A textbook for success and special content from us, the library Premium Content. Watch both channels today, both YouTube membership and www.thelibrarylearn.com. Because learning will make you Freedom, this philosophy will make you live your life. Easier, philosophy of patience, I have a story. Let's tell you something before we get into it. This philosophy, once upon a time, there was a monk. One teacher and another group of students That teacher wants to teach his children. So the disciple took him on a long journey to meet him. Beauty while traveling but having children There is one student who is impatient and does not Able to be patient when encountering difficult situations It was a problem, so the Master wanted to teach. Something for this student in the episode That is, when the group of disciples and the master Had traveled a long distance and wanted to rest. Teacher Thani then told the student where she was going. Bring some water for us to drink, right here. There was a well, and it was likely that the disciples could drink from it. That said, you can do it, Teacher. The disciple walked over and walked towards the pond. But that student found it in the well. At first it seemed clear, right? Yes it is. A herd of cows passed by. Yes, I walked across that pond to that pond. It still had dust on the ground where it was. Underneath, oil was rising and it didn't look clean at all. Yes, and then I saw that I couldn't drink. The disciple saw this. So I walked back and told my teacher. I myself said, "Uh, Master, that's water." He sent me to scoop it up and still can't drink it. We didn't think that it could be drunk by monks. The teacher was quiet and looked at the students' faces. And without saying anything, the Master let him go. Some time had passed and he went to tell his disciples. The same person said that wherever she went, try walking. Look at the well and see if it's drinkable or not. The disciple was confused, so he did as the teacher said. When that student walked to the same pond. Still found that it was not clear and was still cloudy. It shouldn't be possible to drink, so the student walks. Returning to the Master again, the disciple also Said that the oil was still not drinkable. Originally, the master said it was okay. The student's face for a moment and then there was silence. After a while, the teacher walked towards the disciple like The same thing happened and then told me where her students had tried it. Please bring some water for us to drink, the disciples began. I'm already annoyed. I walked around 2 times and saw it. Even though he couldn't drink it, he still used it to scoop it up. The disciple then proceeded as the Master said, but for the third time, the water was clear from the first time when it was cloudy and oily. There is sediment all over the pond now. There it turned into clear still water. It's clean and you can drink it and your students will see it loudly. That seemed to give some ideas. So he scooped water up and gave it to the monk and said, Teacher, the water was cloudy at first. There's sediment all over the place, but why are we going back now? You can scoop it out and drink it. It looks very clean. So the Master said, "What did you see?" No, at first she went to look at that well. It's not clear, it's cloudy, you can't drink it, but when you... Let some time pass by. Those dirty things will fade away with time. Without doing anything at all, she might Irritated when she went to look at the well of But this is what we want to teach. Sometimes patience may be the solution. Sometimes it can be difficult to wait patiently. One of the most valuable strategies is to remember. This lesson, if you understand this, you will A person who is not impulsive every time. She's faced with a problem, so she won't make a decision too quickly. She will wait for time to pass for her mind to calm down. Be still first and then decide on it. happens, it will become a success in the end. The end of that is patience. This is the chapter. Studying where I learned about the philosophy of Patience, so I want to pass it on to you. Listeners, the story of patience is another thing. One that we heard when we were children. Believe it or not, who has the skill of patience? There will be a greater chance of success in life. People who don't have it, it's to that extent. From now on, I will take the listener to access. The philosophy of patience, if you have this philosophy in Your life will be understood and you can live it. More peacefully, let's start with the first point. The definition of pence. The definition of patience. Many of you listeners should probably I've heard this since I was a child, but you Listen, if you let me define the word good patience, As far as I've ever heard, I'll tell you this. Patience means withholding what we want. But we did not suffer what we had to endure. Even though we don't necessarily want that thing. Once in life, I will not give only things. As we want, sometimes life will test us. It may come in the form of other people or problems. It happens in life and somehow we escape. This cannot be avoided, but the important point is us. Have enough patience to stand the distance to take a step. Overcome problems that have been going on for so long This is the indicator that you will suffer. Success in life or not? This is the word. The definition that I like very much is one that I got right. Taught as a child why patience is so important? First