04. Why Discernment is Your Secret Sauce to Success

we are living in a day and an age where we have so much information and that information completely conflicts most of the time I don't know whether you have found that but I've found that for sure and the thing that really got me thinking about this was I listened to a podcast Episode by Gala darling a fellow manifestor and something that really struck me that she said was that ultimately everything is made up everything every system every ideology every philosophy it has been made up and created by a human who is [Music] flawed hello my love and welcome back to another episode of activate your divine power so in this episode I want to talk about why discernment is your secret source to success we are living in a day and an age where we have so much information and that information completely conflicts most of the time I don't know whether you have found that but I've found that for sure and the thing that really got me thinking about this was I listened to a podcast Episode by Gala darling a fellow manifestor and something that really struck me that she said was that ultimately everything is made up everything every system every ideology every philosophy it has been made up and created by a human who is flawed it is taught by a human who is flawed and every time this information is passed on whoever is sharing it is bringing their own projections their feelings and their perspectives to what they're teaching including myself so I am you know coloring the information that I've heard from Gala darling and passing it on with my own flare to it so that is why we have so much conflicting information in the world and our job is to learn how to discern what is correct for us because I don't know about you but I stopped listening and watching the news years ago I'm not sure if I've ever been interested or watching the news I think that's probably part of who I'm here to be to hold the vision for a new world but there was a time when I did go into it and you know there's so much stuff that is like I don't want to make it about that but I know you get it I mean we're just being fed a lie continuously being fed a lie either intentionally or unintentionally by people who don't know better so anyway putting that aside ultimately there are 8 billion people on the planet let's say therefore there are 8 billion truths as well so what's true for you is not necessarily true for me there is obviously Divine truths that are true and applicable for all of us we are all United and we are all connected as one but at the same time we all have our own individual unique perspective on the world and how we see the world and it is specifically designed like that we are here to be unique to express ourselves uniquely with our own perspectives with our own truths with our own flavor and the way we see the world it's designed like that we're not supposed to agree with everybody we're not supposed to at all and we're supposed to agree to disagree and find each other fascinating and be like wow that's amazing what you've just said I'm not sure I completely agree but it's making me think about this in a bit of a different way so we're here to use those differences and individual Souls truth to cocreate and that is the beauty of all of this so like I said there is a Divine Truth for all of us but that must be accessed through the knowing of our soul and that is discernment so you know there is a collective highest truth which I believe we are going to be tapping into more and more as we evolve as Humanity evolves which I'm I'm here to help play my part in that Evolution and that Consciousness Rising but we are also here to decide and choose what's in alignment for us you know we're we're unique we get to choose that we get to say hey that's my truth and we get to share that truth and that is just an incredible incredible thing to to do and it's revolutionary because people don't they don't choose their truth they just get spoonfed something that they've been told is true and it's not because like I said you know everything in the world has been made up and or created by someone who is flawed and that also comes down to things that have been massively helpful tools for me on the path astrology and human design hugely hugely helpful I haven't quite G I've kind of dabbled with Jean keys I haven't really got in on it yet but even those systems are flawed they've been downloaded they've been you know intuited by flawed humans but I also believe that what they received at the time was what was needed to be shared so this is the other thing we need to come from a place of non-judgment nonattachment and just taking everything with a pinch of salt not blaming or shaming or Outsourcing our power and going you know what I'm going to take the bits that resonate with me that feel true true in my body I'm going to take that as truth and then everything else I'm going to leave and I'm not going to shame it I'm not going to blame it maybe it's Truth for someone else and that is amazing so we are really being called to lean into our discernment without judgment so allowing all the different flavors of truths to be available for us to pick and choose because we came here to express our Soul's truth in our divine power Co create our own individual World in a way that works completely and uniquely for us on our own terms and part of that is choosing what that world looks like choosing what those beliefs are choosing what information and you know how we want to show up in that world so this is all part of being a Divine Creator we came here to do this and it's freaking empowering to know that we have the power to do that so how to tell the difference between your ego and your soul so your ego is the one that is like you know you've got to believe that because if you don't believe that you know you're going to be ostracized you're going to be squeezed out you're going to all the things that our ego tells us to keep us safe because ultimately our ego is not safe now this is a kind of side tangent when I was thinking about this episode and I was like ah okay that's new to me I want to explore that maybe in another episode but just to say our ego is not safe and our ego projects that onto us that we're not safe the reason why it is not safe I'll save that for another episode but our ego is concerned with keeping us safe because then it's safe and it's concerned with time and comparison as amongst many other things but these are really really good hooks that it loves and you know social media