5 Habits that Changed My Life

with these five habits i actually was able to make a substantial change in my life with kind of like a minimal effort investment so one of the things that i want to talk to you all about today are habits so i'm gonna share with you all five habits that i've kind of implemented over the last couple of years that have drastically altered my productivity and my wellness and success and all that kind of stuff i think these habits may apply to you this may be useful for you if you're kind of like me and what i actually struggled with a lot was building new habits so what i sort of found for myself is that first of all i thought hat building habits was important right so i recognized that every day that i'm using like willpower to overcome particular shortcomings of mine like it was a slog the second thing is that i'm also someone who really really struggles to build habits because i i struggle with consistency and things like that it was just really hard you know i try to exercise i try to eat healthy i try to do all this stuff and it was just like hard for me and so the the habits that i want to share with you all today are five things that i would call easy with these five habits i actually was able to make a substantial change in my life with kind of like a minimal effort investment so the first habit that i want to share with you all is not using technology for like 30 to 60 minutes when you wake up in the morning so for the first half hour to hour of my day i do my level best to not use any kind of technology you know we've grown up in such a technological society where we feel like we have to use technology or technology is always at our fingertips or there's like so much value from technology and i didn't really realize how little value technology offers until like i started really paying attention to things like when i would go to an ashram right so i'd go to a monastery and i'd study yoga for a while right so i'm meditating and stuff like that and there's very little technology footprint then and that's when i really realized oh i actually like don't need technology now it's fine for me to say okay so start off your day without using technology for 30 to 60 minutes but the truth is that's hard why is it hard because technology is addictive so instead of trying to change anything i just paid attention to what happened when i started using technology so when you wake up first in the morn first thing in the morning you're kind of sluggish you don't really feel like working but you need to work today so what i sort of noticed was that the first reason that i would use technology was not out of any recreational stuff it was actually like due to like legitimate reasons so the first thing that i would do is like check my email or look at my calendar and try to figure out okay what do i have to do today and that sounds like pretty productive right you have to figure out okay during the day like do i need do i have an hour to shower do i have half an hour to shower like what do i need to do today but then what i sort of found is as i looked at my day when i first wake up in the morning how do you think that makes me feel so when you wake up first thing in the morning and you open up your calendar and you open up your email and there are all these tasks you have to do and like you've got all these meetings and oh yeah i have to do this today and oh i have to do this today and i don't do this today and then i started to feel emotionally overwhelmed because i'm not actually doing it right all i'm seeing is like the gigantic mountain that i have to climb and so then once i start to feel emotionally overwhelmed mentally i'm not in a frame of mind to work so what do i end up doing how do i manage those emotions i move over to a different app let's open up reddit let's look at what happened on a live stream fail and so then what we do is we we shift from our kind of like work related legitimate reason to kind of an emotionally numbing dopaminergic kind of thing and then you're stuck in that cycle and then i have to start the day by digging in using willpower to overcome that and like drag myself to start working and what i actually found is that when i avoid technology for the first 30 to 60 minutes of the day you know i kind of do my thing i take a shower i have a cup of tea i'll read something i'll chat i'll go outside for a little bit then when i sit down to work i'm in a far better headspace and my my willpower battery is still fully charged because i haven't had to overcome the addictive technology first thing in the morning habit number two as i started cutting back on caffeine or even cutting it out entirely so i learned this lesson in a kind of bizarre way so a couple years ago i got food poisoning and when i got food poisoning you know like i couldn't eat anything so i certainly wasn't having any caffeine and what i found is like three or four days after when i started to feel a little bit better despite the fact that i had been sick i was really surprised by how mentally alert i was in the afternoons and evenings the more i kind of dug into it i realized this is the effect of caffeine and there are a couple of important things to understand about caffeine the first is that caffeine doesn't actually give us energy the neurobiological mechanism of caffeine is that it blocks adenosine receptors and so adenosine so we have the the fundamental energy molecule in our cells is something called atp when we burn an atp we're sort of left with adenosine and the more adenosine we have that sort of that's our brain signal that okay like we're tired like we've burnt up a lot of energy and when i go to sleep i'm going to clear out all that adenosine i'm going to remake atp and so the interesting thing about