of all, patience will keep you on top. My own dark heart, I said this. Think about financial psychology, listeners. Believe it or not, most people don't. They are poor because they have no money, but most people are poor. Because they earn money but do not have the ability to Money preservation, which is the ability to preserve money That is a matter of psychology, time. The more money people have, the more their greed will increase. According to the way of life, it will be as high as it is. It is a trap that is very difficult to overcome and most people Big is experiencing at the same time the anger of people. who doesn't have the patience to suppress anger over time Whatever problem he encountered, he would complain and he would scold. He will send negative energy to those around him. Ultimately, he doesn't have a good relationship anymore. He also had no happiness arising from not knowing. I will restrain my own anger. You see, this is the power of patience. But if you don't have patience, you will become a slave. Secondly, patience will make you yield. Take the uncertainty of life as an example. Yes, I believe that many listeners should have encountered this. This situation is in the morning when I go to work, some days I wake up. The line was in a hurry and when it came out of the house to get the car it was stuck in traffic. I felt angry about why the car had to be stuck on the road. In reality, we can't do anything, but we will. There are some people who encounter bad weather or traffic conditions. Even if you're addicted, you can still maintain your sobriety. If you have it, try studying philosophy from us. Because many people are encountering this problem, but if you have Patience will make you accept uncertainty. sleep of life, some days you may travel too Smoothness doesn't have any problems, but some days You may encounter obstacles along the way. Sometimes during work, some days you get compliments. Has created works for others to see only in some places One day you may have to be criticized for your Mistakes that happen can only be tolerated. That will make you accept the uncertainty of Here's the third thing: Patience has results. to equal or greater success in life than the skill of that person, this is not It's an exaggeration if you are someone who has Smart but lacks patience or the art of patience. Be patient, no matter what you do, it will come. A form of recklessness or recklessness that It's too much, sometimes you may suffer. It was successful because of luck but a lot of recklessness. Too much may change that good fortune. Bad luck in the end if you don't Patience This is the definition of patience that I I would like the listener to see the picture next. Philosophy number 2: Pent Is The Art of delay gratification. Patience is an art of delaying desire, this may be The only meaning that I want the listener to understand. I understand delaying desire if I say Even if one study is a reflection of hunger The best resistance is marshmallow research. Stanford University. I'll tell you later. Roughly, at that time the researcher Want to prove that people have patience? Children who can restrain their own feelings What kind of person will he be in the future? So he brings children One group came to sit in the room and took Marshmallow is placed in front of you but there is a problem. That group of students, if they could wait 15 minutes without touching or eating a marshmallow, After entering, he will receive 1 more marshmallow after that, which is for sure. Some kids saw the marshmallows and picked them up. Because it looks delicious to children. Something very special: Marshmallow and the kids. One group patiently waited for 15 minutes without eating any marshmallows. Those children might Going to capture, go to look at, go to spy on or do. or maybe some children are distracted The mind went to do something else. But the people who waited up to 15 minutes, the researchers say, were people who had the time Patience knows how to delay your own desires. So we continued researching when children As this group grows up, what will be their results? The research can be summarized like this. Children who can Slow down your self-restraint in experimenting. Try as he grows, he will tend to will be more successful than very happy than having the ability to create more works Because he has patience, so he concluded. You can say that patience is a means of restraint and delay. wanting or delaying one's own desires beforehand in order to receive even greater success. Bigger than later, so he said it like this: Pent is the capacity to accept or tolerate delay Trouble or suffering without getting Angry or upset. Patience is the ability to delay. needs and face problems without Surrender to negative emotions when encountering problems. Sometimes we are angry, sometimes we are upset. But if you can stay above that point, you will. Be the master of your life. Next, let's talk about Another philosophy is about patience. But there will be more humility than before. Yes, this is truly Tao Te's philosophy. Yes, for point number 3, Train wo strategy. If the listener has ever heard the story of the Tao philosophy. You should be familiar with this word: woy wo. What is woy? Conquering the problem by doing nothing. Summary It's like this. Sometimes you can let Problems solve themselves because the world keeps turning. When everything around you is dynamic. Or is it moving even now? Suppose