has been completely built on comparison itis so anyway so kind of statements that your ego is going to say in related to time is you know I should have more clients by now I should be here wherever that is by now I should have done this by now I should have experienced that by now so all of this is basically saying that you are not where you should be by a certain time so it's all time related another one is your ego loves to remind you of the past and all the bad things that happened it's like oh you can't do that because you know that happened before and that happened a couple of times and if you carry on doing it again you know you're just going to get the same result and you know it keeps you in the past reminding you of all the times that you failed all the times that things bad things have happened and that's one of the mechanisms I know you know this but just a reminder and then obviously the other one which is time related is projecting the whatif Doomsday fears into the future so I just have recently done an episode on that so three perspectives shift so that you're not fearing the future and fearing what you're going to lose by having a future success so yeah if you're interested in that you can go back and listen to that but this is what the ego does IT projects that into the future and all those wh ifs and doomsday to keep you safe and then when it comes to comparison you know you got the classics she's more confident and attractive than me her business and offerings are better than mine all of these things that we use to beat ourselves up and to keep ourselves small to keep ourselves hiding to keep ourselves trapped in fear in separation in loneliness not shining our Divine Light bright and being the badass light leaders that we came here to be so this is our ego whereas our soul you know our soul is quiet and it's calm why is it quiet why is it calm because your soul knows it's safe ultimately your ego fears death your Soul knows it's infinite it's Eternal it has eternity when it comes to time because it is eternity it is all that is and it doesn't compare you to anyone or anything else because it knows that you're unique it comes from infinite abundance limitlessness infiniteness and it always speaks with love and with kindness and with compassion so when you are trying to figure out what is correct for you discernment is everything and I just want to bring a few different ways to you which you could use to tune into what is right for you so the first thing I would say is question everything everything that you hear everything that you're told everything you see question everything and run it through your body's wisdom your body is so wise it is so freaking wise so use it to discern what feels true to you and one of the ways you can do this is experiment with your human design Authority now I know that this is ridiculous because I've just said you can't trust any system and you can't however there is always some truth in everything and it's up to you to discern which bits are the truth and your bits are going to be different than someone else's bits so what I will say when it comes to human design is learning that I'm an emotional um manifestor has been hugely beneficial because I have the individual wave so I know that for me my I'm pretty much emotionally neutral for a while and then I'll have like a big up or a big down and the big up or the big down are the times when I am not to be making a decision and knowing that is hugely helpful and I've experimented with it I didn't take it on and just be like yes this is truth but I have experimented with that and I feel that that is true for me I am an emotional so that is something I would definitely invite you to look into because if it resonates with what your human design is saying as to how you make decisions your Authority is a really great place to start for making decisions and then I would also invite you to really discern which coaches which healers which self Discovery tools which healing modalities work for you because on top of that I would also say which ones resonate with you and give you a sense of your own power because I do feel like there's a lot of um people out there who are doing their best to help so don't get me wrong I'm not throwing any shame they're doing their best to help in the best way that they know how but there is also a level of codependency going on and I'm not here for that I'm holding space for you to heal yourself and I just want to invite you to remember never Outsource your direct connection to Divine Source make sure that whoever you're working with whatever modalities you are tuning into your soul which is your way to access Divine source as you're a unique spark your soul is a unique spark so when you tune into your soul it goes straight to Divine source so just remember to always make sure you're being held in spaces that Empower you and help you discover more of who you are so you can be the light leader that you came here to be without that codependency because when you're doing that you're Outsourcing your truth and that is not what we're here to do we're here to discern and we're here to lead ourselves like anyone who's going to make you feel like they're leading you no you're here to lead yourself you are freaking powerful and you are here to lead yourself so find those modalities that help you know you are leading yourself and finally just remember that you are always the authority on you always always always always so whenever someone says this is the way it's always done or this is how we need to be or this is how the way you know business should be done or whatever it is whether it's in your personal life in your business if you have one whatever it is you know you are here to create a life on your own terms a complete world that works for you as a unique soul in human form so you get to decide what that looks like you get to decide the rules and you get to inform others of how you work and that is going to be your secret source to success my love so that's it for for today thank you so much for being on this journey with me as we navigate all the highs and lows of this epic Human Experience and yeah I just invite you as always but particularly in this episode to take what resonates and leave the rest that is perfect that is divinely perfect so thank you so much my love until next time I love you so much we've got this and together we heal and rise [Music]

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Length: 15min 48sec (948 seconds)

Published: Wed May 29 2024