caffeine is that it doesn't give you energy it numbs the tiredness signal so this is really important because the more that you use caffeine you're actually like building up more fatigue more fatigue more fatigue you're just numbing yourself to that signal so it doesn't actually give you energy all it does is create more fatigue down the road for a temporary boost right now so let's try to understand what happens when we use caffeine and why it's so hard to give up it turns out that the way that our brain's reinforcement mechanisms are wired make it very easy to get addicted to caffeine so there's a really simple principle when it comes to addictions the more rapid the effect of the benefit the more addictive it is so the faster that the benefit hits the more likely we are to be addicted so when we use caffeine what happens is we get this burst of focus and i've got a bunch of stuff to do today so i can't afford to be sluggish so i'm gonna drink caffeine and for a couple of hours man i can do anything like i'm grinding i'm doing this task i'm doing that task i'm on i'm streaming i'm riding whatever it is and then as time goes on and as the caffeine wears off we get sluggish and sluggish and sluggish and by the time that the evening rolls around we're really tired we really can't do anything and the more that we feel like oh my god i can't do anything the more dependent we become with caffeine so if you look at like your productivity over the course of a day let's say it's really stable when you use caffeine what it basically does is shifts a period into high productivity followed by a period of low productivity so when i use caffeine i feel that burst of energy and i'm like wow caffeine is really amazing and then i crash afterward and so the more that my brain sort of learns okay like i need caffeine i need caffeine i need caffeine i'm so productive with it the more we start to use it and then we kind of fall into this cycle that ends up actually like negatively impacting us so in terms of how to cut back on caffeine so i think the first thing is to recognize once again use understanding right so actually pay attention to your productivity over the course of a day and how you kind of feel another thing that you can do in terms of getting off of caffeine is delaying when you start it okay this is really important because a lot of times we're like zombies until we have caffeine so i know it's kind of weird but just wait half an hour do other stuff take a shower like you can still take a shower without caffeine it's like not that hard and then the last thing that's really really important for coming off of caffeine i know it's gonna sound kind of like a no-brainer but getting enough sleep caffeine is way harder to get rid of when you are not sufficiently rested so when i get off of caffeine now what i'll try to do is plan actually a nap during the day so i recognize that i'm gonna crash and i'm gonna just lay down for a little while oftentimes i won't sleep i'll just close my eyes but it really helps and then you kind of acknowledge that for a three or four day period like it's going to be a little bit tricky but a big part is getting enough sleep at night the next habit that i want to share with you all that i think is actually really really has revolutionized my life and is so easy is pacing so what i do now several times throughout the day is get up and walk back and forth and i will demonstrate for those of you who don't know what pacing is this is what it looks like i'll get up and i'll go like this and people are like what the hell how is that how does that help anything i pace his revolutionized my life how the hell does that help anyone great question so let's understand why we pace and what it replaces so when i'm working sometimes i get tired of work and i get distracted and what do we do when we get tired of work and we get distracted we usually do something with a technological device so i'm fatigued feel distracted and then what i'm gonna do is as i engage with something let's say i open up like reddit or twitter or whatever i get bombarded with information so the first thing is that all of these activities are designed to increase engagement right so like when you watch one youtube video it's not like that's the only video there's a bunch of suggestions the suggestions on the right for the next video there are cards at the end of the video that directing you to additional videos one distraction becomes a second distraction third distraction fourth distraction fifth of distraction so the price of opening up some kind of technological thing is like a five minute distraction becomes an hour long the second thing is that when we engage in those kinds of things it tends to ramp up our mind more so as i open up twitter and i see everything that is wrong with the world do you think that that helps me get back to work and generally speaking if you pay attention to the cycle what happens is once you like log on to twitter we get so fatigued from our distraction that we eventually get bored of it and we go back to work but when you're going back to work you're kind of exhausted and like mentally so how does pacing help pacing helps in two ways the first is that it allows me to take a break from work without slipping into something that's gonna cost me an hour the second thing that's really cool about pacing is that it actually decompresses my mental state so when i engage with something some inflammatory content on the internet it activates my emotions and makes it like harder for me to focus whereas when i pace like i just let my mind kind of wander and like it kind of thinks through stuff and i don't know how to describe it but like basically like when you use the internet you get ramped up right when you pace like you