that you, the listener, are sitting in your seat. There are still people going to work around you. There is still a car to drive and it has everything dynamic. all the time, so it means that even sometimes You won't be doing anything, but that can be. Another strategy to actually solve this problem. I use it often. Listeners have heard of it. The sentence says that sometimes some problems just need to be used. Sometimes healing just takes time. Treatment that you may not have to do anything at all. I encountered a situation like that in real life sometimes. It's like that, he said, sometimes waiting And not taking action may be a choice. More powerful than any action, this art uses Patience is an important variable. Wuwei, I will give myself. Like when I was managing an organization. When I encounter any problems, I have rules. One point that I use for myself but I don't. I use it every time when I encounter a big problem. Will you let time pass before 24 hours and then come to solve the problem and then take action? I don't hurry with big decisions. It's a big problem. If I'm in a hurry, almost 90% of the time, I'll regret the decision. I wanted to go back and fix it, so I came to another conclusion, which came from W. When encountering a problem or Frustration and you don't know what you will How to solve the problem? Letting just 1 day pass may give you clearer thoughts. Obviously, sometimes it's better than taking reckless action. Doing it and meeting disaster is like letting go. Allow yourself to go with the flow at certain times. Sometimes forcing is not an option. Be smarter. Philosophy number 4: Patience is the First path of strategy. Patience will make you know how to plan before thinking. This one makes me think of Phichai's textbook. War, generals who have no patience for No matter how skilled and skilled you are, when you have to go Fighting with anger or greed, the last of the generals that will lead the army or country to meet I'm embarrassed because I lack patience. The Victory War textbook states this very often. Only according to Sun Tzu, if you lack patience, you will Become a slave to fear and anger. easily and if you are a slave to things Those successful and found lives As for happiness, let's not talk about it at all. Because try to notice when the listener doesn't Can tolerate anger or sometimes you just can't. Able to cope with his own mental state. And then you took me to blame like that, blame like that Or take it out with someone else, who will it be in the end? I am a person who is sad and in the end it came back. That we are beyond patience, anger, greed. Regret, disappointment, perhaps, resolution Or taking action may not be possible. What can make things better besides letting go? Time has passed or you have been patient for a while and that It's important if the listener is a person who has fasting. You can delay your desire when you want to do it. Being big or doing something that it influences Your life will be a person who likes to plan. You will be. People who plan before you act and when you have a plan. Parentheses, even if everything doesn't work out Follow the plan, but you will know when the situation arises. What tools will you use to solve this problem? Because you already have a plan in place. This is philosophy number 4. Patience will make you Be a planner and be able to create a vision. that can be greater later. Philosophy number 5: be Above External Event. You will have power over the event. Be aware of this and may you have patience. Endure because the inner mind will have more influence than the cause. Always outside events. This is a saying from the Stoic philosophy of Mr. Marcus Oras. You have Power Over your mind not outside Event. This is another saying that I often use it to remind myself that you will always have The power within the mind is always because of suffering and All the haste, it doesn't come from The external situation comes from within, let's say. You, the listener, are doing something and feeling that it had to be rushed, there was a lot of haste So in that area, try stopping and thinking about it. That feeling of rush may not come from The outside world may come from you. That's the point of being angry at something that isn't what you wanted. Which will definitely happen often and may not be done. Let you find peace in your life. Somehow returning focus to the inner world of It itself will bring you great peace. even though nothing has changed in the outside world Whether it's a miracle or not, this is it. The power of the inner world just requires practicing patience. Then you will not be a slave to haste. or the rush in which the modern world is born Philosophy number 6 patents Build your perseverance Patience will always build discipline and perseverance for you if You start with this, success comes from Developing yourself a little each day is nothing. Any lasting success in this world is created internally. Overnight if you, the listener, are someone who likes In developing yourself, I believe that almost 100% you will hear this word regularly. Discipline must be done. What does it take day after day to succeed? Little by little, I believe that everyone will succeed. You will always hear this, sir, and patience. This will be the beginning of regulation. Discipline that we have been talking about since the last 2-3 years, discipline is something. That is very important to success because Success is not an easy