there's a certain cleanness to it Jacob and I were recently in LA and he came to my hotel and had a few few drinks at the bar so then he couldn't stay he couldn't obviously drive home because we don't do drink driving no obviously so he stayed at Meijer in my hotel room and he slept in the living room and and I woke up to this like strobe light going off and it's like super loud alarm and then all of a sudden this lady came over the tile and she was like fire fire evacuate the building fire fire usually when I make these videos I keep watching hours and hours of interviews until I find a crack within the general celebrity persona they give off for the camera but Tom it looks like this is what he was born to do he's so nice cool fun thoughtful innocent vulnerable down-to-earth confident cheeky all in a package that has no rifts you could see how much Jake Gyllenhaal has a connection with Tom I really truly do love the kid I feel like really anyone would like Tom honestly this is the power of Marvel Studios they auditioned tons of Spider Men until they ended up with someone that was quite literally perfect breaking down his character traits Tom knows when to get bashful and vulnerable hey Tom has not been a trap for this y-l a [Applause] he knows how to act for myself of just that perfect way where it makes him look charming and not egocentric disappointed it means I did more research you just want I'm more devoted to the character that's essentially what it means yeah I'm more devoted to my character you could tell he really cares about the people he's with especially his friends and family what do you look for in a girl Jacob um you know someone who has a nice smile I mean I do like freckles honestly only one who can just make me laugh because he knows my job to make people laugh and if you can make me laugh that means you got something I owe everything to my lovely mum she you know she did everything for me growing up when I was going for auditions and she was the one that's like he got a stretch if you want to be in Billy Elliot and and the crazy thing is it all feels super genuine the reason I'm mentioning this is because he became spider-man at like 18 years old he was already an actor but he was by no means an actor that needed to come off so squeaky clean but also super relatable and charming like he does so the question is how did he get this way now I'm not gonna do any real research into his background but from the sound of it his British accent comes like he's from upper middle to upper-class family he also worked professionally since he was a child and next which is the kicker he went to a private all-boys school and I'm sure in the UK they have them where those traditional little suits and teach them all manners and perfect social skills also he's trained in ballet dancing so if I'm guessing correctly tom has been groomed since he was really young the interesting thing I see about Tom when I look through all of these interviews is how every now and then he kind of loses composure and I can actually see him consciously recomposing himself watch here and here and here it reminds me of better when Kanye West does it except I think when Kanye does it it's because he builds a wall up between himself and others I think when Tom does it it's because he genuinely wants to present himself in the best light as that's what he's been taught to do another interesting point I noticed about Tom is he is a perfect case study of a really charming hunky cool guy that not at all cares about coming off macho or masculine it's unfortunate these days that a ton of men are suffering from depression and deep feelings of insecurity from not feeling really good enough and a lot of these men are looking at deep dark crevices of the internet with gurus telling them that it's because feminism is keeping them from being true masculine men I really think about that how if you're really a man if you're truly a man are you really being kept down by feminism come on so now there's a bunch of young men out there who try overcompensating for their lack of general happiness in life with them a cheese mode that actually makes them worse with women and people in general trust me when I say that no man becomes more manly by deciding that he needs to prove himself and others that he's more of the man real men just don't care about that there's literally no one thing that can make a straight male more manly and some of you might get triggered by this then strengthening your love for women that's right the best way for you to be more manly is not shooting down feminism it's not swinging your little peeper around the clubs for everyone to see nor is it about bulking up and getting strong though that's not a problem or growing a beard or becoming a leader or losing touch with your emotional side it's simply just becoming more in love with the female gender that's all the more you do that the more you're a man it's plain to see that even though Tom knows how to play with the big boys he doesn't get shy he also isn't afraid to act nervous childish afraid silly and any other vulnerable trait and it's why Tom Holland comes off as such a charming guy charm is about a mixture of many traits showing everything you got not blocking this seemingly weak ones this is something I'm constantly reminding my students that building attraction with women has nothing to do with coming off high value or cool as I once thought they did if you want to be popular or intimidating yeah maybe but charm and attraction they don't care about those things it's instead about displaying a balance of all your personality traits randomly at different times even in times where you might be expected to come off cool and macho and Tom Holland exemplifies this perfectly he's got to be one of the most well-balanced 20-somethings I've ever seen the type of guy that can make friends with anyone and it shows [Music] hey guys thanks so much for watching this episode of classic charm if you liked it and you want to see more give your little suggestions down in those comments I'm gonna put it on my list I got a long list but trust me I'm gonna be doing this for a long time so I promise I'm gonna get to everybody's suggestions now if you want to learn more from me you're in luck all month I am doing a free live class and my website soul mate method calm now if you want to see some more videos just I don't know click here whatever enjoy yourselves good bye wow what wow bye [Music]

Channel: Anthony Recenello

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Id: ro71l0Adp1o

Length: 10min 33sec (633 seconds)

Published: Fri Aug 23 2019