15 Things to Prioritize in Life

your life sucks because you don't understand what makes life suck less because of evolutionary pressures humans are designed to deal with the most imminent threats but not everything urgent is important if you get trapped in the pursuit of the Urgent you will wake up one day and realize you messed it all up you will feel stuck lost unfulfilled even angry at the world to some of you this might sound familiar well by the end of this video you'll have a clear understanding on what ingredients make up for a fulfilling life alright let's do this here are 15 things to prioritize in life if you want to max out your experience welcome to alux.com the place where future billionaires come to get inspired number one yourself you are priority number one not your friends and not your husband or wife not your children you if you aren't well you can't help them a sinking ship can save nobody your health is probably the most important thing on this list if you're unhealthy your illness will have Ripple effects throughout your life and the lives of others so prioritize your health physical emotional and spiritual if you fly often you've heard this phrase a lot should an emergency situation occur you need to put on your own oxygen mask first before attempting to help those around you hey Luxor if you don't heal you will bleed out on the people who didn't cut you and there's nothing worse in life than realizing you're having a negative impact on people you care about rest is health so prioritize rest prioritize sleep prioritize time and healing environments weak soldiers win no battles and if you want to win in life you need to be in fighting shape number two time with your children some things are more valuable per unit of time than others why because once the moment has passed it'll be gone forever and time with your kids is one of them you think you can work now and spend time with them later but they will never be kids again they will never be the same age they are today if you miss it it's gone they say a man is not a man until he can love something more than he loves himself but this goes for everyone not just men children are a rite of passage of sorts you don't have to have children if you don't want to we're sure there are other ways of maturing but if you choose to have them give them your best number three your partner early in life where you live is the most important decision but once that's taken care of the second biggest choice is who you choose as your life partner this person will be alongside you for the rest of your life to like to say happy wife happy life but that's not really the case in reality we lean more toward unhappy partner unhappy life or if you want to stick with the Rhymes happy spouse happy house they will play a crucial role in bringing up your children they will either be there to hold you at night or you'll fall asleep alone your partner is who grounds you your partner is what home is you can win at all other things following on this list but if you fail at the first three you're done people get too caught up in the money or the Fame game and then you wake up one day alone in a mansion number four your business and income money is the fuel of life everything is expensive and growing more expensive by the day people want to put themselves on a pedestal and pretend like money isn't important but you can't feed your family with Sacramento quotes a car without fuel can only go one way downhill neglect your business or put it in the hands of those who don't see your vision and it's just a matter of time before it turns into chaos people get rich because they make it their business to become wealthy in life everything you want out of life all the Comfort your family needs is Within Reach we both know you're smart enough and driven enough to make it happen you just need to put the aside and do the work you keep postponing number five your growth very much like sharks staying still in the water will kill you you need to keep moving a tree that isn't growing is secretly dying and so are you if your life feels stressed meaningless or like you're wasting it away it's because you lack growth when's the last time you evolved when's the last time you believed you took a mental leap when's the last time you genuinely felt every day of your life is getting better and better there's a direct correlation between success happiness and fulfillment to the amount of time money and energy you devote toward growth this is by far the biggest takeaway that we took from the rich and it allowed us to build our Fortune as well invest money into yourself and how do you do that you find tools and resources that Focus your efforts and provide you with insights you didn't have and as a result this allows you to make better decisions that compound over time we spend over thirty thousand dollars a year on personal education on access mentorships books and business events just to learn the small nuggets of gold 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second and think about what that would be like well then reality starts to creep in doesn't it your job your mortgage or rent your responsibilities you have right here and all of a sudden you realize you're not free you're a prisoner in a cage of your own design and cages such as this kill what's left of your identity all of a sudden you're no longer you instead what you do becomes your identity all of a sudden people around you think of you as the job that you do he's that guy she's that girl be honest and ask yourself how free do I really feel that is your mission in life if you don't like your answer do something about it prioritize freedom and it'll open up side quests that make the journey extraordinary but more on that and number 13. number seven your Investments and savings your business and your income is the predictable inflow of fuel for your life but even if you're a high earner that doesn't mean your sand castle cannot still crumble you become rich by getting paid a lot of money for your work you become Wealthy by earning money while you don't have to work who else comes from Investments Peace of Mind comes from savings and emergency funds if you stopped working today let's say a car hit you and you don't have insurance how many months could you sustain your current lifestyle the answer is less than six you're in Rough Waters my friend you're one Murphy's Law incident away from crashing rich people prioritize this in such a way that a good portion of their income goes directly into Investments or at least savings but typically they invest over 50 percent of their income [Music] number eight your core relationships when it comes to priorities and relationships in life you don't need volume you need depth you only need the right two to three loyal friends and you can conquer the world it's for this reason why Facebook is failing as a social network too many connections and too few genuine relationships who even are all of these people anyway your high school colleague got married another doubled in size another posted pics of their holiday All Surface no depth life gets kind of lonely after 40. it's impossible to make new old friends so cherish those you have if they bring value to your life fail to do so and