thing. Success must come from some action. routinely day after day without Concerning whether you want to do it or not, just Just because you saw that it was meaningful, you signed up. Handmade and disciplined will keep you from Aborted in the middle of pregnancy right here. Discipline It has to go with patience, sometimes you wake up. In the morning you feel like you don't want to work. You have to do it even though it's very important. According to you, if you have patience, you will not let go. Laziness or negative emotions take over. It's the discipline within you that is important. Yes, if you listeners try to observe in today's world. Look carefully, we often see the value in achieving success. If you succeed quickly at this age you must have that. To have something like this, success must be created quickly. Hurry and scoop it out so it makes us addicted to the feeling. that we must be successful Because everything is changing so fast It's really beyond the realm of success. There will be no way to truly stand and be prosperous. It can happen overnight or within. For a short period of time it must be done gradually. Gradually create results and then you gradually use them. The results are compounded over time. It takes a lot of patience and discipline. Yes, it's not sexy, it's not flashy, but that's it. It's the best way for another matter. One is that most people when they do something As you can see, the patience of today's people It literally diminishes attention focus. Important work is diminished because of them. Not seeing immediate results as seen in the modern world Fanned it for them to see, but that's it. Yes, that is the reason why a small percentage of people Be a successful person if you listen. Doing something and you feel it It is very difficult for me to endure and continue. There is a philosophy that I would like the listeners to try collecting and creating. Inspiration for yourself, this philosophy. It is called the philosophy of growing bamboo trees in Growing bamboo trees from sowing the seeds Watering and cultivating the soil, farmers or gardeners Taking care of bamboo plants is said to be the most difficult thing. Growing bamboo doesn't take a long time. growth, but in its initial 5 year period, it did not show any results at all. No matter how much you water and till the soil, within 5 years it will not grow for you. I see that until it's 5 years old it will start. It grows into a tree and becomes a garden. It eventually became a beautiful bamboo tree. So the garden tells you that it will take 5 years before you will see results. The results are very difficult and you will easily give up. But if at least within 1 year the bamboo tree shows little by little growth, it will This is not difficult, this is the philosophy involved. with the reality of life, sometimes life is It's no different from planting bamboo trees. Listen to doing something and then know that it will happen. It is success that you have defined. Maybe in the first 2 years, first 3 years, to the first 5 years you may Haven't seen any results, you don't have a name. Your voice doesn't bring any wealth back, but It does not mean that what you have done. Before it was ineffective, it still had its effect. It has accumulated and compounded its success. But the point is, we all have moments. To get the framework for raking in the results of one's success It depends on when, sometimes we don't have it. I know but I only ask for one thing: don't stop watering. Never stop tilling the soil because if you If you stop working on the bamboo tree of success, it won't grow. So no matter how much you try to do it, Previously, therefore, asked Gabe's philosophy of Tonpai is a philosophy for creating success. with everyone's lives. Finally, number 7, you have to be patience but but Always tolerant With other. You must be patient but please understand. One thing: not everyone needs to be fasted. Be as tolerant as you are into the intolerance of others. Things you can't control, understand things. Then be lenient with those things, but just You must discipline yourself in this matter. That it is a point that makes us very humble. Yes, we have patience, we have discipline, but However, sometimes we may be unintentional. Our philosophy is to teach others and ask: Other people listen to me, almost the opposite. Big may even resist, so making Others saw it as an example without having to go. Teaching him might be the best option. And it works because in the end, humans will see themselves as As you can see, it will be the same as the teachings if anyone Or the people around you don't have any patience. Perseverance without humility is okay. Let them go, but you, the listener, must be. People who are humble and patient Always this will make you live a dignified life. Beautiful, and all of this is the philosophy of Patience that I bring to the listeners in this The Philosophy Episode since The story from the beginning to the creation process Patience defines patience in the end, hopefully. It will make everyone have this philosophy to push forward. As always, success in my own life. Yes, if you, the listener, have listened up to this point. And the team would like to thank and be honored. The more we have the opportunity to learn together. And as always, if the listener wants to use Time to learn more deeply through Read through the content that we have selected for you. 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