Adrienne and Rodney Talk Adjustments During Their Marriage | Black Love | OWN

i don't even remember what that argument was but i do remember we had a really nasty argument and i told him to get them out i did i told him to get the out oh can i say that you said you can you didn't tell me too you said yeah yeah and i regretted that yeah we had a conversation about it i recognized i had another home never it's never had another home for the justin case yeah yeah i was like okay well i mean if that's what you want to do you know i got a i got a backup plan here yeah we had a knockdown drag out um and i don't even remember what the fight was about but that has never happened again how did you resolve that who apologized oh absolutely i did absolutely like you can't you can't you can't talk to people that way you can't treat people that way and this is one thing rodney that's probably the biggest lesson or adjustment that i've had to make is how i speak to him and how i treat him um because he he you know when in other marriages i have been unhappy and that unhappiness um manifest in how you treat one another and how you speak to one another and how you handle one another and i kind of got used to that you know i got used to communicating that way cussing people out and all of that so i had to learn to change that behavior and to change how i i spoke with him and and how i communicate it does not work and it's unacceptable with him yeah you know i wasn't used to people communicating with me that way so i wasn't in a place of acceptance i wasn't you know gonna allow her to communicate or talk to me that way and if the relationship was going to move forward we needed to find a better way to do that yeah [Music] you

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Length: 2min 26sec (146 seconds)

Published: Sun Aug 07 2022