10 Things EVERY WOMAN Should Do By Age 30!

hello everyone and welcome back to my channel today's video is all about 10 things that you should do by the age 30. now if you're wondering my age i am 33 have i done all of these things no do i always take my youtube advice no but i really do try and i think these 10 things are very unique and tangible they are real things that you can actually do i don't like talking about boring wishy-washy things that you don't really know how to actually apply to your own life so no matter what age you are maybe you're in your 20s i you know if you work towards some of these things by the age 30 i really think you'll be on track to a more well-rounded life but say you're in your 30s 40s 50s whatever um these are also amazing things to kind of accomplish and kind of cross off your list and i really think no matter what age you are you'll definitely take something positive away from this video so let's get started number one kind of sounds wishy-washy probably shouldn't have led with this one but hear me out so it's to figure out your style but like actually figure it out and embrace it so i'm gonna show you two examples on instagram i love instagram for style and inspiration you could follow me there if you want but no pressure but anyway over here we have fashion jackson all of her outfits that she posts are all neutral everything is whites and blacks and beiges and that's what she stands for that's what she loves and my goodness i love it too over here we have style pantry totally different polar opposites every outfit she posts is so bright and colorful so many color combinations of patterns it's it's it's beautiful maybe that's what you love maybe you love color but yet you feel like i need the basics and the essentials and you know the neutral colors or maybe you love the essentials but you're like but i can't have the same shirt every day like who the heck cares buy what you love maybe you're very edgy find somebody on instagram that's super edgy and think when you hold up a shirt in a store or you're looking online be like would this person actually wear that because that's what i'm trying to do with my style and if that person would never wear that then don't buy it but i'm not saying you need to you know go into a box and just blindly follow others but everyone has their own style that lights a spark inside of them and i think it's really cool and important and money saving to find what that is number two is to find a shampoo and conditioner that works for your hair everybody's hair is so different and i honestly feel like i've i finally found something that really works for me you guys have definitely noticed because i've received a lot of questions in the last six months my hair is so much more shiny um so that's where function of beauty comes into play huge thank you to them for sponsoring this video i cannot say enough good things about them if you're not familiar with them you actually go to their site and you can take a two minute hair quiz 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scents and different colors it's just really fun so if you happen to be interested though i will have a link down below and you can save 20 on your first order but i'm telling you guys it really it like it really made a big difference in in my hair the third thing that you should do is to ask for a raise or a promotion i'm telling you guys these are tangible things to go do and maybe you just got a promotion in which congratulations but maybe you haven't ever or or maybe you're just extremely underpaid undervalued you know i know a lot of women watch my channel and and it's not new information that we are not paid you know equivalent to men and you know i'm not going to get into that whole debate oh man that's very deep whatever i'm just here to tell you maybe just give you the extra nudge to start practicing what you would say maybe sit down in front of a mirror and and really practice what you would say and go for it go for that raise go for that promotion because you most likely deserve it number four speaking of money we're just going to talk about this now you need to start getting out of debt or just get out of debt that would be ideal debt is not good i mean i know to some degree with you know you know buying a house or um you know school loans and stuff like sometimes it's inevitable but we really need to start focusing on paying it off it's so important in the long run and i know i'm constantly talking about you know saving for your retirement but it's really hard to start saving for your retirement if you're just you know swallowed in debt so really make a conscious effort like after this video and i always say this but after you watch a few of my other videos i really think you should go to your bank account and look at how much you earn and how much you can save and literally pick an exact amount like pick a number of every month i'm going to put 200 towards my debt like make it tangible and actually do it number five we're just going down the money train after this i think i think we're done with money but this is something that i heard years ago and it's really really stuck with me again this one's a little wishy-washy sorry we'll get back to the tangible things in a minute you need to think about what you love like figure out what you love in life it could it could be anything figure out what you love and a way to make money from it that is one of the best one of the best pieces of advice ever i somehow figured it out with this channel i don't know i know it's so much easier said than done but i really want you to take that statement and