you'll become an island family you your kids and your spouse it might be enough for survival but you're not thriving you're blending in as a solo identity number nine decluttering your life the things you own end up owning you the more you've got the more you've got to deal with that fancy car you have well it requires maintenance the convertible's got a leaky roof the closet is filled with clothes yet you wear the same three shirts in rotation poor people think having more stuff makes you rich or wealthy because in their mind that's how you measure wealth but rich people know wealth is having as few things as possible and being comfortable with that reality declutter your life and you will find Freedom and lower stress number 10 your long-term goals prioritize the long-term Vision over what needs to be done this week for this week becomes next week which becomes the week after before you know it you're old and can barely walk touch feel smell see look at your life the same way an architect looks at a building they want to create if it's designed well it's beautiful flows naturally and feels like it's supposed to when done properly you don't need to force it that's what your long-term goal should be a life beautifully designed this principle right here has helped us to create something extraordinary in all of our Sunday videos we speak from first-hand experience this concept of being the architect of your life is something that we've broken down and documented in our goal Mastery course which is being closed for several months now but this Black Friday we're reopening goal Mastery with a special discount for those on the waiting list so go to alux.com goals and make sure your name is on the list so you don't miss out if you fail to create a life for yourself others will do it for you but on their terms not yours number 11 emotional and spiritual health what good is the external if the internal feels like hell what if the numbers on the screen look good but it's hard to go to sleep at night you're smart enough to understand the impact one could have over the other when we feel at balance we are more productive more creative and it's easier to keep pushing forward if your life feels like you just want to quit maybe you should stop looking outside and start to turn your gaze inward number 12 your network the more we evolve the more we learn to appreciate the powers of networks one could have nothing but a network and it's just a matter of time before they've got something prioritize these relationships over the more trivial ones let them know you're thinking of them send them small gifts as tokens of your appreciation when the time comes they'll be there for you like a safety net of opportunity number 13 Adventure we want you to listen to this very carefully a life not lived is a life the universe wasted on you so live a Luxor travel experiment Leave the World Behind sometimes you will make the money back you will get another job you will get over your ex but you will never have a second chance at Living this life this is it the only ticket to the theme park that life is so what are you going to do with it will you take it for a ride or will you spend your remaining days in the teacups because they're familiar and predictable number 14. time with your mom and dad we know you might not be on good terms with them maybe the relationship is just okay or you know hopefully some of you had some emotionally mature parents and everything is great but the reality is you won't have them around for too much longer you only have maybe 10 to 20 more Christmases together if you only see them during the holidays you'll see your mom and dad only 20 more times and that's it the beautiful thing is that there is an easy fix to this you yes you not them have to be the one making the effort you're doing this for you the more you understand your parents the more you understand the soil they grew in the more it'll make sense why they are the way they are your relationship with your parents is the perfect teacher for what to fix in the relationship with your own children that's how we as a human species progresses so if you don't want to do it yourself do it for your children number 15. sustainable happiness people confuse pleasure with happiness a lot this is why poor people think money will bring them happiness because they think eating a good meal will make them happy but unfortunately that's pleasure we know plenty of obscenely wealthy individuals that can no longer purchase pleasure because they've over indulged in it and on the other side of the coin we know people who have a fraction of what we have who are very genuinely happy the more you do what feels natural inside of you the happier you'll be every compromise you make every morning you have to step on your soul to get out of bed your happiness gets a little further away from you sustainable Happiness is when you find a rhythm for your life not too fast not too slow just right if you know when to step on the gas and when to stop the car and grab a coffee you might just find that sweet spot the perfect spot the optimum one the ideal route where all the lights turn green for you for every red light you have on your proverbial Road of Life know that there's someone out there who's pacing themselves and getting all those green lights we strive to be that person and we hope that you'll someday get there as well and look the list doesn't stop here think deeply what is one other thing you should prioritize in life one that we didn't mention on this list write it down in the comments and allow the world to learn from your experience and as for those still around here's your secret bonus life is a circus and you're the center clown if you've ever been to a circus you know there's usually a juggling hat we actually like juggling acts because they're incredibly entertaining but this idea of throwing things into the mix it got us thinking what's the most number of things a circus clown can juggle well believe it or not the Guinness world record for the most number of balls juggled at the same time is 14 and the record holder's name is Alex Barron now Beyond 14 it's humanly impossible to juggle more as the rules of physics come into play and stop you from effectively doing it now this idea of a limited amount of things that one can juggle in life it's stuck with us it's the same in life isn't it at some point if you keep adding things into the mix everything will fall apart we need to be careful how many things we try to juggle at the same time and this idea it's helped us to know when to say yes and know in life it's also why our videos are lists of 15 items or ideas one more than the world record just so there's something to strive for now you know if you enjoyed this nugget of gold and think you will apply the juggling rule to your life write the word priority in the comments let's see how many of you are jugglers and how many are just Pretenders thanks for spending some of your valuable time with us today Alex we're so glad you did if you enjoyed this one please give us a like hit that Bell icon to never miss an upload and hey don't forget to subscribe

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Length: 19min 34sec (1174 seconds)

Published: Sun Sep 25 2022