kind of get like decompressed you kind of chill out you're thinking about this stuff thinking about that stuff you kind of just like and eventually you can sit down and work again pacing is completely op you just get up step away from the computer get the blood flowing right so improve your venous return by walking back and forth use your muscles a little bit relieve some of that back pain from sitting and all that kind of good stuff so this kind of segues into the next thing that i really noticed which is the next habit that i built was giving myself time to think this is kind of interesting because i think one of the things that we've lost as humanity is time to think so like 10 000 years ago we had a lot of time to think even if i'm a farmer working in a field like i may be doing some kind of monotonous activity or if i'm milking a cow i still have time to think so i think one of the things that we really like lost sight of is that the human brain evolved to have like this low kind of like mental activity processing kind of state and now what happens is we get ramped up so much by everything going on so much stimuli that we actually don't have time to like process any of that stuff why can it be hard to give yourself time to think because you're not being productive oh my god so i think if we kind of think a little bit about optimal productivity we have to recognize that societally our brains don't have time to decompress anymore and so now what we're sort of seeing is intensive decompression people are going on meditation retreats they're going to say therapists they have to squeeze in all of their mental decompression into a highly efficient little bundle and we see the value of this if you all have ever heard of shower thoughts and look at what your mind is like in the shower so many good thoughts man feels so good it's like invigorating so give yourself time to think it will transform your life one thing that kind of came out when i started giving myself time to think and this is the last habit arguably the most important is i started turning some consumption into production so increasingly what we've become as humans is consumers books audiobooks youtube videos twitter social media video games so i i've even heard of like you know people who play games like i used to do this too like i would play wow i would grind wow and listen to an audiobook at the same time so i could be productive while i'm playing wow makes sense sort of right because if i have to grind this stupid crap i might as well like listen to a good book like listen to stephen hawking and learn something so like what the hell is going on here so we've become consumers we think that consumption is like laudable right so if i read one book every day and i read 300 books a week and i read this many many books and i listen to this podcast and do this and do this like this is a badge of honor and what i realized i was just consuming consuming consuming and that if i really want to be like be successful what i need to do is not consume like sure reading can be helpful don't get me wrong what i mean is if i want to deliver value to the world if i want to offer value as a human being that doesn't come through consumption it comes through production so i started creating stuff so in my case i did a lot of writing now here's the problem with becoming a producer so as you start producing all kinds of problems arise and the number one problem that arises from being a producer is wanting to make a product we've associated writing with publishing so like there's no point in writing unless you become an author there's no point in making music unless you're going to become an artist so what we've started to do is we've tangled together the creative process with the creation once you tangle these two things together it makes things so difficult because if my goal is to write a book then the second i start writing i get into problems with perfectionism is it good enough is it not good enough strategically am i doing this do i need to find a publisher are people gonna like it are they not gonna like it and then you get into writer's block you get paralyzed it's not good enough i need to prepare more i need to go do this workshop i need to learn more about this because the goal is to publish something the goal is to be successful the habit that i learned was just to become a producer instead of a consumer to date i've never published a book have i written books 100 haven't published one don't care but the key thing is to stop being a passive consumer and to recognize that once you engage in that productive process you will like shed a lot of the problems that we face right now you're just creating stuff so shift from consumption to production why is that hard because we assume production with the finished product we want to be successful there's no point in writing a book that no one else will read i completely disagree i'm not saying that you stop consumption i'd say somewhere around 10 to 20 percent of your consumption time should be turned into production so if you're like me and you think habits are important but you struggle to actually implement them then i'd start with these five habits number one avoid technology usage for the first 30 to 60 minutes of the day number two cut back on your caffeine it's a scam number three pace literally just walk back and forth easiest thing in the world in the world to do leading from pacing is to give yourself time to think and as you give yourself time to think put that thought into the world in some way start to become a producer instead of a consumer so those are the five habits i'd recommend you all start with you

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Length: 15min 34sec (934 seconds)

Published: Thu Sep 01 2022