40 YEAR OLD VIRGINS why? - r/AskReddit

our slash is graded by IRA debt will life forty-year-old virgins what's your story a cow walker is 51 never had girlfriend nor had sex Nature has been a jerk to him he's an ugly a version of Danny DeVito with stratas and man of the acting abilities I was raised in a religious household so I was taught to wait until marriage I had many boyfriends but I didn't sleep with them because of my vow of abstinence I wore my promise ring until I was married at age 30 I married my best friend and soul mate he told me he had performance problems but he had also never had a girlfriend at Dinah Eve Lee thought that once we were together and naked things would work out turns out I was wrong he was completely impotent I decided that I married him because I loved him and not for six so it was fine we started talking to doctors to see if it could be fixed but then he suffered a terrible brain injury now my husband is a paraplegic with many health problems weird things after the brain injury he started getting erections normally this would be something to celebrate but has in so much pain due to the paralysis that I can't exactly get on top of him so here I am a woman in her late thirties a married virgin taking care of her paraplegic husband and I don't know what the future holds edit while I'm so touched by all of the kind words I'm overwhelmed by the reaction but also a little wary of the attention this comment is getting I worry that someone I know may recognize my situation and then be made aware of our sexual problems if it continues to grow I may delete it but before I do I just want to thank everyone for all their kind word and for all the helpful advice I'm truly touched a friend of -39 and has never lost it he's super religious has had girlfriends but never got married or anything so he never had her sex well that's as far as I know maybe he has and is ashamed of it maybe he's gay and is in the closet maybe he's asexual I don't know normal beer drinking playing video games going to bars and traveled the world sort of a guy decent looking but not great he's maybe a little out of shape that I wouldn't call it ugly thing as he wants to be married before sex and also has super weirdly high standards like now that he's his age he still won't settle for anything less than a Kate Upton fats Ultra Christian my brother got his first girlfriend aged 38 there is hope for everyone not 40 but I know one guy who has a micropenis and is physically unable to have sex shame too because he's decently good-looking and funny makes out with a lot of girls his six feet three etcetera completely normal only though he's a virgin due to him admitting JT to me when he was drunk he's early to mid-30s edit he is a virgin in terms of her China intercourses I assume he's done other [ __ ] there is a guy named buddy who works at a BP down the road from me he's got to be 40 and one of the nicest guys I've ever met on this planet just about all my friends and I will go out of our way for this gas station because we love him so much one day we got to talking and he told me that he has never had sex had a girlfriend or eaten meat in his entire life pretty clearly religious reasons but I didn't ask still the dude radiates positivity and genuinely cares about every single person he meets just goes to show that having sex and finding a lover isn't essential to living a wonderful life also his name is buddy and he calls everyone he knows buddy so that's cool op h mu and two decades for answer i know a 34 year old who has never even kissed a girl crippling social anxiety also hung up on a girl from 15 years ago who has never been interested i saw a pretty tipsy girl come onto him at a bar once and he almost jumped out of his skin he was nude having that [ __ ] i have a friend in this situation she has never been kissed even she is a little bit heavy but not obese and she is okay looking i think it is just confidence i know someone who was 33 lots of reasons religious / strict upbringing meant no way to interact with the preferred gender until after high school overweight in college which wasn't actually a problem for men finding her attractive but it killed her own self-confidence so she never recognized when men hit on her hard investment banking career meant working all hours and getting much fatter so the cycle kept getting worse had lots of guys friends but never recognized anyone hitting at her finally got in shape got confidence lost virginity at weight she was an in college when she thought she was fat ironic I'm in my mid-40s female I have a congenital condition that isn't really that disabling in terms of what I can do but as meant I look very different from other women really fat from the way disrupted my metabolism developed as a woman until around puberty and then started developing about half-and-half male and female features also produced scarring and a general unwell appearance greasy skin and hair falling out even with excellent grooming you can imagine how sexually repulsive men have found me so here we are I expect to live the rest of my life alone of course at this point I'm so broken for bullying and isolation that a relationship isn't even imaginable perhaps it's a blessing that my condition is associated with a shorter lifespan I'm 41 years old and had sex only once with a prostitute I think women find me weird because of autism I actually work with one has like 45 I may be closing in on 50 has a strange guy works too much and way too hard saves all his money as generally stingy but kind of social I know he wants it but has too focused on work to actually make it happen this whole comments section makes me think there needs to be a dating site for social awkward people I would sign up in a heartbeat I lost my virginity at age 40 I had opportunities but just didn't realize them at the time girls would come flirt with me but I would just freeze in my mind would go blank I'm very shy and quiet I sometimes think I'm autistic but have never been diagnosed or tried to get diagnosed I always though something was wrong with me and I knew I wasn't normal I also didn't drink a lot or party I invited a co-worker over to watch a movie one night