7 Ways to Maximize Misery 😞

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It's probably a bad thing that I'm following these steps nearly exactly.

👍︎︎ 1349 👤︎︎ u/StevonStevoff 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

This made me more uncomfortable as it went on.

👍︎︎ 337 👤︎︎ u/liarandathief 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

"Uh, so be sure never to do that."

Loved that bit.

👍︎︎ 630 👤︎︎ u/Paige4o4 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

I fell asleep watching House of Cards last night on my phone and woke up immediately searching for my phone and found a new CGP Grey vid, so that part about avoiding screens kind of hit hard

👍︎︎ 190 👤︎︎ u/EQUASHNZRKUL 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

Well that's an interesting way to start my Wednesday morning: by being completely and utterly dismantled by an internet video

👍︎︎ 1023 👤︎︎ u/AtticusLynch 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

SGP? Blasphemy!

👍︎︎ 685 👤︎︎ u/Cubre 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

This is a brillilant take on the typical "self help" video. Recognizing how I am making my life miserable motivates me more than knowing all the things that I could do instead.

👍︎︎ 667 👤︎︎ u/Peefy 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

Woo!! Restart the counter!

(Tims unite!)

👍︎︎ 217 👤︎︎ u/[deleted] 📅︎︎ May 31 2017 🗫︎ replies

CGP Grey's 7 steps to suicide.

Psychiatrists hate him!

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Happiness -- many will advise you how to obtain it but maybe you're not trying to be happy. Your actions aim for the opposite. You want to be the saddest saddo sailing on the sea of sadness -- much easier to achieve and this video has 7 tactics to get you started toward the dark currents, at least one of which you are already doing. So let's begin. First, stay still. Remain indoors as much as possible, preferably in the same room. Be the human equivalent of a pile of laundry -- inert, unmoving. Don't let a beautiful day tempt you for a walk. Avoid anything even vaguely exercisial. This keeps reward chemicals out of your brain which could diverge you and stillness guides you towards medical problems which will keep this wheel turning. Stillness is the most effective thing you can do, so be the laundry pile. Make your bedroom your allroom. Live and work and play and sleep in the smallest radius you can. Which brings us to screw with your sleep. The wrath of insomnia will be your co-pilot on the sea of sadness. Her mere presence is unpleasant, but she also helps confuse the productive part of your brain which might look to navigate you toward the islands of happiness on the horizon. More on that later. A regular sleep cycle is a fragile thing and takes at least three days to establish. Be sure then to vary your bedtime by several hours twice a week, at least. Even better: vary your wake time. Sleep in late, preferably very late, some but not all days. And tell yourself you are making up for sleep to feel like you're doing something healthy even though you feel terrible when you wake up early and when you wake up late. Irregular sleep is another of the sea's accelerating currents. The more you vary your sleep, the harder regular sleep becomes, which makes your sleep more variable. To never sleep or wake at the same time naturally is the goal. And to help in this, maximize your screen time. Staying on-screen complements the previous sailing tactics. Boredom could drive you to motion, so let the screen entertain you. Tiredness can push you to sleep, so let the screen keep you awake, sort of, as long as possible. Always fall asleep with a screen in your hand and put your eyes back on it as soon as you wake. Every moment away from a screen is a moment you might notice the horizon. Keep your head down and let the currents pull you. Here you have allies unknown. Behind the screen are teams of the smartest people and brightest bots competing to hold your attention on them as long as possible. Let them reach you to pull you back if you turn away. Plus, screens help with number four: use your screen to stoke your negative emotions, to feed your anger or anxiety about things over which you have no control or influence. Be well informed while doing nothing. The things you care about could be navigational guides out of the sea, reasons to leave your allroom and take meaningful action with the humans around you. But you can instead use the things you care about as further sources of misery. Focus on the bad to fuel your resentment or despair. If you must contribute, do so only in meaningless token ways and be disappointed in the lack of change. We're coming towards the end and if you're doing it right, misery is descending. But some part of your brain is rebelling, trying to turn the ship by setting a goal. If you're not careful, that part of your brain just might save you, but luckily we can do more than just hobble it. We can fool it to navigate deeper into the sea. To reach goals, they must be specific, measurable, actionable, for which you are responsible, and time bounded. I will turn the wheel one degree right now. Instead, set the productive part of your brain on vapid goals: vague, amorphous, pie-in-the-sky, irrelevant, delayed. Make the target unclear and the path unclear. If motivation strikes, aim ridiculously high to guarantee failure. I will clean the whole house today is much better than I will do the laundry in this pile. Cleaning a whole house is impossible. There's always more to do, so you will always fail. Focus on goals that are after what you wish to achieve. Learn how to market an app before you learn to code. This will distract the productive part of your brain quite nicely. And be sure to wait for motivation rather than setting a time. You'll do something when you feel like it, which will be never or never enough to matter. With vapid goals, you will turn the productive part of your brain from a dangerous source of self-improvement that rewards every small step into a consistent nag that berates you for your failure to have already accomplished your goal every step of the way. Now the vapid goals you've set should distract the productive part of your brain, but if it still fights against you, direct it towards the mirage on the sea of sadness: the islands of happiness themselves. Pursue happiness directly. The human mind is such that by setting sail towards happiness, you will achieve the opposite. Imagine happiness as a place where happy people are happy all the time. This turns happiness into an unreachable feeling of constant bliss that no one has. True happiness is like a bird that might land on your ship, but never if you constantly stand guard to catch it. Instead, improve your ship and sail into warmer waters -- the bird will land when you aren't looking. Uh -- so be sure never to do that. Aim toward the mirage of happiness rather than improving the ship upon which you sail. Last, but most important, follow your instincts. Navigation deeper into the sea of sadness is quite easy, for there is a dark magnetic field that points the compass of your impulses in the right direction once you get started. You will want to stay indoors, you will want to not exercise, you will want to sleep in, you will want to do what you know will make you sadder after you've done it. Your compass points the way, both in and out, so follow the true north of your impulses and stay away from that other pole of the long-term. It's all so simple. Just get started with these tactics and let the sea carry you along. This video was produced as an adaptation of How to Be Miserable by Dr. Randy J. Patterson, which is a great example of how thinking about the opposite of your goal can help you achieve what you really want. And if you want to listen to it for free you can do so on Audible.com with their free 30-day trial. Audible is the best place to get your audiobooks. It's where I get my audiobooks and you should too. 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Channel: CGP Grey
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Length: 6min 5sec (365 seconds)
Published: Wed May 31 2017
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