cement it into your brain figure out what you love in life and figure out a way to make money from it there's nothing better than doing something that you love and you're making a living from it and you're going through life not feeling like you have a job i'm not saying that you need to quit your other job but if you can figure out something else along the side that you love and make money from it your life can change for the better and you can actually you know kind of shift in that direction more and expand and grow on that i'm telling you it will change your life okay so we're back to an actual tangible suggestion something you should do and it's to face one fear think of something that you're really scared of and i'm actually i'm actually gonna say you know think of something that's not i feel like everyone says public speaking i mean yeah if you wanna face that fear that's great i'm gonna go as far as say let's face something like spiders yeah let's do that that's me i'm working on that like i'm actually working on that right now i'm getting over my fear of spiders i i hate them guys i don't like them give me a stink bug give me a an ant i don't know there's a i'm i don't like bugs in the last uh i don't know three four months if i see one i'm really trying my hardest to figure out a way to either get it outside or kill it i'm sorry some i know i know sometimes i just have to do it or flush it down the toilet that's an option too so i figure out a fear and try to overcome it [Music] no spider was harmed in the making of this video that was a reason number seven is something we cannot do right now because we are in the year 2020 maybe you're watching this years in advance in which case i would really like to know what it's like because right now it's really weird and my suggestion though is when we can actually travel you should go somewhere with a bit of a culture shock i feel like everybody needs that in their life so for me i did that once and it honestly wasn't even that much of a culture shock so i need to this it's like more on my list of to do's but you know i went to paris it wasn't like paris is the city of love i mean everyone says like paris is amazing but the thing is it was the first country that i had actually i was i went to that we didn't really stay in like the nice part of town um you know it was everybody spoke a different language we were just we were very young it was like right when josh and i first got married and it was a huge culture shock it was like like i said the first place that i've ever been to where i didn't like everyone didn't speak my native language and i just felt very like out of sorts a bit you know and i just i don't know like it really impacted me so now i want to go somewhere even more culturally different i don't even know i'm not even sure exactly where but i just think it's something that everybody should make plans to do maybe not when we're in a pandemic but you get what i mean number eight is to break a bad habit i think by age 30 we should definitely recognize what bad habits we have and pick one to stop and i figured out a way to do mine which is we i'm gonna be so i'm gonna be super honest with you guys i had such a bad habit of picking my lips like if my lips are not like super smooth say there's like some pieces of skin hanging or whatever i don't have good lips i would find ways to like pick my lips like literally peel the skin off it sounds disgusting again i'm being so honest with you um it i'm probably not perfect at it but i have dramatically stopped doing that um and so like literally stop pause the video pause think of your bad habit and how you're gonna stop it okay now now keep watching the video number nine is to wow that looks nice i should have done that the whole time number nine is to see your favorite singer or band musical person if you're into music live i feel like that is something everybody should cross off their list again when we're in a pandemic that makes it hard but i did that and guys it's one of my all-time best memories i saw paul mccartney live in concert i am such a huge beatles fan you don't even understand how much i love the beatles and the fact that i was able to see paul mccartney live on stage still rocking it in his 70s literally um it's one of my all-time best memories of my life if you're into music at all go see your favorite person in concert you won't regret it i feel like it's just something that feeds your soul number 10 is something that i really think you should do and that is to write down everything that you want to accomplish it could be some things from this list maybe or maybe some other things you've come up with on your own but actually write them down like on a nice piece of paper like make it visually aesthetic and post it somewhere you will see it every single day every day and and maybe this is kind of like the secret or the what is it law of attraction i don't i don't know but if you visually see it every single day you are gonna figure out ways to make those goals happen i'm telling you you you'll look at it and be like how can i do that you'll figure it out on your own i just feel like it really comes down to you figuring it out for yourself and that's that's what it's all about going through life figuring things out so i really hope you enjoyed this video and found 10 things that you can work towards by the age of 30 or whatever age you want thank you so much for watching this video subscribe if you happen to be new and i will see you very soon in another one bye

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Length: 12min 10sec (730 seconds)

Published: Sat Jul 25 2020