and she is also very quiet and shy I'll let her take the lead and let it happen that was two years ago and we are engaged now some of us are just ugly in both looks and personality no sob story along winded explanation needed years of intense social rejection and depression don't help but they are the primary cause some people are just inherently unapproachable pretty sure I know a 35 year old virgin he's creepy has the eyes of someone that doesn't see you he just looks past you in a serial-killer kinda way also he only tries to date 18 to 22 year olds combine this with his ultra-conservative religion and Greek family add a healthy dose of superiority complex he asked her buddy to take hmm to the shooting range once my buddy played it off that then told me when he wasn't around that he didn't want to get Chris Kyle I'm 27 and I think I like being alone a bit too much interpersonal relationships are hard and draining and the mere thought of having to share my time and to do a big amount of emotional work with someone freaks me out I've had people ask me to go on dates slash get something to drink / whatever but even when I genuinely liked them I really don't feel like being around them as much as socially acceptable IDK maybe I'm a weirdo since there aren't a lot of serious answers I was still am the love interest of a 39 year old virgin English isn't my native language please bear with me about 10 years ago I joined an online gaming community it was small and I became friends with a lot of people there we met up at different events in real life since I was one of very few women there the obvious thing happened and two guys developed a crush on me one of them is now my boyfriend of eight years the other is the Virgin in question I cut contact about six years ago because he made me uncomfortable and insulted my boyfriend several times but I still check his Twitter from time to time he claims he still loves me after six years without contact that guy is one of the most socially awkward people I've met it took in ten years to get as you need agree he still lives with his parents in his old bedroom he's never had a proper job he does work but he does freelance work for about ten hours a week he's constantly complaining about how stressful his job 'is that's it slap in the face for all people that work full-time really he's also constantly whining about having no friends and no girl for but he talks about women like we are a completely different species although he doesn't have a lot of money he spends it like crazy he's often spending 1,000 plus euros a month on action figures and video games but he doesn't even play them he has shelves full of unopened video games I'm not kidding and he doesn't even make that much money so I guess he's getting a ton of money from his parents he's completely dependent on everyone else every couple of months his computer catches a virus and he has to bring it to the computer repair shop but since money doesn't seem to be an issue he doesn't even try to solve the problem on his own speaking of money his parents are old and they have a cleaning lady first of all why not let him clean he lives with them and has nothing to do most of the time but no the cleaning lady also cleans his bedroom like why question mark his personal hygiene is awful and he drinks and smokes a lot he's proud of his greasy hair etcetera he often tweets stuff like I haven't showered in five days just to get attention it's sad really he posts unflattering pictures of him constantly and is like look how ugly I am well he's not attractive he's smaller than me I am slightly above average height for a European woman overweight and wears clothes that look like they're from the 80s every time I got into a new hobby he did the same to feel connected to me I got into photography and bought a DSLR he got one too and never really used it I went on a diet he did too I started making YouTube videos he bought a cam and made one video too actually with all the expensive action figures he has he could definitely become successful on it but he seems to have no drive to actually do things he even applied to the company I was working for I'm a huge Pokemon fan on one event I wore a shirt that said I'm the biggest Pokemon fan on the planet or something along those he was 32 years old at that time and he wore it to impress me our community went to a bar later that night and he decided to light his lighter directly in front of my face he wasn't even drunk or anything it almost burned my glasses slash hair while he's not done he just doesn't seem to use his brain sometimes he falls in love with literally every woman that gives him a tiny bit of attention and he doesn't get when people are not interested he claims that if it wasn't for my boyfriend we would be together now he'll know he asked me out on a date after getting together with my boyfriend he insults my boyfriend openly on social media speaking of social media he has crushes on a ton of female celebrities and he collects nudes apparently he has a huge folder of tons of nudes of different famous people I don't know if a lot of guys do this but it's creepy F if you ask me he also had a date with a woman from Twitter once I don't know what happened that she blocked him afterwards honestly I wasn't surprised that guy is just a total train wreck he's getting help apparently but he also has a crush on his psychologist so I highly doubt it's working this is just the tip of the iceberg really there's a ton of really weird things he's done in the past but that would be way too long to write down TL DR I know a guy who's 39 and still a virgin he's extremely socially awkward has issues and over shares online edit typists edit - since people keep asking why I know so much about him when I was still active in that online community a handful of people chatted almost every day both of us included so we've shared a lot of personal info I also check out his Twitter every now 35 this August still a virgin haven't even been kissed or on a date I gave up on relationships and have resigned myself to being alone [Music]

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Length: 14min 20sec (860 seconds)

Published: Sat Jun 01 2019